How about this??
Well I went out to a movie date last night.. I knew this girl from email, she was a friend of a friend thru college, and we had been talking a lot through email and text messages, and instant messages. I never met her in person before. Well finally we went and saw a movie tonight, and there wasn't much said. We talked for a few minutes before and after the movie, but right after the movie she said, "Well I had a great time, real fun, I guess I'll talk to you later." And that was it, we both left. No hug or anything.
During the movie, we didn't hold hands or anything like that either. She put a few pieces of gum in her mouth but that could mean nothing.
Anyway, what do I do now? What does it mean? Not interested? Taking it slow? Should I let her call me and ask me again, or what to do?
2007-03-27 19:15:39 · 7 answers · asked by andrew a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not interested. pursue her if you like banging your head against a brick wall. the chemistry was not there, so keep looking.
2007-03-27 19:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her call you and go out again i mean it was only the first time that you even saw her ya know! And since you guy's didn't talk much this must mean that your both very shy.. so give her another chance i mean you like her personality of course because you wouldn't have went on a date with her if you didn't so go out have a good time and talk to her say anything that is on your mind (i know how you feel i have been in your place)
2007-03-28 02:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Hailey K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta start the first date out at a place where you can talk, it makes it real hard for a first date at the movies it creates quiet awkward moments. You can't talk to her much before the movie or during the movie. you gotta give it a week after that date if you are able to talk to her alot and keep things the way they were before the first date im sure its good. just make sure you take her out for coffee or some place she likes most likely a shopping plaza or mall good place to get a girl talkin and thats when u lay down the charm the resist simple
2007-03-28 02:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by the maxican 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there isnt much there (on her part). It's ok.... you cant connect to everyone you meet! That swhy you date in the first place. Sounds like she ended the date quite abruptly. I would take that as a sign take out the next girl instead. Good Luck!
Honestly, the "real fun" part of her stmt sounds like she was being phony. Idk how she said it, so i cant be sure.
2007-03-28 02:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chemistry wasn't there man, keep looking cause this chick isn't for you. Good luck in the search.
2007-03-28 02:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like shes not interested i would just ask her how it went just to make sure but if shes not interested give her space.
2007-03-28 02:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The game is in her hands now..so u better play wise.
She can either accept you or reject you.
Follow the advice of the other ppl in this room.
2007-03-28 02:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋