Advice from girls?

Question

I need advice, I have a personal problem, I haven't dated anyone, I haven't had a girlfriend, or kissed anyone, and I haven't found the meaning of the word love yet, I know many will say that I am a loser or a low life but please don't post this answers I have been told many times and I just want some opinions.

I am 18 years old and I still haven't had a girlfriend or had a kiss yet from any girl , does anyone think this is bad? or is it considered as normal. Opinions please

Answer 1

sweetheart, you are perfectly normal. there is no right or wrong age to have your first girlfriend or kiss a girl. I know you probably think you're the only guy who hasn't had a girlfriend, but that's just not true. I think it's great that you haven't gone and made out with girls who mean nothing to you, or had girlfriends just because the other guys did. that shows me and everyone else reading your question that you have a great deal of respect for yourself and for girls. and don't worry, when the right girl comes along, you'll know it. and she's going to feel like the luckiest girl in the world to be your first girlfriend, and be the very first girl to kiss you. that's a special thing. be proud of yourself! you're obviously a very special guy.
I wish you the best .

Answer 2

Don't you even worry about this. I turned 18 about 3 months ago. I've never had a boyfriend. I've only been kissed twice and it didn't mean anything either time. Aaand I've only "found the meaning of love" once and in the end it just ended up breaking my heart when the guy didn't feel exactly that way about me. As far as I can see, you aren't missing anything yet. I choose not to acknowledge the word "normal" because nothing can be defined in such a way. Is it okay? Sure. Maybe you are just smart enough to know what you want in a relationship and from a girl without having to go around "experimenting" - as my friends like to call it. Or maybe you're just shy..and thats fine too. You really should not let people bring you down.

Answer 3

I don't think it makes you a loser. Have you asked anyone out yet? Personally...I've only kind of asked a guy out once. I've like a LOT of guys who just never asked me out...I'm old fashioned and like to be the one asked out. Maybe it's your social circle...since you're 18, if you're not in college yet, it will change things for you. I obviously don't know you...but worst case scenario is you have to ask out several girls before one says yes. I usually give a guy one date and then decide from there. I don't know if it's normal...just depends on the person. Good luck and start asking girls out...may hurt your self esteem if you get a lot of no's but you'll appreciate your girlfriend more when you get the yes...and you will get a yes :)

Answer 4

I wouldn't say that it is bad at all. Most people jump into relationships before they know what love is. Other people your age may consider this odd, but if you wait for love, then it will be worth it. When you find a girl you are attracted to you will want to kiss her and it will be a kiss you will remember always. Don't worry about what others think. Sounds like you are responsible and are on the right track.

Answer 5

No. Nothing wrong with it really, the thing is, you can't expect sympathy or anything, because if you don't have courage, or enough faith in yourself, most likely, girls will find that a huge turn off. I do not know you, so this is just towards all the guys who are scared to approach girls, cuz who knows, she mite be your future wife,

So, what I can tell you is that don't be afraid to put yourself out there, and when you do, try not to have any expectations, because usually, expectations lead to disappointments.And, love is just...well.....love...it just happens when you least expect it
Overall, just don't be afraid, and things will fall into place, and whether it happens sooner or later shouldn't matter.
And don't be afraid of chiks, cuz we don't harm unless need be.

Answer 6

Don't worry about not having a gf yet. Also if you haven't tried to get to know someone and ask them out then you could try working on that. Maybe you just haven't found a good girl to be with. Just take your time and live your life and someone will show up eventually to be with you.

Answer 7

I think it is great. My sister just turned 21 and never kissed anyone. It just means you won't have baggage when you meet the right girl.

I was really upset because I never could meet any good guy. A year later I met my husband in line at a fast food place. Don't give up and don't worry about it. You have freedoms now you will never have again.

Answer 8

I think it's fine. and personally I wish more guys were like that. I'm in the same boat you're in but I guess you can't look at it like it's a curse rather look at it like it's a good thing. Because I know your wife will feel so honored that you didn't get distracted by other girls and you were waiting purely for her... those might not be your intentions right now but who knows they could turn out to be like that. I think it's awesome and I say take your time you have nothing to loose. trust me she'll be there.

Answer 9

no, i dont think its weird.
i think you just might be a little shy and you need to come out of your shell a little bit
when you find the right girl things will just click, dont rush it
i really dont know how to define 'normal' honestly
normal isnt always a good thing anyway
i just think you have to wait until the right one comes your way
dont be shy, and if it just happens you get turned down
dont worry there are tons of other women out there in the world
you just gotta go for it!

Answer 10

It's not bad, it's not "abnormal". It's just a bit later than many others, that's all. I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was even older than you, it's not a big deal.

Don't worry about what's "normal", or about what other people think. Just worry about what you yourself want.