Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

We have been on and off for 12 years. Mostly off, a lot of fighting, etc. We have 2 daughters (7 and 11). He won't get the hint, or the cement block I have thrown to get out and stay out. I moved into my aunt's just to get away from him. He knows I am seeing someone else. But he still gets up every morning and calls like nothing happened. He calls me 50 times a day, we always argue. How do I sever the relationship tie, but keep the door open for him to see his girls. In the past he has refused to see them if we were broken up. He has tried to guilt trip me, threaten suicide, leavign town, not seeing the kids, etc to get me to let him stay. I am tired of fighting and so are my girls. What can I say or do that will make him understand that we don't work and our relationship is OVER?

2007-03-27 19:43:21 · 14 answers · asked by famurattla 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 19:42:54 · 3 answers · asked by yahyamadmax 1 in Singles & Dating

Tell your story, if you have done it at Disney or any other park.

2007-03-27 19:42:26 · 13 answers · asked by TantraGoddess 2 in Singles & Dating

The sex stopped last fall. She has shaved her privates bald, but keeps that detail hidden from view (Why wax the car if you not letting anyone ride in it?). I've tried spying on phone calls & tried to find any inconsistencies w/ when & where she's supposed to be --- Nothing! The closest thing I've found is a strange ph# on the cell phone from a city 60 miles away - just once.
Cheaters sometimes start fights in order to have excuse to leave marriage, but she hasn't. She hasn't initiated any conversation about the lack of sex either. Nearly all else is normal in our lives - JUST NO SEX!
I know hormones can play havoc w/ a woman's libido, but I don't think this is the case.
It doesn't make sense. I'm still attentive & treat her very well, waiting on her every whim.
Tell me ladies, if you're not getting sex from your man, are you getting it somewhere else? What would make you stop?
Or does someone need to slap my cheek and yell, "Wake up, dumbass!"

2007-03-27 19:40:25 · 5 answers · asked by faith_no_more86 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was thinking some kind of book that talks about how people just get better with time, just to be kinda lighthearted since she's turning the big 8-0. Any suggestions on a book like this, or any other suggestions? I really appreciate it!

2007-03-27 19:40:25 · 10 answers · asked by christina rose 4 in Family

2007-03-27 19:39:57 · 13 answers · asked by Gane 2 in Friends

I am wondering what you thought the first time you wore a thong. Did you like it or was it like a wedgie? Did you feel sexy or stupid? Elaborate. thanks

2007-03-27 19:39:33 · 16 answers · asked by Britney R 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

If i meet a new guy and he asks me out or invites me out that night,, i always say i have plans and ill get back to them when im free, even if i sit home doing nothing the whole night. I am suspicious of new guys and will be highly cautious when i go out with the, guys will even comment that im being very cautious..

I like to think about going out with someone-if im making the right choice.
My friends say im too serious and should let loose,

I've had some bad experencies with guys in my past, i think its why i take extra caution now, am i wrong, are my friends right?

2007-03-27 19:38:51 · 6 answers · asked by Jetglam 1 in Singles & Dating

Its and in law and I am keeping very low tech, as the person in question is very snoopy and searches for me over the internet all the time they even quit their job to stay at home and constantly search for me, what I am to do this person emails me constantly and even though I continue to try to ignore it, this person keeps it up as if its were some game, I have dealt with this person for several years now, this person in no blood, other then in law .... I know some in laws don't get along but I get along with all mine but this person , this person turned this persons partner againest me, when we used to get along out of friendship and nwo we hate each other, on top of all this this person emails me threating harsh and very disturbing emails, as well as calls non stop over and over my family on my husbands side believes this person to be pyscho and needs help, This person would come over all hours over the night , and this person does these things just to see a reaction from me,

2007-03-27 19:37:59 · 11 answers · asked by Miley J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I keep telling them she will catch on. No need to rush things. Our society wants everyone on the same progress chart. What's the big deal? Am I wrong?

2007-03-27 19:37:34 · 11 answers · asked by Greed...Is Good 3 in Friends

my daughter likes to dress sexy and she usually will wear a short skirt and tank top which looks really sexy. however even though i got her to wear a push up bra i cant get her to wear a thong ever since i found out abercrombie and fitch makes ones for 12 years old ive been trying to get her to and she wont. how can i make her dress sexier?

2007-03-27 19:37:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi! So I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. I am having some trouble because I feel like the "spark" is gone and I am struggling to get the motivation to work on this. I am not sure where our relationship is going - we lived together for a year, and I was unhappy, and moved out. I am struggling to figure out what the next "step" is for our relationship-I have asked him repeatedly to get married, and he says that he is not ready yet, but can see us getting married in the future. Question-should i try living with him again and hope that it brings us closer together (and save a ton on rent)? and, how long do I have to wait for him to propose? I am an impatient, take charge kind of girl so I am not good at just spending years "waiting".

2007-03-27 19:36:55 · 16 answers · asked by gigi 1 in Singles & Dating

Long story, but I like a guy and things were going well until some compeition appeared. I have been advised by his friends to 'step up my game', does anyone have suggestions on how?

2007-03-27 19:36:38 · 4 answers · asked by Jane 1 in Singles & Dating

do you think sex is a core sissue in a relationship.

2007-03-27 19:35:50 · 16 answers · asked by Bored 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i m rahul a gay, I have 2man in my life Simon n Benjamin i have to be loyel wid any one of them, both r loves me lot, i cant deside that wid whom i can go, thay dun know about eachother, i want to be wid one of them, i cant leave anybody, i also love so much, so pls help me to find out right way

2007-03-27 19:35:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 19:34:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is what I notice in the brain of some girls after being asked by boys and also in some guys after being asked the same question by other girls.
The Question is "Hello, How are you?".
Brain Works Like THis for both (guys n gurls)

1> oh here is that selly question most people start with, I wonder is he/she thinks of me as a sex object.
2> whay he/she dress like that, is he/she try to make a good impression.
3> oh, why he/she smiling to me, oh he/she keeps stare at me
4> oh , he/she is a little nervous, maybe he/she thinks I am wierd or somthing.
5> oh, what shall I respond to him/her.
6> I wonder what my friends would say after this.
7> I think Im very popular.
8> maybe I should answer in a smart way, so he/she knows im smart.. ok be cool be cool.
9> oh, what was the question again?
10> oh im hungry.
11> I think he/she is okey.. maybe I ask him/her out.
12> Does he/she thinks im a fool.?
13> Oh ,i forgot to fix my hair, ,,Oops say somthin,ohh
"Hi, how are you too"

2007-03-27 19:31:46 · 10 answers · asked by AMERO 1 in Singles & Dating

Life can be very unfair. I got to know this lady while working oversea. It is typical of married or divorced ladies in this trade. But this lady work in this trade after a failed relationship. Her parents actually wanted her to go abroad to open her horizon and know other guys. However, jobs are not easy to come by and she went into the oldest trade of the world without her family aware of it. She is a nice lady with a kind heart. And she loves children. Honestly I have also fallen for her. But with my married status, it is not possible to give her a future. So the next best thing that I could do is to help find happiness for her.

2007-03-27 19:31:42 · 3 answers · asked by Samaritan 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello!
I like a boy who has just recently exited a 5 year relationship. Things were moving along with him and I but the girlfriend is back on the scene. What course of action do you suggest - (a) tell him that I like/want him and let him decide, (b) leave it and let him decide or (c) your suggestion.

Any comments would be appreciated. Thank you

2007-03-27 19:31:42 · 10 answers · asked by Jane 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 22 years old n i never had serieus relasion with a girl. Whenever i meet a girl making me interested to her n i want to have close relasion, i allways afraid bcause of my overweight, it really make me inconfidance.
so ladies what do u think??????are u ladies only interested to sexy guys????????
4 aditional info i'm 95 kg n 170 kg

2007-03-27 19:30:55 · 7 answers · asked by luc 1 in Singles & Dating

i liked this guy about 2 months ago...and the reason y is that i believe HE liked me first (not being conceited). besides, he's CUTE!..he often hangs out in this classroom i hang out in also, i told my friends about it cuz i trust them..then one day, THEY made everything obvious so i got screwed and he eventually found out...then after that, he started IGNORING me on purpose..

then.....yeah...we used to share a 'glance' w/ each other but not anymore....

then that's when i realized u should NOT like him anymore so i stopped___then today, i noticed (looking at my side..not directly)....he was LOOKING at me...like what he used to do...and i was like 'i gotta hide from him' (to myself but it was sort of audible)...not sure if he heard me though...then i left because it was one minute b4 the bell rings

WHAT am i supposed to do?....all of a sudden, after ignoring me, w/o noticing that i DONT like him anymore since, he comes right back and pretend he did not ignore me at all????????

2007-03-27 19:30:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after going to visit my children 3000 miles away after four years of separation I am going through horrible homesickness and depression. Any word of wisdom from parents who have experienced this on how to cope and make this any easier?

2007-03-27 19:30:36 · 5 answers · asked by marilee w 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Not that it's any easier for a gay guy to make friends, but I'll explain the distinction below:

I've worked full time for years, long hours, etc., with friends that were mainly co-workers. Now I'm running my own business solo and suddenly without the co-worker net, I realize my guy friend network is non-existent. So just make new friends, right? Well, how does one make new friends with other guys in their 30s? Guys don't really strike up conversations with other guys (strangers) unless they're trapped in an elevator. That's on fire. And there's a bomb on the roof of the car. And even then, it's weird to ask for a phone #.

I dunno. Any ideas...? Places to go? Organizations? Something?

2007-03-27 19:30:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Not mentioning any names. I think I was really in love with this guy. But he does not know, and I chose not to tell him. Iam an awesome person. Very respectful, but also a freak behind close doors. Sex was not an issue. He has underlining issues with his bio-mom, not raising him. And he is on the arrogant side. What should I do?

2007-03-27 19:30:13 · 3 answers · asked by SexyCole 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

they hurt us over and over again?

2007-03-27 19:29:35 · 10 answers · asked by spiritius4 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have spent the last hour just checking thumbs up to all my fellow country men/women's responses!! I am still pretty heated about her statements!! But this is only way right now for me to give thanks to all our service men & women past present & future!! Please everyone tommorrow shake the hand of every service member you see!! And if you are a service member than please except these hugs & kiss for all that you do for this country I love so much!!!

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2007-03-27 19:27:12 · 7 answers · asked by ☆♥•´`•.¸ ;-) •´`•.¸ ♥☆ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my partner says im too fat and says i should have a tummy tuck or liposuction. He wonteven have sex with me, but tells me its because i ask for it.

2007-03-27 19:27:06 · 25 answers · asked by momdeb69 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this really cute guy but i don't know how to tell him that!!!!

2007-03-27 19:25:59 · 7 answers · asked by Kassie R 1 in Singles & Dating

if you asked a girl to prom, would you think that she would expect you to get her a corsage, and would you expect a boutonniere?

2007-03-27 19:25:13 · 5 answers · asked by andie... you know you love me 2 in Singles & Dating

Her hair was up in a pony tail,

her favorite dress tied with a bow.

Today was Daddy's Day at school,

and she couldn't wait to go.

But her mommy tried to tell her,

that she probably should stay home.

Why the kids might not understand,

if she went to school alone.

But she was not afraid; she knew just what to say. What to tell her classmates of why he wasn't there today.

But still her mother worried,

for her to face this day alone.

And that was why once again,

she tried to keep her daughter home.

But the little girl went to school

eager to tell them all.

About a dad she never sees;

a dad who never calls.

There were daddies along the wall in back, for everyone to meet.

Children squirming impatiently,

anxious in their seats

One by one the teacher called a student from the class. To introduce their daddy, as seconds slowly passed.

At last the teacher called her name,

every child turned to stare.

Each of them was searching,

for a man who wasn't there.

"Where's her daddy at?"

she heard a boy call out.

"She probably doesn't have one,"

another student dared to shout.

And from somewhere near the back,

she heard a daddy say,

"Looks like another deadbeat dad,

too busy to waste his day."

The words did not offend her,

as she smiled up at her Mom.

And looked back at her teacher,

who told her to go on.

And with hands behind her back,

slowly she began to speak.

And out from the mouth of a child,

came words incredibly unique.

"My Daddy couldn't be here,

because he lives so far away.

But I know he wishes he could be,

since this is such a special day.

And though you cannot meet him,

I wanted you to know.

All about my daddy,

and how much he loves me so.

He loved to tell me stories

he taught me to ride my bike.

He surprised me with pink roses,

and taught me to fly a kite.

We used to share fudge sundaes,

and ice cream in a cone.

And though you cannot see him.

I'm not standing here alone.

"Cause my daddy's always with me,

even though we are apart

I know because he told me,

he'll forever be in my heart"


With that, her little hand reached up,

and lay across her chest.

Feeling her own heartbeat,

beneath her favorite dress.

And from somewhere here in the crowd of dads, her mother stood in tears.

Proudly watching her daughter,

who was wise beyond her years.


For she stood up for the love

of a man not in her life.

Doing what was best for her,

doing what was right.

And when she dropped her hand back down, staring straight into the crowd.

She finished with a voice so soft,

but its message clear and loud.

"I love my daddy very much,

he's my shining star.

And if he could, he'd be here,

but heaven's just too far

You see he was a firefighter

and died just this past year

When airplanes hit the towers

and taught Americans to fear.

But sometimes when I close my eyes,

it's like he never went away."

And then she closed her eyes,

and she saw him there that day.

And to her mothers amazement,

she witnessed with surprise

A room full of daddies and children,

all starting to close their eyes.

Who knows what they saw before them,

who knows what they felt inside.

Perhaps for merely a second,

they saw him at her side.

"I know you're with me Daddy,"

to the silence she called out.

And what happened next made believers,

of those once filled with doubt.

Not one in that room could explain it,

for each of their eyes had been closed.

But there on the desk beside her,

was a fragrant long-stemmed pink rose.

And a child was blessed, if only for a moment,

by the love of her shining star.

And given the gift of believing,

that heaven is never too far.


They say it takes a minute to find a special

person, an hour to appreciate them,

a day to love them, but then an entire

life to forget them.

2007-03-27 19:24:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating