Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

I am in middle school and i have started a relationship (bf/gf) with this girl. I find it strange how class mates always ask did you kiss her? did you hold her hand? and so on. So if that is the norm, am i having a slow relationship? and is that a bad thing? We havent hugged held hands or any of those things they talk about. But i do know we like eachother very much. May i have your opinions?

2007-03-27 18:39:48 · 15 answers · asked by hello 3 in Singles & Dating

We both have children from previous marriages. Neither of us is wealthy or have much savings. I own farm land which has the potential of being very valuable due to gas and oil exploration a few miles away. Neither of us is retired.

2007-03-27 18:39:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i DID really really extremely like this guy.. but then when i Did he blew me off for what was supposed to be our second date.. because he said it didn't feel right and he didn't know what to do because he liked this other girl that lived in a different state. so then i just gave up on him and stuff... but then like a week or so after that he starts flirting with me again and stuff... and then he asked me on dates again. after he Explained everything to me about this girl. but Now when we go on dates it doesn't necessarily feel Wrong.. it just doesn't feel Right. i feel like i've lost that deep like that i had before. and also it's because i kindof feel like he is just using me, since he can't have her. and he is always up and down and i don't know if i can handle it... (but i also found out tonight he has bipolar disorder.) so i don't know what to do. it just isn't the absolute GREATEST chemistry... but i really like his personality and everything.

2007-03-27 18:38:29 · 6 answers · asked by sweetaction 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 18:37:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

....about marriage??? I dont know about you but im not so sure you've been dating the right person! Why so reluctant with marriage??? JOE B: this one's especially for you...
im watching you mate ;)

2007-03-27 18:36:37 · 18 answers · asked by Val­­® 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well she says she likes this guy.hes shy and stuff..they both like each other..but he hasnt asked her out yet..what should she do or say?? she likes him a lot

2007-03-27 18:36:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I don't think Dutch girls like americans ? I like the idea live and let live.I like Magic mushrooms,herb etc and sex .Yes a hot tub ,is fun too.But how does an american guy find dutch or american for that matter that likes to party and is open about sex.Am I the only free spirit that is alive that wants more then just sex ? I want love and marriage too.

2007-03-27 18:34:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How does this effect your standing in society as a equal? What about simple things like pulling out chairs & opening doors. When I say provide for, I don't mean a partnership of housewife/ income provider. But a woman who wants their bills paid for, money to go shopping, and gifts all the time? If a woman and a man earned relatively the same income, should the man still be expected to pay all the bills in the relationship. Why about on dates? and why?

2007-03-27 18:34:00 · 20 answers · asked by NativeAtlantean 5 in Singles & Dating

he's early 20s, college educated, live with parents, kinda cute and lived continents away from me. i think he is depressed about it.

2007-03-27 18:33:54 · 4 answers · asked by aishah 5 in Friends

Having a beach theme wedding have some ideas but dont want to forget anything any one got some cheap but great ideas???

2007-03-27 18:33:37 · 12 answers · asked by devangel11 2 in Weddings

i have this guy i'm really interested in, it's been 2 months and i am falling really hard for him. we have a lot of fun together and i'm always the one he calls to relieve his stress and when he has good news. he is going through a lot right now and i'm afraid to ask right now if this is going anywhere. he calls me his friend when he introduces me to his friends, i only get a hug good bye, but when we are alone he refers to me as the girl he is dating, calls me dear and sweetheart. i know he is afraid of getting hurt, and wants to take things slow, but my feelings are getting involved and i don't want to get hurt either. does this have potential to go somewhere or am i waiting for heartbreak?

2007-03-27 18:32:39 · 9 answers · asked by vickyvixencanada 1 in Singles & Dating

and I am heartbroken. I'm happy for him. How can I get over this?

2007-03-27 18:32:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why cant it be that, when its hot the red line moves down and cold the red line moves up??

2007-03-27 18:31:09 · 22 answers · asked by Bluebird 1 in Singles & Dating

so this guy and i have become good friends.. and he has liked me for a long time i guess.. we've been on like 3 dates.. but after our first one he stood me up.. because he said he didn't like me like that anymore and that he liked some girl that lives in a different state. so i was like okay.. and was a little hurt about it and all. but so Then lately he wrote me and explained everything.. and i guess all of a sudden realized he still liked me Too. but he didn't know what to do about it... and he told me he would tell me who he chose today, but he never did. but we went on a date tonight and he told me he has manic bipolar disorder (just when we were talking..) and so should you stay away from a guy who is not emotionally stable like this..?? i don't know if i can handle his ups and downs so drastically. anyone Know anything about that disorder either that can explain more fully for me? and i don't know if i really like him like That as much anymore due to the feeling of him using me..

2007-03-27 18:31:04 · 29 answers · asked by sweetaction 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I have this neighbor who is friends with my brother. Well my neighbor is home at night time with nothing to do. I'm the same way. Last night we decieded to hang out. So we went to his house and played cards for a little. With some inoccent flirting then. After that we went inside for like 5-10mins then back outside in the back yard. We sat on the seat swing he had and just hung out. We talked a lot and flirted a lot. He asked for a back massage and I gave it to him. Then he volenterred to give me one. So I let him. Well he did it romantically. He asked to be b/f g/f but secretly. He's a little older then me so I suppose he doesn't want any trouble. I keep thinking he just wants to get sex from me. I'm unsure though. He kept saying him n his last g/f went out for 4yrs. He walked me back to my house at the end of the night. He called me as soon as I got in the house. I'm confused as to if he likes me or just wants some. He kept hugging on me but didn't try to kiss me.

2007-03-27 18:30:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I tell her or hint to her that I'm not and don't want to be her best friend??

2007-03-27 18:30:28 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet BK 1 in Friends

Now I want your most honest answer here.
I know that most will say love ...

2007-03-27 18:30:00 · 18 answers · asked by john c 1 in Singles & Dating

Well you see i love my friends to death but sometimes it feels like they use me alot. I want to stay friends but im tired of being used everyday. What do i do? without hurting people's feelings too much.

2007-03-27 18:29:58 · 3 answers · asked by Jaime 1 in Friends

2007-03-27 18:29:38 · 2 answers · asked by thakur_4_143 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for five months. He's 25 and I'm 18. He's been engaged before (about a year and a half ago) and we're currently talking about moving in together.
My question lies within this problem...
We've seen each other almost EVERYDAY for the past five months. Lately, (the past two weeks) we've only seen each other like 3 days. I go home after work (instead of driving over) because he's tired but when I get home I feel like breaking down. Like things have changed....
Anyway to deal with this depression? I've talked to him about it but he thinks I'm overreacting. I just feel so sad when I can't see him.

2007-03-27 18:28:54 · 5 answers · asked by Gustergusher 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 18:28:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sorry to keep bring this up but i just don't understand how my husband could just up and leave his wife and newborn baby for a high school girl. and to boot his father is standing by him in his actions. (he also abandoned his family)
my soon to be X never calls never drives by never shows one once of care tourd his daughter or me. even though while we were married he swore he would be a GREAT father! i just can't grasp how heartless he is. we were together 3 years and i have never seen him like this! He has become SO selfish! I am so angry and feel so betrayed I even lost 3 friends due to his actions. does anyone have any advice for me on how to get over what he has done!

2007-03-27 18:28:23 · 18 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

okay.. this year is my senoir year, and i ended up dropping out.I regret it, but my brother went to jail.. my mom got another divorce. My dad is very verbally abusive towards me. I had to get out. I want to go back next year and the transfer to a university!!! should I?

2007-03-27 18:27:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

make theirs to look like they are little hotties, which not every one of them are. So why do they do it?

2007-03-27 18:27:39 · 6 answers · asked by Modus Operandi 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 18:27:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how would you handle the situation?give me some ideas please!!!!

2007-03-27 18:26:52 · 19 answers · asked by Paula E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know, I sound pathetic. I'm still a virgin (relax, i meant kiss virgin), and my friend and I want a boyfriend. we're 13, and all the guys in our school is stupid, ugly and weird. I just hate that we females mature so much faster than males. *sighs* so any ideas as to how meet new guys or find the better side of guys?

2007-03-27 18:26:37 · 10 answers · asked by ohemgee545 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 18:26:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Or are they quickly looking for another daddy for their kids??

2007-03-27 18:26:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We both married say we will not have an affair rinterestead. however at work we are always joking talking, going for coffee. When talking to me she often touches me and often hesitates touching me like kicks my feet or keeps proding me to get my attention. When we work we work but when we play we do just as hard. When talking to me she is often in my space and most of the time when walking past my office looks in and sometime runs past pretending not to look. When on the phone we talk and one of us will say we have to go or don't u have to go then we talk even more. We from time to time talk personal. . Generally she will always sit next to me in meetings. . Also we r more touchy (nervously) and complimentary or critical both negative and positive. I got a com re my weight On the neg comments I ask why and she say also neg with her man, so whats the problem thats the way she is. She appears often nervous and in a hurry round me. Nervous or avoidance or scared

2007-03-27 18:25:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating