i have this guy i'm really interested in, it's been 2 months and i am falling really hard for him. we have a lot of fun together and i'm always the one he calls to relieve his stress and when he has good news. he is going through a lot right now and i'm afraid to ask right now if this is going anywhere. he calls me his friend when he introduces me to his friends, i only get a hug good bye, but when we are alone he refers to me as the girl he is dating, calls me dear and sweetheart. i know he is afraid of getting hurt, and wants to take things slow, but my feelings are getting involved and i don't want to get hurt either. does this have potential to go somewhere or am i waiting for heartbreak?
2007-03-27 18:32:39 · 9 answers · asked by vickyvixencanada 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to ask him why he says one thing to you and another in front of everyone else. Be careful how you say it...don't attack him but just casually tell him that you enjoy being with him and need to know if he takes your relationship seriously. It is a tricky balance, you don't want to scare him off....but you also don't want to waste your time. Do what feels right, love is a gamble...there is never a way to know for sure but don't miss out on a good thing by being over cautious...you never know what's around the corner!
2007-03-27 18:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him why he doesn't refer to you as the girl he is dating all the time and see what he says sometimes guys don't like to put labels on things to fast and maybe he doesn't see it as really important to tell his friends yet when you two are just dating but if it bothers you i would ask him the reason why he doesn't and tell him how it makes me feel and see if he' d start introducing you as the girl he is dating good luck
2007-03-28 01:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by shyababy05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now he just says his "friend" so i would not fall to hard when hes ready we will call u his g-friend, the potential for something more is there but don't rush him if he is truly going threw something rough his mind just hasn't figured it out, but don't run away ether, give him time to do what it is to take care of his life and if he still doesn't see that u were there for him threw thick & thin then he never will
2007-03-28 01:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he's been through some stuff. i'd say that you probably have something here, but you'll have to take it slow. obviously he likes you because he hangs out with you and stuff. but at the same time he's really cautious. so thats what i think you should do. take a chance at it it sounds like it could be a good thing, just take it slowly and easy
2007-03-28 01:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is way too early to try and put this one in a box.
It may go somewhere and it may not.
Chill out and try not to get too overboard yet.
Enjoy him, and be his friend but ease up on the expectations . . . that can put things in a bad place .
2007-03-28 01:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it sounds like the beginning of a relationship.
2007-03-28 01:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you asked him why he introduces you as a friend but calls you his girlfriend in private?
2007-03-28 01:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by blueJay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will not know until you tell him exactly what you think and feel and then see and hear his response then and only then will you know.
2007-03-28 01:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by ansearcher@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you tell him how you feel? maybe he need more time to know how he feels
2007-03-28 01:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by Doug T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋