I met this very cute guy who showed interest in me, would call me and then stood me up. Apparently he was drunk so he forgot about our date. But he kept standing me up and then he would disappear; like he was supposed to pick me up to go eat and he didn't show up and wouldn't answer my phone calls, he would disappear. But he kept coming back to me, even after months he would suddenly show up saying that I was good for him and like an idiot trying to be an understanding, non-judgemental person I'd agree to see him again. I know I shouldn't have put up with it but I was crazy about him. The sex was amazing, he said the best he'd ever had (It wasn't a line). Even though he was so gorgeous he acted jealous over any man within sight and he was suspicious about things I would say, as though I were doing something bad which I wasn't. If he didn't want me then why did he keep coming back and why would he pull those strange disappearing acts? It just bugs me to this day,what was wrong with him?
2007-03-27 19:22:53 · 8 answers · asked by strawberry 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm glad you said what was wrong with him... Rather than asking what was wrong with you. He didn't forget about your dates... you were likely plan B and plan A came through. Plan A could very well have been drugs, his buddies, or anything else... Not necessarily another woman, though likely it was. You sound like a good person. Stick to the fact that something was wrong with him, and put this one to the very back of your mind...
2007-03-27 19:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Starlyn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty messed up but he must have LOVED the chase and the manipulation. He was also, of course, very (make that VERY) insecure to be so jealous. I'd need a couple questions answered to talk very much about the disappearing acts. Alcoholic or drug benders might be one possibility. Might have been concentrating on another "chase." He kept coming back to reassure himself he still had "it" or "the key to your life." Just curious about how you know it wasn't a line about the best sex ever. He was a WHOLE lot better at manipulation than you.
2007-03-28 02:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically, this guy is not worth yr time. Sex isnt the only thing that exist in a relationship, probably you are not the only one in his "gals" list. Firstly, standing up on you isnt a very chivarlious thing for a guy to do to a girl. And if everytime you meet him and end up having sex, something is not right. Personally, if a guy is really into you, he would probably "die" trying to do whatever in his means if you wanted him to do something.
2007-03-28 02:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by igck 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds confused to me. Don't worry about him so much. Get out and meet someone that is more honest and stable. This guy will have you on an emotional roller coaster, if you continue to allow him to play with your feelings like that. You deserve better. Tell him to hit the road. Believe me, you don't need this loser.
2007-03-28 02:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
C'mon now. Can't you see the pattern here? He comes to you when he wants free sex with someone who's easy.
Other than that, he's not interested.
Let go. You can do better than that.
2007-03-28 02:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him. he isn't worth your time. to hm your just a piece of a$$ he can get when ever he needs a quick piece. and when he was blowing you off he was probably using that "your the best" line on someone else.
2007-03-28 04:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he kept coming back for free sex. and u re right - u re an idiot
2007-03-28 02:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you're just an occasional booty call, last resort type ****
2007-03-28 02:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by Chrystopher P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋