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Question

how would a shy guy like me get a girl to notice me everythings so difficult now a days u cant even talk to a girl without a car, goods looks or money so that puts more pressure on me i guess thats where the shyness comes from so how can i get rid of it

Answer 1

There's been a saying: "What you don't know, won't kill you."

Apparently, you know a bit too much. The best thing you can do is just be yourself when talking with women, or just anyone.

The trick now is to actually start it up. Ask for something or help them out. For example: So what's that you're holding? Or "You seem to be the person that knows this kind of stuff". Stuff like that.

Answer 2

Let me say this you need a little more confidence in yourself !!
If a girl would just want your car, good looks and money. Then you definitely don't need a girl like that. You need a girl that likes you for you, not for what you have or don't have !! Work toward some some goals in achieving a car, get a part-time job to earn some extra cash. I am sure your a very handsome young man. The shyness will pass in time, when you have some more confidence in yourself. Don't let the pressure weigh down........sounds to me that maybe you have ran across some gold-diggers. Always remember: Take me for who I am, not for what I have or don't have. That special someone will come along !!

Hope this helped you and wishing you happiness, peace and joy always.

Answer 3

Thats not called shyness honey... it's insecurity. You need to put yourself out there in the best of light and realise you are just as good as those guys with the cars and all the ladies. Be a good person, respect the women and take care of yourself... girls will notice you soon enough.

Answer 4

If it's a certain girl you're after, be yourself. If she doesn't fall for that, it wasn't meant to be, plus, there's much less stress that way than having to put on some falsehood whenever you're together.

Is it girls in general? Some girls find shyness attractive. Join some kind of group (social, volunteer, school?) If you don't find a girl there, at least it will be good practice, and help you get out of your shell. Besides, it looks good on college aps and resumes!

Answer 5

Where are you getting the idea that you have to have a car, good looks, or a lot of money just to talk to a girl? There's someone for everyone and and a decent girl doesn't care if you don't have the best care or a lot of money. Just find someone who has similar interests and talk to her about something that you have in common.

Answer 6

You dont have to have a car or money or good looks for alot of girls wel at least the ones that arent shallow. and if you're shy just talk to this girl more get to know her also a fun thing i did for one of my guy friends who was shy is i made him make a suptanious list and he had to do one thing on that list everyday. so try that my friend now doesnt even have a problem talking to the girls(in fact im dating him!!)

so good luck!!!

Answer 7

You don'nt need to have all those things in order to get a girl. First of all, you need to be proud of what you already have. Be self-confident, be a gentleman and qbe a good listener. You have to make sure that your first goal will be to approach this person as a friend. Don't puch things too fast if you know thast you like her. Know what she likes. Maybe is something interesting that you both share...but above all be charming and a good listener. Throwing thrashie complimets scare away all possible candidates. You have already what it takes, just be confident. I wish you the best!

Answer 8

Just talk to her. Make small conversation. Talk about similar interests and then take it from there. That is the easiest thing to do. Just when you see her where ever walk up to her and be like "Hi..." and start making a conversation. If she is worth going after and will talk with you and stuff. Good luck.

Answer 9

if u do get a girl based on a car, gd looks and money, trust me. she's not worth it.
c'mon! there are sincere girls in de world u know. and they dun care much abt car, looks or ure wallet.

the most impt thing to get a girl to notice u is ure aura. how confident u are in ure own skin. how sincere u are. and how much u know abt respecting women.

its 3 very simple things, but somehow its hard to find. cars, gd looks and money are easier to find, but dun mean much.

gd luck! hope i've been of help(:

Answer 10

Not all girls are material. Some girls do not look at such things. From my own point of view such things are very secondary. When I loved my BF he didnt have anything and i have been knowing him since 4 years. But know he got his own car and hopefully his own house and then we will get married soon.