so i DID really really extremely like this guy.. but then when i Did he blew me off for what was supposed to be our second date.. because he said it didn't feel right and he didn't know what to do because he liked this other girl that lived in a different state. so then i just gave up on him and stuff... but then like a week or so after that he starts flirting with me again and stuff... and then he asked me on dates again. after he Explained everything to me about this girl. but Now when we go on dates it doesn't necessarily feel Wrong.. it just doesn't feel Right. i feel like i've lost that deep like that i had before. and also it's because i kindof feel like he is just using me, since he can't have her. and he is always up and down and i don't know if i can handle it... (but i also found out tonight he has bipolar disorder.) so i don't know what to do. it just isn't the absolute GREATEST chemistry... but i really like his personality and everything.
2007-03-27 18:38:29 · 6 answers · asked by sweetaction 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Didn't you just ask this question? Being bipolar has nothing to do with why he doesn't want to be with you. Being bipolar doesn't make you act like a selfish jerk. In fact, I'd really question if he's even bipolar. Very few people are even bipolar. People just know the word and use it as an excuse. Unless you see some medical documents, I'd say he's lying. He likes someone else but, he wants to keep you in mind just in case it doesn't work out. Unless you want to deal with being stood up and him liking some chick that lives in another state, go after him. If you want a real relationship with someone then I suggest you find someone different. This guy is all but telling you he's into someone else but you're obsessing over it anyway. If someone stands you up, they basically have no respect for you, bipolar or not.
2007-03-27 18:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should move on he had his chance and blew it just say we can be friends but that is all and enjoy his friendship just don't expect it to turn into anything serious that way you'll get to find out where his head really is good luck
2007-03-28 01:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by shyababy05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then try to ask him if he likes you the way you like him.you need time to know a person very much. it wouln't take a second.thus keep on until you are so sure bout your feeling.good luck
2007-03-28 01:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by dandelion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guessed it right - the guy's just using you. Stop now before it gets out of hand.
2007-03-28 01:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by majika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will never be able to make up his mind and stuff
2007-03-28 01:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by uuummk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So , be his friend friend
Not his lover friend .
Happens a lot in life . . .
2007-03-28 01:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋