Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

hi, i ask this because i feel like i am. im 19 years old and im a male. i go with my mom to the groceries and to pay the bills. whenever she goes out with my grandma, her sister, my girl cousin, i end up being the only guy, is this okay, or not? i do go to work with my dad but whenever i go to school, i go places with her. one day when she asked me to go with her to places i normally go with her, i said no. she asked me to go to the grocery with her and i still said no, due to my problem. i asked her if it was okay if hung out with her and if i go places with her and she said it was. i then noticed that she didnt want to hurt my feelings so i am still confuse. she used to take me places without asking me when i was a kid so i got used to it. my grandparents told me that i always have to be with her, but i realized that they meant to take care of her. i asked her about me hanging with her but she made it seem like i didnt have to hangout with her if i didnt want to.

thanks

2007-03-27 21:14:26 · 18 answers · asked by blackeaglejp 2 in Family

I'm an attractive, successful, nice and genrous guy. The women are usually early 20s...with beautiful figures and long legs. I love the seduction by them and the submission by me.

2007-03-27 21:12:01 · 16 answers · asked by LS 1 in Singles & Dating

wel i wnt on mi yr 11 camp lst wk n the 1st nyt there we watchd a movie n the guy i lyk told al his frenz 2 go away cos he was tlkn 2 me (so we'd b alone) then we held hands al nyt n we kissed a few times (also he told me im the girl he wnts 2 tlk 2 most and spend tym with out of ne1) n wen i wsnt lookn he wuld jst stare at me not knowin i culd c him through the corner of my eye then we had a disco the nxt nyt n he told me i was his d8 .. then wen we wnt home i was lst on the bus and people were tryin 2 sit nxt 2 him n he wuldnt let them then he let me sit nxt 2 him m yet agen we held hands n tlkd

but while doin this we always have 2 do it on the downlow cos he has a gf!

we hav a past together (a very long 1) we'v had sex a few tyms and we're best friends n i always tel him i dnt wana go out wit him cos if we eva broke up it wuld wreck our friendship and also incase he rejects me

do you's think if i tell him how i feel he'l either say he feels the same way or we'r jst frenz?

2007-03-27 21:11:38 · 4 answers · asked by jessiii 1 in Singles & Dating

contortionism...hott or not?

I went to the gym and i was just stretching out before my work out and i noticed a bunch of guys staring through the glass...
was it in like a wow...that's hott kind of thing...or more like look at the circus freak kind of thing?

Here's What i can do...

-I can do the splits to the right, left and middle
-i can do a backbend and grab my ankles
-i can bend my head as far back as my knees with no hands on the floor
-i can put my knees over my shoulders
-and both feet behind my head
-and other things too difficult to explain

would this be an intereasting talent to inform my Boyfriend about...or keep it a secret cuz it's freaky???

2007-03-27 21:11:33 · 7 answers · asked by 1.2..3...Boo 4 in Singles & Dating

sometimes there is nothing to worry or any tention.but when i think about him,i start to cry,though i can see him everyday.why this is so?have this happend with u?

2007-03-27 21:11:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In what way? Could it be a teacher? a friend? your parents?

2007-03-27 21:11:00 · 13 answers · asked by khatzzz 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been seeing this guy for 14 months, wen we first met he said he wasnt looking for anything till he met me and wanted to take things slow cos he just come out of a relationship. i told him i wanted to be hes gf, but he said he mite be moving up to scotland wiv hes parents, cos otherwise he wouldnt ave anywhere 2 go and he works frm home n hes munie dont go through da books, so no proof of income 4 a morgage. he knows i love him, i finished wiv him last year for 2 weeks and he txt me sayin ''f**k it if we do go least ya made my mind up to go 1 less thing 4 me to think bout''. then 2nd txt said '' dont like me that much do ya''. so he does care, but the last few weeks i seen him once and last nite he txt me saying that he dont want anythin, that he mite be doin 2 dubai to work 4 a yr n come bk, he cant give me what i want(bf/gf), and that it aint fair on me, i love him so much, why is he doin this? he finished me through txt, im so angry first, i have let him in2 my life, my home,

2007-03-27 21:09:10 · 19 answers · asked by parent 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know what type of things make you like someone..just some random thing i wanted to know but feel free to list why you would like someone

2007-03-27 21:08:10 · 12 answers · asked by Christy B 3 in Singles & Dating

I have split with my Husband off 13Years,and keep reading and hearing the same old,when you find that special person you will be happy,I don't know if I'm weird or what, but I don't think a new Man in my life would be some magic pill.
I have hopes,dreams & asperations that I want to forfill ,"that will make me happy"
Even my Ex wants me to find someone "WANTS ME TO BE HAPPY LIKE HIM "
arrrrg it GETS ON MY NERVES, ANYONE ELSE SHARE MY OPINION.
p.s I am Happy by the way.

2007-03-27 21:07:34 · 21 answers · asked by live life 4 in Singles & Dating

i lyk, really wanna beocome mean+popular! omg, crisis, what do i, lyk, do????? O.M.G.!!!!!!!

2007-03-27 21:06:52 · 6 answers · asked by ohemgee545 3 in Friends

He was one of my old friends(now we r not that friendll)y,but 6 years older than me...It is his wedding day today...yesterday he had a party,I dance there very well,I think noone did it better than me,He was really excited too,and for several times said sths to her new bride(that I couldn't hear)after that he came & dance with me...today he called me & said U were really great lastnight,even he said I prayed for U...I really love ur dancing...I really appricate that,u were beautiful yesterday,and .......

I feel that he likes me so much...The notice:he had an arguement with his engaged yesterday.
FINALLY:does he like me?

2007-03-27 21:05:01 · 10 answers · asked by Provirus 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been in my current relatinship for over a year now. We are soon to be married. My problem is that 3 out of 5 times we have sex I start to bawl after I reach climax. I have read that it is a release of stress but my goodness I know I am not that stressed out that many times. With my past relationship's I have never had this ordeal. It is very frustrating when you are trying to be seductive with swollen red eyes. He is very understanding and tells me gently it is ok. So it does not bother him that I know of but it sure does bother the hell out of me. Am I the only one with this situation? I thought it would have passed by now with being intimate for 6 months but it hasn't.

2007-03-27 21:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by Rigssy 2 in Singles & Dating

Just what if...

2007-03-27 21:02:40 · 12 answers · asked by ◄Hercules► 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 21:02:31 · 12 answers · asked by Inder 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 21:02:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love the whole club scene. I don't even mind dancing alone. I feel free and liberated on the dancefloor. But my problem is my boyfriend has never liked the club scene and doesn't dance (very good). I stopped doing what I "LOVE" to do for him. But deep inside I'm a trapped butterfly.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-03-27 21:01:29 · 4 answers · asked by Truth Hurts 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so this year has been very eye-opening for me!!!!!!!

is it more worth it to you... to go party.. make a million friends... have a million ( good and bad) memorie. Use drugs drink, sleep around.. i mean i am not just saying this to sound bad, but you do learn alot. You learn what type of guys are out there, and you learn what friends are fake.


or it more worth it to you.. to get a good education, not worry about partying, not pay attention to those fake people. Have fun in a different way, and try to accomplish all you can

me personal i was into the partying, but then i changed

what about you? what is more worth it to you?

2007-03-27 21:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

1) I'm in the process of filing divorce papers with free legal aid clinic in Calif., but I suspected my husband has also filed with different legal aid clinic too because a process server came to my home today trying to serve me papers. If these are divorce papers filed by my husband, is my filing papers no good now? Can I ignore the server and go ahead and file my own papers?

2) To serve divorce papers to my husband, do I have to know his new address? I don't know where he lives although I do know the county he lives in. Since I don't know his address, will the court help me locate him?

3) If I go ahead and sign the papers served by a process server, can I get my own private lawyer? I have a house which I'm afraid my husband will force me to sell it and also I am requesting alimony from him... will i need a lawyer? If I don't need one, can I fight for these at the hearing?

Any thorough answers with details would be greatly appreciated!

2007-03-27 20:59:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a college prof who i think is hot. I doubt i'd ever tell her my feelings, but im wondering if you guys think that would unethical.

2007-03-27 20:58:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back. We had a friendship that lasted 4 months. She got mad at me for a mistake I made which takes too much explanation and two months later she told me she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I HAD NOT been talking to her since she said she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I thought things would be cool between us so recently for the 1st time I tried to talk to her but she completely ignored me. I told her I only wanted us to be friends again but she wasn't hearing me. She talked to everyone who came in the hall but me. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else. I guess I'll just see you around." I left the hall and haven't said anything to her since.

Five days later from this-yesterday-a teacher came to me and pulled me out of class, took me to her office and told me to please leave the girl alone. The teacher explained the girl went to her about me in the morning. I've only tried to talk to her that one time, I've only called once four months ago (then hung up and never tried again), and I only gave her one letter on Valentine's Day. Like I said, we haven't talked for 11 months and that's plenty of opportunity I could have used to harass her, which was/is the last thing I ever want to do to her. I told the girl that too, when I tried to talk to her I said "I don't want to bug you or harass you or anything so I'm going to leave." Then I said the aforemention sentence after trying a little more to get her to listen to me. After the day I tried to talk to her I continued to pay no attention to her. So I'm in the office and the teacher says leave her alone and that her MOM called the school about me. It was like they were accusing me of harassing or stalking her which I had NOT been doing, and like the girl purposely omitted how many times I've ACTUALLY tried talking to her, (once). I think she made it seem like I constantly bother her. The teacher said "It's not that she doesn't like you, it's that she doesn't like you in that way." If it's not that she doesn't like me, then why was I called out of class behind her and I didn't even much do anything to be called out of class for? The lady said I'm not in trouble, but I'm still not telling her happy birthday today, I really don't want to see her again, I never want to talk to her again and when I graduate I never will so good riddance to her and I'm making sure when I find someone else I'm doing a lot better from this experience.

2007-03-27 20:55:10 · 9 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 20:54:55 · 3 answers · asked by Truth Hurts 5 in Singles & Dating

Yes- I have had the misfortune to hear her speak- but she's gorgeous! That skin- I'd could smother her with kisses- you?

2007-03-27 20:52:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 20:51:34 · 8 answers · asked by Cheers 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-27 20:51:28 · 15 answers · asked by icene_06 2 in Singles & Dating

with someone anymore?

2007-03-27 20:51:27 · 18 answers · asked by Sad Eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It is exceptionally true about my husband. When he asked me, "How's your day?". Before I could finish telling my frustration at work, he jumps in and start talking about his story and i ended up listening instead of getting his attention to listen! Men just wouldn't listen. What is wrong with men!!!

2007-03-27 20:50:20 · 10 answers · asked by Troy Girl 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok me and the ex g/f split up well over 6 months ago, shes away at Uni, most of the time, but she will be back for nearly a month for easter... she lives about 100 metres from my house, (we were together for four years) i know this because she txts my housemate every time she comes home, is it to let me know thats she guna be back...!

She split up with me..!
Cheers for sum insight to what goes ina womans head..!

2007-03-27 20:49:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you talk to the opposite sex, u tend to flirt....even though u have no intention on flirting!!!!

2007-03-27 20:48:41 · 11 answers · asked by shrimpy 3 in Singles & Dating

Please tell me what should I do? I really love him & he too! He is confused abt the life after marriage, please suggest me what I do? I need a help from you.

2007-03-27 20:47:15 · 26 answers · asked by Pretty Girl 1 in Weddings

2007-03-27 20:44:50 · 13 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Singles & Dating