the thing is, i wont really be able to live out the things that will make me happy if i stay with her..but i make her happy and would be able to keep her happy if we stayed together..how do i make such a choice like that? im a passionate person and love to see others happy an smile..so whats more important..my happyness? or hers?
2007-03-27 18:02:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are living a lie...how could that make anyone happy?
2007-03-27 18:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by Evie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your happiness is the overall importance. Don't think short term but long term. She's only gonna be hurt later when she finds out that the whole time you been with her didnt make you happy and that would only make her think every smile that you made her have is a fake and a lie. I suggest you let her know now if you're really sure she isnt the one for you. Breka it off while it's still fresh. Don't wait till later or else both of oyu wont be happy. She may be happy now but you're not and you're gonna snap in the long run and who knows what will happen. Let her know now and if possible try to be friends. Maybe something in the future is waiting for the two of you and you're both just not ready now. Good luck with this. She will get hurt now, but she'll be abel to move on faster. show that you care and that things will get better. Dont' wait
2007-03-28 01:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by Freeak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
News Flash -
If you won't be able to do the things that make you happy , then you WILL become an unpleasant person and being with you will NOT be a good experience.
Go elsewhere and be happy ,
Let her find someone who wants to be with her since you do not really .
But you can be civil about it . . .
Just say it is time for you to go pursue your quests and you'll stay in touch if she wants .
2007-03-28 01:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long could you be like that.
i advise you to split. but not jump into another relatnshp unless you've settled this.
You know what's best for yourself and you knew already what's best for her.
The truth may hurt but the truth will set the both of you free.
In time she'll be more happy too, soon as she understands ewverything.
It's not being selfish.
Teach her to do the selfless love.
After all, you could be a true friend to her, and that's what cpunts most in life.
Trust yourself, be firm, and trust God.
goodluck n godbless.
2007-03-28 01:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first,ask yourself why do you want to keep making her happy? if you're happy when she's happy,that's good...but since you're not happy while making her happy,why keep going like that? you should just leave and find your own happiness cos she'll do even without you around her,im sure....or you are just expecting something for her,that's why you are staying?
2007-03-28 01:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
making others happy there is No Better Feeling!
2007-03-28 01:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to go for the second one ,when u make someone feel happy ,ultimately u will be happy.
2007-03-28 01:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by naresh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your happiness is more important for at the end of the day how can you truly love someone if you ddont fully love yourself.
2007-03-28 01:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it you can't read her mind and she can't your mind and I don't even know you and you are being kind of elusive so how can I give you advice other than to talk to her
if you think you are making some kind of sacrifice eventually you will become resentful and then no one will be happy
2007-03-28 01:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should stay her freind and kinda just hook her up with someone else or let the relationship drift away
2007-03-28 01:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by east2west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋