how would you handle the situation?give me some ideas please!!!!
2007-03-27 18:26:52 · 19 answers · asked by Paula E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd find someone new and hope for happiness. However, I sure would wanna kill that motherfu cker.
2007-03-27 18:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by manbearpig 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call her a best friend , that's for sure. Friends like that, you don't need enemies. HIS BEST FRIEND is more like it. I would leave them both. It's not worth it. I know, easier said than done. You deserve better. You can be a success without either one of them at whatever you set out to do. Cheaters and Liars are the last thing you need. Take it easy. Talking to family members can sometimes help you as far as feelings etc. Take Care
2007-03-27 18:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. & Mrs, RICK & KRIS C & H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the main thing is NOT TO STOOP TO THEIR LEVEL!
If he did then I am sure it wasn't the fist time meaning he does not understand what a relationship is all about and probably did this to whomever he was with before you.
Look,.....the bottom line here is your better off without BOTH of them!
Happiness is the best revenge!
Get out there and find a GOOD man because they are out there and will treat you right as long as you don't do anything that would prevent that like knocking the Sxxx out of them like they deserve! (are you smiling yet?)
'K cool!
peace,.....c dog from Indiana
2007-03-27 18:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Craig B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your better than that! show em and leave. Don't let no one bring your self esteem down. The best thing to do is forgive and forget move on and not look back. Don't be angry. He's not yours anymore. And by the way that is not your best friend anymore. Your friendship ended a long time ago.
2007-03-27 18:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by gi joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Paula, such a discovery can be shattering. When you're in a committed relationship you expect your partner to be as committed as you. If this isn't the case, then you need to have a talk with your partner. Ask if he wants to continue your relationship or if he wants to get out of your relationship. Ask yourself the same question. Does staying in the relationship honor you? It's not a question of trusting him, you know whether you can do that or not. It's a question of what you want out of the relationship. You decide.
2007-03-27 18:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to handle that. Your life is going to be a mess for a long time. You will never be able to forgive either. Sorry, but things are just going to sucks for a long while
2007-03-27 18:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by sbeaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to try to save this marriage? If so, get your husband to go for counseling with you. Of course, the best friend has to be history.
If you don't want to save the marriage, just walk away from them both.
2007-03-27 18:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey been there .Get rid of him,and your friend.He is not worth it and if he cheated on you then he will on her to.Also she really wasn't your friend or she would not have been with him. Find you a caring man that will care enough about you he won't cheat. Believe me there is someone out there for you.
2007-03-27 19:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by betty_blevins2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick 'em both to the curb, get yourself a makeover and a spa day, and find a loyal sidekick (dogs are fun)!
Don't subject yourself to people who bring you down anymore - you deserve way more than that!
2007-03-27 18:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mauisnj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both!! Life is too short to be treated like that...besides there are lots of other men out there who ARE faithful and who needs a friend like that anyway!!!
2007-03-27 19:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What r the options? Either wait for the infatuation to wear out or walk out of ur marriage.
2007-03-27 19:03:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋