Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

I have a friend, a close one for some reason when ever there is something that she brings up like a game or something like tennis when shes playing a different school i have a feeling inside me that wants her to loose. She is my close friend i dont know why im like this when ever she gets a new thing likea new phone i always want mine to be better than hers and find ways to degerade her. When ever i hear her talk about like her loosing to another school i always say thats too bd but inside me i feel like YES WOOT i love it when i see them fail or something this only happens with 2 of my close friends, doues anyone know why i efeel like this..? Shes good friend and i want to be friends with her but i hate it when i see her beat someone else or get something new i always want either her to fail or for my phone /to be

2007-03-27 17:30:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so i like this girl. i've asked her out a few times finally we met at a mutual place with friends. unfortunitly she got a little drunk and she was all over me. now i played it cool and then later she called me to appologies and i told her nothing happend she didn't want to see me for a few days. after that i didn't know what to do so i asked on here for advice and someone said just tell her how you feel so i did and now she is like wow!!! thats a lot to take in.

even though i know she likes me and i still like her its just a lot to take in. i'm thinking i should continue acting like nothing happened and just get back to talking to her. however what if she wants to not see me for a bit and think things through? any suggestions?

all i know is she thinks i'm cute and she likes me some. i dunno how much. i'm pretty sure she has been hurt in the past as well. she things all guys are A§§holes. i don't want to pressure her, but i'd rather get to know her.

2007-03-27 17:30:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been together for 3 years. we've had many hardships and yet so many good times. i always feel at home with him, that comfortable feeling that's hard to find. i know i'll always love and care about him, but there's so many things that make me question my decision to be with him.

he's always telling me that i'm a ***** (among many other names) and i need to shut up. sometimes he gets so depressed for no reason, it makes me feel awful and he gets mad at me for trying to help. he's so evasive about his feelings and what's going on in his life. i love him so much i just want to help, and he gets mad at me for it. he says i just like to complain and make drama because i'm a woman, but it really hurts me when he treats me like that. it's like he doesn't understand (or doesn't actually realize) what he's doing to me.
how should i deal with these issues, or should i just find someone else? do all men act like that?

2007-03-27 17:29:22 · 19 answers · asked by Kara 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 17:29:10 · 21 answers · asked by killmylandlord 4 in Friends

what do u do

2007-03-27 17:28:24 · 6 answers · asked by KEVIN A 1 in Singles & Dating

there use to be a threesome me my best friend and her best dude friend (not going out). then comes high school, and instantly i am seperated from my jr high buds. yes i see them everday but its not the same. the threesome when down to a twosome. my best friend told me that the dude friend said something about how he thought i was a b*tch. oh well you cant plz everyone, so plz you self. but at a dance he was there, she was there, and i was there. the last dance she went and danced with another dude. usally the last dance is reserved for him and her. well since she was ocupied he came over to me and asked me to dance. weird but as we danced we talked. the wats up how was the dance did you enjoy the dance blah blah blah. but i am still wondering what in the world man? tacy would never lie to me and she was the one that he was talking to. so im wondering am i not so hated...i mean i dont want assume that he dosen't like me as much, and its not like i want to go out with him. what happened

2007-03-27 17:28:03 · 1 answers · asked by alien 3 in Friends

A guy wants you to call him Papi and you call him Carino~. Can anyone confirm what these terms actually mean and how are they used?

2007-03-27 17:27:33 · 7 answers · asked by artutina 4 in Singles & Dating

on average

2007-03-27 17:27:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

places where young single woman hang out.
women plz respond

2007-03-27 17:26:52 · 13 answers · asked by simon l 1 in Singles & Dating

like i may have said before: im not very atractve and i cant get guys but sometimes ill be walking down the streat or something and they will grab my *** or say "nice ***"

2007-03-27 17:26:42 · 9 answers · asked by Kris 2 in Singles & Dating

how would a shy guy like me get a girl to notice me everythings so difficult now a days u cant even talk to a girl without a car, goods looks or money so that puts more pressure on me i guess thats where the shyness comes from so how can i get rid of it

2007-03-27 17:25:59 · 24 answers · asked by LilFlip 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend was having sex with this guy i like. I am now going out with him and i need to no from the guys what are some good sex tricks that you like in bed and how do i do them?

2007-03-27 17:25:45 · 6 answers · asked by Hmm 1 in Singles & Dating

Help! I've got too many bridesmaids - 6, if not 7, for a wedding of only about 100 guests. And my fiance' is only able to get 4 groomsmen, including the best man. Let me just explain my bridesmaids and see if you agree that I should just invite my trio of HS friends, instead of being bridesmaids. How do I break it to them? I hate to, but its too many!

MOH - good friend since 8th grade; we don't talk or get together very often, but every time we do - it's like we never had a break

BM 1-3: Trio of friends from high school. We always did things together - but we only hang out, email or talk a few times a year (haven't talked to them since Christmas). I still love them as my old friends, but I feel that my bridesmaids should be whom I'm currently close to. I think I already asked them a year or two ago though!

BM 4 - future sister in law

BM 5 - new friend (wife of a groomsman/ fiance' supervisor) who I'm already very close with

BM 6 - Coworker who I'm very close with

2007-03-27 17:25:30 · 23 answers · asked by Up an Evolutionary Tree 3 in Weddings

It seems like whenever his mom come around he's a different person. He just forgets about me, He stays talking to her he treats me like i don't exist. He puts her before me, it should be the other way aroumd.

2007-03-27 17:23:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm planning a trip for the summer and im stuck between the two places. Cancun, Mexico or Sweden/Germany? Help me decide plllllleaaaaaaase.

2007-03-27 17:23:22 · 7 answers · asked by M.O.B 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

they need to be why why do they exsit

2007-03-27 17:23:19 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In my observation, most jobless husband do it, but I find it lame, illogical and crazy thing to do... One wife who is my officemate show to me her bruishes and it melts my heart.

2007-03-27 17:22:41 · 25 answers · asked by september 2 in Marriage & Divorce

upbringing? Would you try to help this guy out or would you just stay away. You've known him for years from a distance and never known him to have a bad temper before but after a few months of dating it came out?

2007-03-27 17:21:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm doing a research paper on divorce and how to cope after divorce.

2007-03-27 17:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by Tracey Fahnestock 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How is it that the woman I am in love with gets all I got? My loyalty....My love..my attention...my affection...my only desire..She is the woman of my dreams!! Although she knows how I feel she also knows she has got the upper hand. She could have any man eating right out of her hand...She knows she is hot...and she seems to like being noticed by other men.
She often tells me how casually men notice her. This seems to bother me..and yet she say's that because she tells me everything it should be Ok...She often creats insecurity in me and since we are both divorced. I sometimes wonder If I am the right man for her and although I want to believe in may heart that she is loyal and would not cheat on me...but when she tells me about other men noticing her and what she has told me in her secret fantasy's that keep me wondering...We have been dating over two years... Are my reactions normal and should I trust her loyalty. What would U do? She seems to like to play games...Am I the fool?

2007-03-27 17:21:11 · 8 answers · asked by rickmeister 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance has a drinking probem. He seemed to really want to stop and said I made him happy and changed his life. It's been three years since we met, and I don't see any change. I do nag him. I don't know what approach to use. In the end, I know HE is the one that has to want to change and I can't force him. It's gotten worse. He has been hanging out with his drinking buddies almost every waking minute for a long time. I finally said it's either the booz or me(and I offered to pay for everything while he was in rehab.). He chose the booz and said that he was like that when the ring went on my finger and that is who he is and he will never change because he doesn't want to any time soon and that I should move out, and if I don't like the drinking (and the pot) then I don't like him.
WOW! He kept telling me he wanted to quit and I fell for it. I actually believed in him. What a change. We are broken up (for the better). But why did he lead me on for so long saying he wanted to quit??

2007-03-27 17:21:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 17:20:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 17:20:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-27 17:19:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 27 and lonely I have no girlfriend I don't know why though I a handsome man.

2007-03-27 17:19:09 · 11 answers · asked by ZOHIRE 1 in Singles & Dating

long story short...got an email from him sayin sorry. i shouldn't be mad, but i am. i went outta my way for him, but i know he's got a lot on his plate right now. all i ask from him is a LITTLE time. do i respond nicely and say it's all good or do i tell him how i really feel and put more on his plate? i don't want to push him away. please help. what would you do?

2007-03-27 17:18:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've only been asked out by girls a few times, which makes me doubt how attractive I am to the opposite sex a bit.

So I'm just wondering, do girls normally ask guys out as much as guys ask them out?

2007-03-27 17:18:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need advice, I have a personal problem, I haven't dated anyone, I haven't had a girlfriend, or kissed anyone, and I haven't found the meaning of the word love yet, I know many will say that I am a loser or a low life but please don't post this answers I have been told many times and I just want some opinions.

I am 18 years old and I still haven't had a girlfriend or had a kiss yet from any girl , does anyone think this is bad? or is it considered as normal. Opinions please

2007-03-27 17:18:12 · 21 answers · asked by Vicz101 5 in Singles & Dating

I know that she kinda likes me too but im to shy to ask her out plz help

2007-03-27 17:17:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

name all the places where u would b grossed out if girls had hair there? what are other turn offs?

2007-03-27 17:17:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating