my neihbor set me up with his best friend and me and him have been talking every single night! i know he is going to ask me out but i dont no when he is... Also im not aloud to have boyfriends...my parents said so... i dont want him to ask me out at the wrong time!!! What should i do? Because I really like him!!!
2007-03-27 19:06:34 · 6 answers · asked by Katy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, there really is a problem if ur parents say u cant have a boyfriend right now. i would recommend you tell the boy when he asks u out if he is, that your parents said u couldn't, just say it nicely. Sorta say it like this "I'm sorry, my parents are a little strict about me having a boyfriend right now, they say i cant have one till I'm (w/e age ur parents said). I am really sorry, but i really like you and maybe for now we can just stay friends." He will understand, and he wont be upset. Just tell him the dead honest truth, never lie to a guy who has just asked you out, cause if u start lying to guys then that wont help you at all when ur parents say u can have a boyfriend, so remember always be honest with guys, it really helps, and for any guys who read this answer, same for you, never ever lie to a girl, that just makes you look really dumb and no girl wants to go out with a guy who cant even tell the truth about himself.
2007-03-27 19:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Deathkiss911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tough. Every girl gos through this at sum point n theit ife its normal. parents r always doing wut they feel is rite and always wut they feel will help u. as a girl especialy a teenager its hard due to the chages e go through and th changes r bodies go through. it weird not no n wut we really want andnot wut we can do or wut we cant. so, n helping u this no one can do but u. its ur call and is up 2 u. we can offer ideas and so on but n the end u make the call and on ur own. u should howevr, take wut ur parents allow 2 heart if he cares n e thing about u then this he will respect and not expect u 2 do otherwise. let him no and if he says different then that tells u that he's not the one as a boyfriend or n e thing else. ur parents have 2 b able 2 trust u 4 win the tie cums 4 u 2 b able 2 date. remember as arents they have ben there and done that b 4. although, its a new day and time most guys still want the same thing respect ur self and b safe. best of wishes 2 u.
2007-03-28 02:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask him out first and tell him to keep it secret from his parents and yours if your guys parents see you hanging out all the time (if you go out) and ask you if you guys are going out then say no and see if its OK if you can go out then wait a while and then tell them that you just started to go out and if you ask them about going out with people if they say no then I think you might have too set ground rules like not staying out after dark and yes I'm a teenager not an adult
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2007-03-28 02:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Emo Kid 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um if I where you I'd just tell the guy that your parents don't allow you to have bf's and if he would wait for you
2007-03-28 03:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore your parents.. say yes if thats what you want
2007-03-28 02:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should say yes and dont tell your parents.
2007-03-28 02:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lyn_Love 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋