Okay, I have this neighbor who is friends with my brother. Well my neighbor is home at night time with nothing to do. I'm the same way. Last night we decieded to hang out. So we went to his house and played cards for a little. With some inoccent flirting then. After that we went inside for like 5-10mins then back outside in the back yard. We sat on the seat swing he had and just hung out. We talked a lot and flirted a lot. He asked for a back massage and I gave it to him. Then he volenterred to give me one. So I let him. Well he did it romantically. He asked to be b/f g/f but secretly. He's a little older then me so I suppose he doesn't want any trouble. I keep thinking he just wants to get sex from me. I'm unsure though. He kept saying him n his last g/f went out for 4yrs. He walked me back to my house at the end of the night. He called me as soon as I got in the house. I'm confused as to if he likes me or just wants some. He kept hugging on me but didn't try to kiss me.
2007-03-27 18:30:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to know your opionion as to if he likes me or wants something else. I told him i haven't had sex yet and don't plan to until I'm in a long relationship. I'm 17 and he's in his early 20's like 21-22. Well what are your thoughts.
2007-03-27 18:32:16 · update #1
He says he likes me because I'm mature but at the same time he's telling me I have a nice body. Most guys who say that to me usually just want sex.
2007-03-27 18:33:18 · update #2
He also wanted me to come over tonight I didn't though because it ended up raining. That and I didn't know what to think.
2007-03-27 18:34:27 · update #3
He wants to get in your pants. If he was really interested in you and really wanted to date you, and wanted more than to stick his d i c k in you, he wouldn't have suggested being boyfriend/girlfriend secretly.
He sound pretty slimy trying to take advantage of him. Play him if you want, but be careful. I would suggest moving on to boys who are really interested in you as a person not an outlet for their sexual pleasure.
2007-03-28 11:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When it comes down to it, the guy wants some sex. just do not be used as a booty call, classic setup for a booty call im tellin ya what he's tryin to do is act all sweet & nice but as soon as u fall for his act. he will try to sweet talk u into having sex and frankly alot of college guys are out there trying to get some *** you gotta give it some more time, soon u will find out his real agenda. Who knows he might be lookin for a booty call or might be a legit guy. Time will tell
2007-03-28 02:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by the maxican 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you just want to be friends for a while and take it slow because youre not sure about a relationship with him just yet. if he doesnt prusue that too heavily, then all he wanted was sex and you need to get away from him. if hes willing to be your friend for a while before being your boyfriend, then he might be a keeper. keep an eye out for how he acts around you. dont let him pressure you into anything. my guess is that he's just out to get a piece, so be cautious.
2007-04-04 20:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by .life.love&happiness. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have this conversation with him. Don't commit to anything that you aren't completely comfortable with. If all he wants is sex, that's where he'll keep trying to steer things. And when he doesn't get it, he'll be gone.
2007-03-28 01:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by markmccloud_1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you considering dating someone who is nearly 4-5 years older. That to most people would imply that he just wants you. Think about it.....
2007-03-28 01:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by happy2bdalucky1 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He's too old for you. You can't get into bars yet and he can. Let him find someone his own age. You need to spend time with guys closer to your own age. He wants to take advantage of your inexperience.
2007-03-28 01:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by Q.A. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Brake it off and don't look back he just wants sex!
2007-03-28 01:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by sean e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋