My best friend and i have been friends since Kindergarten. But lately, i've been jealous of her. Probably cuz, well, she gets wut i want (like boyz, my crush asked her out and she said yes, but even though i have my own BF, i still get jealous cuz i really liked him and she knew that) or mayb i feel invisiable. All of my guy-friends and some of my gal-friends 4get i'm there, they'll give her a hug and walk away. & sumtimes, she'll start walking with sum1 & leave me bhind, i know she doesn't mean 2, but it hurts me. How do i tell her this? How do i make myself un-jealous? Wut do i do?
PLZ HELP!
2007-03-27 19:03:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
look dear i have afriend like you,,and i always wish her to stop feeling jealous,,she sometimes hurts me,,i wish tell her why feeling jealous,,every1 has his life,,so sweetie you should live your life your own life not hers,,dont you ever ask yourself why she not i,,no just you should determine your life style,,just be happy for what you are,,and dont do things to satisfy people just be nice with those who appreciate you,so they can love you in the same time you should maintain your dignity that you dont wanna live exactly wat your friend lives they wont give you a hug so wat it doesnt matter,,,just live your life as it is..and dont wait from any1 anything,,,you dont need this,,and dont tell her that you feel jealous,,just when she left you behinde tell her that she hurts you with that just 1 time & if she did it again just dont tell her,,i think she will feel her fault,,,please cutie dont be jealous,,good luck
2007-03-27 20:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by LOLITTA A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1stly it sounds like you think she is better than you just remeber she isn't everyone is equal its just some think they are everything wen they ain't ok
NOW TO THE BOY
tell her that even though she might like him you did too and she shouldn't be making a move on him and she's not being a good bf for that now naturally she'd tell you you got ur own bf sooo back off but you need to guilt her it might work with me and my best friend i never go after an ex of hers even if i really like him i try to avoid that
IF nothing works get a new friend move on i'm sure there is someone who is/was always at the back of ur class you never spoke to because you were with heryou can be friends with
2007-03-28 18:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by elpruprulesnoone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe the only thing you can do is to get stronger inside and try not to let it bother you because i know some girls who went through the same kinda thing and it hurts really bad. Even though the friend doesnt act like she knows what shes doin sometimes she can hurt you a lot . I think you should tell her how you feel about the bf thing though because if she knew you liked him it looks like she should know how you feel and apologize to you or something because friends shouldnt to that to friends. The jealousy thing about when people talk to her and not you is just something you will have to try to get over some people are just more easier to talk to and maybe your not one of those people so just try to strenthen your other good points like what makes you happy and dont worry about people not wanting to talke to you more. just be yourself and people will love you for who you are dont try to be someone elce for anyone..
2007-03-28 02:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by BabyGurl2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just....slap her across the face and say thats my man your taking...if u have sex with him ur not my real friend....DUMP HIM....his miiiineee.
P.S If you really do like her bf then why don't you dump YOUR boy friend and make him jelous!.....if you like a guy and u have a different bf then why do u like him your a.......
2007-03-28 02:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell her if she is really ur friend she will try to stop but if it keeps happening kick her to the curb u need friends that bring u up not down and u need to do that for them too
2007-03-28 02:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by buterflyes69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is a form of insecurity so you need to find in yourself some self respect and start liking you for you.
2007-03-28 02:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a waste of a emotions.
2007-03-28 02:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could tell them or you can find new friends
2007-03-28 02:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u?
2007-03-28 02:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by \" moOnLighT "/ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋