The sex stopped last fall. She has shaved her privates bald, but keeps that detail hidden from view (Why wax the car if you not letting anyone ride in it?). I've tried spying on phone calls & tried to find any inconsistencies w/ when & where she's supposed to be --- Nothing! The closest thing I've found is a strange ph# on the cell phone from a city 60 miles away - just once.
Cheaters sometimes start fights in order to have excuse to leave marriage, but she hasn't. She hasn't initiated any conversation about the lack of sex either. Nearly all else is normal in our lives - JUST NO SEX!
I know hormones can play havoc w/ a woman's libido, but I don't think this is the case.
It doesn't make sense. I'm still attentive & treat her very well, waiting on her every whim.
Tell me ladies, if you're not getting sex from your man, are you getting it somewhere else? What would make you stop?
Or does someone need to slap my cheek and yell, "Wake up, dumbass!"
2007-03-27 19:40:25 · 5 answers · asked by faith_no_more86 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wake up dumbass!
There, was that sufficient?
Seriously, you initiate the sex. If that's a no-go, talk to her about it.. "What's up with this no sex thing?"
If still nothing, say bye-bye.
2007-03-29 11:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by SEMblogger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've always heard that if someone is cheating, you know it. I don't think that's necessarily true but if you suspect something, chances are...
That said, I could easily go years without sex for any number of reasons. Is she over-stressed? On medication, especially anti-depressants? Or maybe the reason for her diminished libido is not medical; do you treat her the way you always did? How long have you been together? Maybe it's because you cater to her every whim that she's not attracted. Some women like a bit of excitement.
2007-03-28 15:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by BelleDandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang quit trippin! Or in my words "Don't trip potato chip!". Look here's the deal. Ask her. DUH! I mean come on, you say she hasn't initiated any convo on not having sex, but yet you haven't asked her whats up with it either..... kind of insensitive on your part, and to top it off, you are now assuming she's cheating, ASSUMING. You don't know for sure and you are driving yourself crazy thinking that she may or may not be. So one quick way to fix this is ask her if she is, or ask her why you and her haven't been intimate lately. Sorry to tell ya, but you are being very selfish turning this around to be about you. Maybe her lack of sexual healing is because of an issue that she's dealing with. Stop being an insensitive man and go and talk with her. The worst thing she can say is "Yes husband, I am cheating on you." And then I believe you know what you are going to do if that is the answer, so stop stressing yourself out and go talk damn it!
2007-03-28 18:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by Tracey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you sleep with your wife? How could she shave her privates and keep that hidden from your view if the two of you are in the same bed? How can you be going to bed with your wife every night and not having some sex? Couples stop having sex when they split up and one of them moves out of the house. Your story doesn't make any sense.
2007-03-30 22:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-31 13:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Emailrevealer.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋