OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt badso a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Sincethen I have said hi to him 2 on msn.Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to. What is he doing?
2007-03-27 19:12:05 · 15 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's 26 & next year he's moving out of his parents & moving in w/ a friend. He also is getting his MBA & he just got a very good job. Meanwhile, I'm still in university & living w/ my parents. Our life paths are so diff. so why does he continue talking to me, how does this benefit him?
2007-03-27 19:13:39 · update #1
There is some form of attachment still there. I would just let him go and move on though because it sounds like you two have different things in mind for your life plan.
2007-03-27 19:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BE SMART! Stop talking to him now and tell him to leave you alone. You are in school and that needs to be number one. This guy knows he can get you...don't fall for it. Smarten up! Get done what you need to get done and forget about him. Someone worthwhile will come along and probably when you least expect it. This is the only time in your life that you will be able to be totally selfish. Take advantage of it. Make wise decisions and live your life. Don't waste time over somthing or someone so stupid.
2007-03-28 02:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by buebla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is contacting you because he wants to be friends, and to keep you as a spare. If he ever can't find someone to date he will go out with you. I wouldn't give him the time of day or worry about him at all, he is only thinking about himself when he is doing this, he doesn't care about your feelings at all.
2007-03-28 03:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he continue you talking to YOU?
Didn't you just say you said hi to him twice?
You know what he wants. Same thing they all want. Find a guy that wants a little more than just that.
2007-03-28 02:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is such a thing as friends.
just be friends for now, idont see what your problem is.
your inexperienced and it shows.
He wasnt shoving his tongue down your throat at the end of the movie ... so just be friends.
Maybe he is waiting for you to grow up .....
and once you do maybe you two will date again.
You need to relaly have more relationship experience.
2007-03-28 02:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's still hoping to get in your pants. he's being very patient, and you just keep encouraging him by talking with him on msn. tell him to leave you alone and then find a guy that will be devoted to you.
2007-03-28 02:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like all he wants is a friend and he feels you could really be the best friend for him because the 2 of you have known each other for a while..i know it is probably hard on you and if you think you can't handle it emotionally, then you should break it off..other than that if the idea of being his friend instead of his gf is okay with you go for it...
2007-03-28 02:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by myninny54 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE IS LIVING HIS LIFE...you cant expect to fall in love with someone who isnt recipricating. Forget aboyt the boy friend girlfriend thing and just be mates.
2007-03-28 02:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe he still loves you but doesn't know how to tell you. Or perhaps he just wishes to remain friends. It's been known to happen. You should ask him about it. He might just tell you the truth.
2007-03-28 02:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by Fully Aware 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is contacting you because he doesn't have anything better than you going on. You are doing the same. Hit the books, Kiddo!
2007-03-28 02:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by modesto_jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋