Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

I love paying with chains and ropes in bed. I was just curious to know how long other girls leave their boyfriends tied up for after you have satisfied yourself?

2007-03-27 18:11:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

year old virgin is good or bad?

2007-03-27 18:11:13 · 1 answers · asked by Alexis 2 in Singles & Dating

Bark back! Okay, first of all, some backstory. This will get COMPLICATED, because believe it or not, there are FIVE people named "Jayson" in this story. It's a kind of inside joke at our school, cuz there are so many, but just bear with me. :)

Okay, so Jayson #1 is my best friend. He told us his parents are splitting up last week.

Fast forward to this week, and he's REALLY depressed. To make matters worse, Jayson #2 lives on his street (yes i know its confusing) and is being a D!CK about it. They have always had a rivarly and he's MAKING JOKES about it. Can u believe that? Rivals or not that is NOT cool.

Jayson #3 and Jayson #4 are in my class. They are good friends of mine but they think Jayson #1 is overreacting. Jayson #3 said his parents split up when he was liek 10 and he didn't get that affected. The problem is, sometimes we all hang out together, and I can tell that Jayson #3 isn't being sensitive. How can I stick up for Jayson #1 without pissing off Jayson #3?

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2007-03-27 18:10:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A woman I know divorced soon after marriage. Her former spouse has since married again. Can a Catholic guy date this divorced woman? Is he committing adultery, or something?

2007-03-27 18:09:50 · 11 answers · asked by debisbooked 2 in Marriage & Divorce

does it mean that he is the first one to have sex with her???

or what???

2007-03-27 18:09:28 · 15 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 18:09:11 · 9 answers · asked by dez79837 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for 8 months. Both of us were previously married. We both dated others since our divorce, but this is the first serious relationship since for both of us. Here is the situation: He rents a room, but hasn't stayed there since November (he stays with me).
My lease will be up at the end of May. My sister has told me I can move in with her and live for free.
I have said to him a few times that I would like us to move in together, but he didn't respond. A few nights ago I brought it up again. At that time he said that his room mate is thinking about moving in with her boyfriend and renting the house. I suggested we rent it together. He responded that I should still move my stuff to my sisters, but I could stay with him.
How do you take that response? Do you think this means he isn't sure he wants to be with me long term?

2007-03-27 18:08:55 · 8 answers · asked by so_silly_me 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 19 and he is 25 and engaged..he asks y age and i tell him- i dont get an attitude about it but it kinda of annoys me sometimes but i dont show it in front of him

2007-03-27 18:08:26 · 4 answers · asked by precious 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi. Would anyone here help me find a wedding invitation format in Tagalog/Filipino please? I can't seem to find any link via the internet. Maybe you have an invitation stashed you can post the wordings? Thanks a lot.

2007-03-27 18:08:19 · 2 answers · asked by Jnx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey everybody well I am 18 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now, we both are attending college and I really couldnt ask for anybody to treat me better. We have a 10 month old daughter and have plans for the future (getting married). Everything has been really good we basically have a married lifestyle without the ring, well he is really musically skilled and he prduces beats for upcoming artists and makes good money doing but recently he wanted to be honest with me and old me that he have begun smoking whenever he is with th guys. When he told me i had to leave our house for day because it hit me so hard. We grown up together and he was always the one against smoking and drinking. I feel like its not him. How do i handle this? Its really hitting me hard emotionlly i just fell apart. My dad was a big smoker and recently quit an he adviss me to let him be and just set boudaries like no smoking in the hous or around my daughter. How do i handle my emotions w/ this?

2007-03-27 18:08:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My best friend Robert is very shy and quiet...not really outgoing but great once you get to know him. I am a hug kinda girl...they can fix anything or brigthten up someone's day. He has hugged me three times, but each was when I was very upset. He has not hugged except when I am extremly upset, but I want him to hug me outside of when I am hurting. I asked him if I could have a hug for my birthday when we were talkin' via text message...he never answered and we had this big thing over something later that day. I don't know if it is me or he is shy or what...I want him to hug me, but I don't want to make him uncomfortable. I care for him deeply because he is my best friend in the world and I really don't know what I would do without him. I am trying to learn to sacrifice and be what he needs me to be, so I don't know what to do.

2007-03-27 18:07:24 · 8 answers · asked by GodsGrl4Real 3 in Singles & Dating

he told my sister why i have no idea i haven't seen him to ask him matter of fact i think he stays with his girlfriend half the time. He comes on my job looking for me but most of the time it is on my days off (I work in a department store) I think he wants to tell me something but he hasn't i have given my cell phone number but he hasn't called. I know he maybe with his girlfriend as the saying goes why buy the cow when you get the milk for free(refering to the girlfriend) my thing it makes me wonder about his comment to her. Can anyone help me?

2007-03-27 18:06:56 · 1 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 18:06:03 · 13 answers · asked by emmy 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering how many people felt that in order to be loved you must love yourself first.
I personally don't believe that is true. There are many people who dislike themeselves with a great deal but still date and have relationships.
What do you think?

2007-03-27 18:06:02 · 14 answers · asked by Therapeutic Chain of Events 3 in Singles & Dating

We used to talk a lot but now he´s been busy and I´ve been down so I guess you could say I´ve been avoiding him. I miss talking to him and teasing him, how do I tell him without embarrassing myself?

2007-03-27 18:05:31 · 2 answers · asked by Marian Ruthven 3 in Singles & Dating

Im 14 years old [guy] im dating a 15 year old girl . i love her a lot . but she wants to have sex . and part of me wants to do it with her, but the other part doesn`t . should I do 'it' with her, or should I just tell her that I don`t think im ready yet . ? . thanks in advance .

2007-03-27 18:05:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't have any friends anymore except one that I've known for a while and I've never really had any other friends then that. So my question is where can I go to make new friends and whats a good way of keeping them as my friends (cause in the past I had friends and then they decided that they didn't like me so I'm not friends with those people anymore) and how do I get my new friends to like me?

2007-03-27 18:04:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It's not just "loving them" it's being "in love" with them...

2007-03-27 18:04:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 5 bridesmaids, 1 that is about a 18-20, 2 that are 14-16, and 2 that are 3-5. Therefore, I am looking for a particular type of dress. An A-line, strapless for the 2 that want it but with optional straps for the ones who want/need straps. But in a light brown, mocha, latte, colored dress. Where can I get what I need?? Help, PLEASE!

2007-03-27 18:04:13 · 11 answers · asked by smilingthru_life 2 in Weddings

my husband came home from work mad cause a woman sexually harassed him while he was at her bank. i congratulated him and he was mad at me. it was so cute cause he was ranting about "im married cant she see the ring? is she stupid? the ring means i only want my wife" it was great! he didnt realize how special that made me feel even though it was very odd

2007-03-27 18:03:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the thing is, i wont really be able to live out the things that will make me happy if i stay with her..but i make her happy and would be able to keep her happy if we stayed together..how do i make such a choice like that? im a passionate person and love to see others happy an smile..so whats more important..my happyness? or hers?

2007-03-27 18:02:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my sister-inlaw lives with me and my husband. She is disabled, has no car, or hardly any money. She has some depression and isn't always positive about life. That is no problem for me, but she has no friends or a boy friend. She says she isn't lonely, but i caught her crying tonight when she was scanning the internet on how to find friends. She told me she was lonley and needed friends to talk too. I am glad she wants friends or a boy friend, but she never goes know where, other than with my husband and i go some where. We don't go out to many clubs or have many friends ourselves. She couldn't find nothing she liked on the net, for finding friends. Does anyone have any suggestion on how to help someone find websites or anything on the net where you can find friends?

2007-03-27 18:01:55 · 1 answers · asked by mr_and_mrs.x 2 in Friends

I've never in my life showed interest in the opposite sex to my parents, I want to open up now. But I fear it may be difficult for me, I'm quite shy you see...

2007-03-27 18:01:20 · 9 answers · asked by dot. 3 in Singles & Dating

We were just intimate but never in a serious, just weekend rondevouz. Anyhow, I never wen't down on him because I told him that was for marriage. Then he goes down on me after a year into our deal. We talk and he say he has more plans for us then never called me back since? I never call him unless he calls me normally. Now I'm just really confused?I haven;t heard from him since.

2007-03-27 18:01:17 · 1 answers · asked by Meket M 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend wants me to get an abortion and so does my mother, im willing to comprimise with them and do it, its very ahrd for me and its not for me its for them, i dont want to know tat i should do what i want, because i already thought about that, what i want to know is should i ask of anything in return from either of them and what should i ask if at all?my boyfriend is not very nice to me,hes impatient and doesnt like to see how hard i try to do things for him, shouuld i ask anything of him? i dont wanna leave him and pretend nothing happen a year is a long time to forget, i love him. ehhh. help

2007-03-27 18:00:48 · 29 answers · asked by idontevenknow 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back. We had a friendship that lasted 4 months. She got mad at me for a mistake I made which takes too much explanation and two months later she told me she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I HAD NOT been talking to her since she said she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I thought things would be cool between us so recently for the 1st time I tried to talk to her. When I asked her how she was, she kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I told her I only wanted us to be friends again but she wasn't hearing me. She talked to everyone who came in the hall but me. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else. I guess I'll just see you around." I left the hall and haven't said anything to her since.


Five days later from this, (today) a teacher came to me today and pulled me out of class, took me to her office and told me to please leave the girl alone. I've only tried to talk to her that one time, I've only called once four months ago (then hung up and never tried again), and I only gave her one letter on Valentine's Day. Like I said, we haven't talked for 11 months and that's plenty of opportunity I could have used to harass her, which was/is the last thing I ever want to do to her. I told the girl that too, when I tried to talk to her I said "I don't want to bug you or harass you or anything so I'm going to leave." Then I said the aforemention sentence after trying a little more to get her to listen to me. After the day I tried to talk to her I haven't paid her any attention at all, and continued to pay no attention to her. So I'm in the office and the teacher says leave her alone and that her MOM called the school about me. It was like they were accusing me of harassing or stalking her which I had NOT been doing. The teacher said "It's not that she doesn't like you, it's that she doesn't like you in that way." If it's not that she doesn't like me, then why was I called out of class behind her and I didn't even much do anything to b called out of class for. So I'm not telling her happy birthday tomorrow, I really don't want to see her again, I never want to talk to her again and when I graduate I never will so good riddance to her and I'm making sure when I find someone else I'm doing a lot better from this experience.

2007-03-27 18:00:45 · 5 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

i am not good at talking with girl so someone please show me how to touch a girl

2007-03-27 17:59:37 · 13 answers · asked by Ruru 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a cousin whom lives with myself and few other members of my family. Her and myself are very close, almost as if I was her adopted brother or as if she was my daughter. I'm the one whom she comes to when she is sad ect ect.

She is young and has recently hit puberty. She also recently has 'discovered' herself sexually (as she had not learned the laws of locking a door).

This morning she divulged to me that she had a somewhat erotic dream with myself and her. She was confused by it but not upset. She came to me wondering if this was normal or not. I answered to my best knowledge.

I personally am not sure what to think nor say about it and it's a subject I don't feel would be openly great discussion subject with the rest of the family.

PLEASE no perverted remarks.

2007-03-27 17:59:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I will lose my virginity in about two hours. So I have one hour to read your answers please help. I am a 19 year old female, 5'5'' and about 113 lb. He is coming over in 20 minutes I know it's going to happen. PLZ, ladies who are experienced, I know it will hurt, but tell me how can I help to make it enjoyable for both of us? What do I have to know that I might not already know besides protection? I'm not very good with pain, is it supposed to be embarrasing to cry or tear? How can i reduce the pain? Should I stop him if the pain becomes uncontrolable? How will it all start? Any post symptoms? HELP HELP, thanks

2007-03-27 17:57:53 · 31 answers · asked by DIXIE 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 17:57:47 · 13 answers · asked by naturalphase 3 in Singles & Dating