Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

are there any ideas to bring a women instananeously to your bed without spending much effort , money, time, energy

2007-03-27 19:23:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have spent the last hour just checking thumbs up to all my fellow country men/women's responses!! I am still pretty heated about her statements!! But this is only way right now for me to give thanks to all our service men & women past present & future!! Please everyone tommorrow shake the hand of every service member you see!! And if you are a service member than please except these hugs & kiss for all that you do for this country I love so much!!!

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2007-03-27 19:23:49 · 1 answers · asked by ☆♥•´`•.¸ ;-) •´`•.¸ ♥☆ 4 in Singles & Dating

Her hair was up in a pony tail,

her favorite dress tied with a bow.

Today was Daddy's Day at school,

and she couldn't wait to go.

But her mommy tried to tell her,

that she probably should stay home.

Why the kids might not understand,

if she went to school alone.

But she was not afraid; she knew just what to say. What to tell her classmates of why he wasn't there today.

But still her mother worried,

for her to face this day alone.

And that was why once again,

she tried to keep her daughter home.

But the little girl went to school

eager to tell them all.

About a dad she never sees;

a dad who never calls.

There were daddies along the wall in back, for everyone to meet.

Children squirming impatiently,

anxious in their seats

One by one the teacher called a student from the class. To introduce their daddy, as seconds slowly passed.

At last the teacher called her name,

every child turned to stare.

Each of them was searching,

for a man who wasn't there.

"Where's her daddy at?"

she heard a boy call out.

"She probably doesn't have one,"

another student dared to shout.

And from somewhere near the back,

she heard a daddy say,

"Looks like another deadbeat dad,

too busy to waste his day."

The words did not offend her,

as she smiled up at her Mom.

And looked back at her teacher,

who told her to go on.

And with hands behind her back,

slowly she began to speak.

And out from the mouth of a child,

came words incredibly unique.

"My Daddy couldn't be here,

because he lives so far away.

But I know he wishes he could be,

since this is such a special day.

And though you cannot meet him,

I wanted you to know.

All about my daddy,

and how much he loves me so.

He loved to tell me stories

he taught me to ride my bike.

He surprised me with pink roses,

and taught me to fly a kite.

We used to share fudge sundaes,

and ice cream in a cone.

And though you cannot see him.

I'm not standing here alone.

"Cause my daddy's always with me,

even though we are apart

I know because he told me,

he'll forever be in my heart"


With that, her little hand reached up,

and lay across her chest.

Feeling her own heartbeat,

beneath her favorite dress.

And from somewhere here in the crowd of dads, her mother stood in tears.

Proudly watching her daughter,

who was wise beyond her years.


For she stood up for the love

of a man not in her life.

Doing what was best for her,

doing what was right.

And when she dropped her hand back down, staring straight into the crowd.

She finished with a voice so soft,

but its message clear and loud.

"I love my daddy very much,

he's my shining star.

And if he could, he'd be here,

but heaven's just too far

You see he was a firefighter

and died just this past year

When airplanes hit the towers

and taught Americans to fear.

But sometimes when I close my eyes,

it's like he never went away."

And then she closed her eyes,

and she saw him there that day.

And to her mothers amazement,

she witnessed with surprise

A room full of daddies and children,

all starting to close their eyes.

Who knows what they saw before them,

who knows what they felt inside.

Perhaps for merely a second,

they saw him at her side.

"I know you're with me Daddy,"

to the silence she called out.

And what happened next made believers,

of those once filled with doubt.

Not one in that room could explain it,

for each of their eyes had been closed.

But there on the desk beside her,

was a fragrant long-stemmed pink rose.

And a child was blessed, if only for a moment,

by the love of her shining star.

And given the gift of believing,

that heaven is never too far.


They say it takes a minute to find a special

person, an hour to appreciate them,

a day to love them, but then an entire

life to forget them.

2007-03-27 19:23:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ive known this girl for 8 years. i have dated her for a short period in the past. im pretty much in love with her and she knows how i feel. but she told me she sees me as a brother figure because im always there for her even after she dates these a-holes. How do i get her to see me as someone she could date again?

2007-03-27 19:23:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anthony S 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this very cute guy who showed interest in me, would call me and then stood me up. Apparently he was drunk so he forgot about our date. But he kept standing me up and then he would disappear; like he was supposed to pick me up to go eat and he didn't show up and wouldn't answer my phone calls, he would disappear. But he kept coming back to me, even after months he would suddenly show up saying that I was good for him and like an idiot trying to be an understanding, non-judgemental person I'd agree to see him again. I know I shouldn't have put up with it but I was crazy about him. The sex was amazing, he said the best he'd ever had (It wasn't a line). Even though he was so gorgeous he acted jealous over any man within sight and he was suspicious about things I would say, as though I were doing something bad which I wasn't. If he didn't want me then why did he keep coming back and why would he pull those strange disappearing acts? It just bugs me to this day,what was wrong with him?

2007-03-27 19:22:53 · 8 answers · asked by strawberry 4 in Singles & Dating

maybe i am wrong to cheat! but i am human n i need love which huuby is not providing. but now everything i do he knows abt it. i went to see another man, covered my trucks well but my hubby found everything out. he confronted me n i was mouth agape n i denied. what suprises me is that he is fine with it, he said he was hurt but dont act it at all.

i have been throu hell with him n now the only consolation i get from outside he is following it up n ruining my happiness.

why i dont leave him? i almost did, rented an apartment, furnsished it and when i was abt to tell him, he confronted me with the truth abt wanting to leave him n abt the hosue n its location. he cried so much and i was emotioanlly blackmailed and so i stayed.

is this how love is supposed to be? dont they say love is beautiful??

2007-03-27 19:22:15 · 10 answers · asked by Essie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 19:21:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everytime you tell something like giving up the relationship and just let go, he'll make all the craziest thing like for example bangging his head just to get your attention. how to deal with this kind of person. do you think he's sick? is it love that he's feeling towards me or what?

2007-03-27 19:18:40 · 8 answers · asked by ilyn 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 19:18:39 · 11 answers · asked by Tiara 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 19:17:30 · 6 answers · asked by bugs 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 19:17:23 · 18 answers · asked by haime 1 in Singles & Dating

I am dating a man exclusively now for 2 months. He is 46, I am 40.
He is bothered by me taking phone calls on my cell when we are spending time together. He got jealous tonight, thinking I was in the bathroom texting another man. I was actually checking up on my 12 year old daughter. A lady friend of his pointed this out to him, suggesting that I use the bathroom alot and seem to use my phone alot too.
I assured him that there is no other man in my life. That I am a Mother first, and need to return calls to my daughter at times.

I think his lady friend is jealous of our happiness and looking for things to point out to him about me.

Do I drop it, or tell him I think she's watching me way too closely!

2007-03-27 19:17:13 · 22 answers · asked by Scarlett 1 in Singles & Dating

Regarding serious, long term relationships, what are most important to you from a woman? I ask it in this manner b/c what's important to you now in a mate probably is not the same as would be a 19 year old, etc.

2007-03-27 19:16:20 · 9 answers · asked by Callie B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How about this??
Well I went out to a movie date last night.. I knew this girl from email, she was a friend of a friend thru college, and we had been talking a lot through email and text messages, and instant messages. I never met her in person before. Well finally we went and saw a movie tonight, and there wasn't much said. We talked for a few minutes before and after the movie, but right after the movie she said, "Well I had a great time, real fun, I guess I'll talk to you later." And that was it, we both left. No hug or anything.

During the movie, we didn't hold hands or anything like that either. She put a few pieces of gum in her mouth but that could mean nothing.

Anyway, what do I do now? What does it mean? Not interested? Taking it slow? Should I let her call me and ask me again, or what to do?

2007-03-27 19:15:39 · 7 answers · asked by andrew a 1 in Singles & Dating

to Hawaii with me, for one whole week. We would lay on the beach, go swimming, eat at a Hawaiian feast, watch hula dancing, lay on the beach, swim and tour the islands. I would make sure that you would enjoy it all, before coming back home.
The only requirement would be....that you would only take your bikini swimsuit with you, and nothing else. Would you go.????

2007-03-27 19:14:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 19:12:08 · 23 answers · asked by she 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt badso a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Sincethen I have said hi to him 2 on msn.Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to. What is he doing?

2007-03-27 19:12:05 · 15 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

How can you turn a guy on from across the room, in a room full of people? [like not a crowded room ,but a room with a number of people]

2007-03-27 19:10:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy a couple of weeks ago and we clicked so last night I asked him out. (Even though we had already talked of hanging out I wanted to make It just the two of us) but he never really got around to answering the question. But he still called me this morning and I talked to him tonight as well. So what should I think...that he just automatically assumed that we would be going out or that he just thinks Im joking? I like him and he tells me I worry to much about things and that I should let It ride but I still want an answer. Should I push for it or just 'let it ride' like he said to do? And why Is it that he keeps telling me Im going to be moving in with him and asking "when are we going to get married and have kids" Is this his way of joking around with me or Is he bieng serious? I really wouldnt mind It if he was. I need both guys and girls to help me out on this one. Thanks guys~

2007-03-27 19:10:29 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica B 1 in Singles & Dating

well ...PREPARE YOURSELFS FOR A KIND OF BORING AND LONG STORYY>>>OR MAYBE NOT.... it depends of what im going to say!
well. this PAST summer...oh yeah by the way. im 13 and my cousin (dakota) female is 14. ok back to the story. me and dakota was in westvirginia this past summer being with my grandma and we kind of had a bad summer and kind of a good summer..im not going to get into that subject. but now that were back in ohio i asked my cousin if she wants to go to westvirginia agian and she keeps trying to say no in a NICE way.. but i miss it tooooooooo much down there and i want to go back and live there but i want dakota to go with me and i need to know how to get her to want to go to westvirginia. i mean my LIFE is westvirginia and i miss it sooooooo bad. i want to live there sooooooooo bad but i want DAKOTA TO WANT TO LIVE there to!!!!!! i need some GOOD answers to this question. not somthing like (if she doesnt want to do it you cant make her) i need 2 know wat 2 do2 get her 2

2007-03-27 19:09:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I went out to a movie date last night.. I knew this girl from email, she was a friend of a friend thru college, and we had been talking a lot through email and text messages, and instant messages. I never met her in person before. Well finally we went and saw a movie tonight, and there wasn't much said. We talked for a few minutes before and after the movie, but right after the movie she said, "Well I had a great time, real fun, I guess I'll talk to you later." And that was it, we both left. No hug or anything.

During the movie, we didn't hold hands or anything like that either. She put a few pieces of gum in her mouth but that could mean nothing.

Anyway, what do I do now? What does it mean? Not interested? Taking it slow?

Any ideas

2007-03-27 19:06:47 · 6 answers · asked by andrew a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my neihbor set me up with his best friend and me and him have been talking every single night! i know he is going to ask me out but i dont no when he is... Also im not aloud to have boyfriends...my parents said so... i dont want him to ask me out at the wrong time!!! What should i do? Because I really like him!!!

2007-03-27 19:06:34 · 6 answers · asked by Katy 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend just broke up with her boyfriend and is really depressed. she took about 12 painkillers with a minorly alchoholic beverage. is she gonna be ok? im really worried and im about to call 911. Is she gonna be ok?

2007-03-27 19:05:20 · 12 answers · asked by the bertis 2 in Friends

the question I need anwser to is ,when will we talk about us,what do he want of me,why is he playing game with my heart,when it comes to him I don't know whats real or not .How can anyone live like that it's living A Lie,and who needs that in there life,I just need him to be real with me and tell whats going on with us. I can,t keep living life like this........

2007-03-27 19:04:34 · 15 answers · asked by babyyou m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-27 19:04:32 · 12 answers · asked by thrashthemic 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 19:03:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend and i have been friends since Kindergarten. But lately, i've been jealous of her. Probably cuz, well, she gets wut i want (like boyz, my crush asked her out and she said yes, but even though i have my own BF, i still get jealous cuz i really liked him and she knew that) or mayb i feel invisiable. All of my guy-friends and some of my gal-friends 4get i'm there, they'll give her a hug and walk away. & sumtimes, she'll start walking with sum1 & leave me bhind, i know she doesn't mean 2, but it hurts me. How do i tell her this? How do i make myself un-jealous? Wut do i do?


PLZ HELP!

2007-03-27 19:03:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is the family that raised you from birth more important than the family you will start or vice versa? If you had to pick, what would you choose? Why?

2007-03-27 19:01:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

any time i do something sexual with someone or simply just fantasize about a guy i'm crushing on i feel like i'm in love with them. but i know i'm not. so basically i wanna know how can i stop confusing sex for love?

2007-03-27 19:00:41 · 10 answers · asked by ♥♥♫ 3 in Singles & Dating

Weve been together for about 4 months...he moved in about a month and a half ago, he is 34, im 25...it all went downhill surprise surprise as soon as he moved in (i never wanted him to in the first place)...ive done some pretty immature and stupid things since ive moved in...such as drinking and crying for two hours, etc...but it all stemmed from something he had done...such as seeing condoms in his see-through travel bag..which he didnt use and they were old but it still upset me...i went out of town a few days ago to visit my family after an awesome weekend, we went to a wedding...he carried around my wine glass, kissed me...grabbed my hand when other guys talked to me...kept hugging me before i left to go home to visit my family...today, i noticed on his myspace that he did one of the surveys and answered the question that asked what age did he want to be when he had children...he said he has to find the mother first and ask her, the other half of the orange...he also wrote a bulletin titled E-...he said, i have no clue how to contact you and myspace is not helping...see he asked out this girl named Elizabeth on there 2 weeks ago (we were fighting at the time...and hes jealous of my guy friends although he encourages me to hang out with them), he apologized to me and said they never met up...one of her friends left a nasty comment after him so im assuming she doesnt really like him...anyway...who is this E- person? There is no one on his friends list with that first letter in their name...did he just do that bc he thought i would see and get jealous and ask about it and think it was this Elizabeth girl? Hes 34 for Christs sake! I sent him a text message yesterday saying i missed him and he never responded. Im just sad, i want to be the other half...i would make a good wife and mother of his children...God im pathetic...

2007-03-27 19:00:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating