What Can I do About an Evil family member?

Question

Its and in law and I am keeping very low tech, as the person in question is very snoopy and searches for me over the internet all the time they even quit their job to stay at home and constantly search for me, what I am to do this person emails me constantly and even though I continue to try to ignore it, this person keeps it up as if its were some game, I have dealt with this person for several years now, this person in no blood, other then in law .... I know some in laws don't get along but I get along with all mine but this person , this person turned this persons partner againest me, when we used to get along out of friendship and nwo we hate each other, on top of all this this person emails me threating harsh and very disturbing emails, as well as calls non stop over and over my family on my husbands side believes this person to be pyscho and needs help, This person would come over all hours over the night , and this person does these things just to see a reaction from me,

I have not emailed this person back i have been true to myself knowing I did nothing wrong this person just never liked me from the get go when we first ment, because their own issues and beliefs this person thought I was to close to the other person this person was with.... so I was basicly unliked right away and have been the butt of all of this persons anger and basicly this persons punching bag for years now.. what can I do to get this person to stop or at least give me peace of mind and what not, I have had restraining orders, protection orders and warrents on this person, I have also tired talking and being very civil and respectful as well as friendly. I have defended myself and my family, to no end.... now I am just ignoreing this person all together.

This woman is in her 40's I am in my 30's

And yes this person acts as if they were in high school still.

I have done the police and the saving all phone and emails to standing up for myself, this person is just unstopable I believe I can't not out wit this person or out do this person, thsi person just retalulates back with more and stronger hold then ever, I have a couple secrets for them though I just need help figureing out how to get this person to stop at all cost I guess. or at least how to keep my sanity.

I was in the family before this person came along, they cam in the picture a few years later,

btw this person lives in another state, I have the restraining order on this person 3 years, but this person violated that the first day after recieving it, 40 sometimes, not to mention how many other times there after, so this person got warrents for this persons arrest but since out of state they could not bring this person to my state on the warrents,

Answer 1

If you know God all you can do is keep praying for this person. You have done all that the law will allow, just keep to yourself, follow what the law has recommended and leave it in Gods hands. I will pray for you.

Answer 2

First of all, sounds like your being stalked almost. If this person is using yahoo mail or whoever they are using, report this person. I know I have a sister-in-law I don't like even though her & my brother have been maried for 28 years but I try to get along with her for my brother. Ask for some help from another family member that might be close to this person. Maybe they can talk to them for you but then if that doesn't work , tell them you will file charges. Good Luck , Debra

Answer 3

Whoa, I don't know what the hell Kelly is talking about! If you've tried to get this person away from you and they still continue to pursue, then it's harassment! Generally I tend to think that's over used but in this case you've gone through extremes to keep them away. I know it's hard to get along with some people and you seem as if you've tried pretty damn hard. Talk to your husband about it and see what the family has done in the past with this person (you did mention them always having this problem right)? It's pretty obvious that you're not on crack if their own family members admit to them having this problem. Sorry some people are so dumb, hope it works out for ya!

Answer 4

Save the emails and phone bills then take them to the police and get a restraining order and see what you can do about keeping that person away.

Answer 5

You seem to have threatened this persons relationship with this other person you liked soo very much.Need a mediator
to open up on both sides and release the anger and understanding of what each person needs

Answer 6

All in laws are evil. Some are just better at hiding it than others... Ultimatley, your husband needs to be the one to stand up to this person to put an end to it. If that fails, stand up to her. Think of every thing she has ever said or done to you to make you angry or hurt and blast back.

A bully only picks on those who they know they can conquer. A bully NEVER pulls their tricks on someone who can take them out. Reverse this process and install some fear in this individual...

Answer 7

WELL, sounds like my sister in law kathy are you sure they are not related? I call this jealouscy. I finally stood up to this person and told them to stay off our property.ANd i changed my telephone.I changed my email address throught the telephone company.AND i changed my email with yahoo.I no longer answer the door to them and i told them if they dont stop comming on the property ill call the sherrif. YOU know i finally got them to back off. STICK UP 4 YOUR RIGHTS ! ! !! you go girl---------star

Answer 8

Geez, how old is the other person? They act like they are about 13 years old!!

Be direct and tell them that you've had enough and you will not tolerate this behavior any longer.

Answer 9

look you need to call the cops!
save the emails and stay away from that person.
you need to have a long talk with hubby about this crap!
be safe!
peace,....c dog from indiana

Answer 10

did you try the stalking laws? and ignoreing her might be best hard to say what to do with out alot more information without going through the courts