i'm 22 years old n i never had serieus relasion with a girl. Whenever i meet a girl making me interested to her n i want to have close relasion, i allways afraid bcause of my overweight, it really make me inconfidance.
so ladies what do u think??????are u ladies only interested to sexy guys????????
4 aditional info i'm 95 kg n 170 kg
2007-03-27 19:30:55 · 7 answers · asked by luc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha, lol, I'd say you just have to find the right girl. Many don't care at all, but they have to reach a certain amount of maturity for it to be that way. Personally, the guy I like is definitely chubby and it really doesn't matter! Just remember that even though us girls have "the perfect guy" or certain features that attract us to a guy doesn't mean that we will only go for men who look like that! My boyfriend seriously looks nothing like my ideal guy and I love him to death. I couldn't imagine marrying anyone else.
2007-03-27 19:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not goin to lie everyone wants sumone to like and be loved yet alone to be cute, sexy, fine, pretty u get the point. n e ways theres nothing 4 u 2 ory about. as a girl I can help. i jus boke up with my b/f not to long ago and it sucked.....i thought n e ways. well, I was with him cuz y? he was cue more to a person than looks. I meanone day u look that way and the next u do. theres sumthing good about everyone sumtims were jus to n o r selves to look or take the time out to relax ong enough 4 whtever reason to allow sumne else to notice. beauty does reallycum from within and counts the most. sumone can be pretty on the outside r n ur case cute or whatever and ugly on the inside. believe it or not it shows and dums through which is any thing but cute. relax and becum more comfortable with ur self. a sexually life is vauable and to be cherished. how about u try talking to her about that. and if u relax ur so much lighter that way. O, have her try to b on top maybe that will help u relax more. its not the way u think r others its not like shes going to say get off me ur heavy. so chill, take a breath and have fun. enjoy eacother and c where that goes. have u ver thought of may be its jus ur not ready as u thought u were. thats not at all a bad thing. but mainly jus relax ur able to hink more clearly and have more fun.
2007-03-27 19:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean you are 95 kg and 170. which is your real weight? or are you trying to say that you are 95 kg and 170 pounds?
well, i do not really think that weight matters to a gril when she's looking for a serious relationship. however, you might want to try shedding a few kilos....it might do your self-esteem some good.
anyway, girls are not that shallow.
2007-03-27 19:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by silivren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you pleasently plump? I put on some extra weight too after having three kids and it seems like everytime I lose the weight I get pregnant again. WEIRD HUH? Tee Heeâ¥
You'll be alright sugar just don't be so tough on yourself!!
God Bless
2007-03-27 21:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by ☆♥•´`•.¸ ;-) •´`•.¸ ♥☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be honest.........look really really doesnt matter....what u r,u r.....peple should judge by urself.....find a honest girl also.......and, side by side, try to loose the weight, but dont feel less confident for ur look.
2007-03-27 19:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be confident if you are not, girls are going to notice that, and they wont find that attractive.
2007-03-27 19:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by Questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, try losing weight so women would find you attractive. but i think it wont really matter if you love each other..
2007-03-27 19:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by krizy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋