Is it mutual u think?

Question

We both married say we will not have an affair rinterestead. however at work we are always joking talking, going for coffee. When talking to me she often touches me and often hesitates touching me like kicks my feet or keeps proding me to get my attention. When we work we work but when we play we do just as hard. When talking to me she is often in my space and most of the time when walking past my office looks in and sometime runs past pretending not to look. When on the phone we talk and one of us will say we have to go or don't u have to go then we talk even more. We from time to time talk personal. . Generally she will always sit next to me in meetings. . Also we r more touchy (nervously) and complimentary or critical both negative and positive. I got a com re my weight On the neg comments I ask why and she say also neg with her man, so whats the problem thats the way she is. She appears often nervous and in a hurry round me. Nervous or avoidance or scared

Answer 1

ok so what is the problem? u say u r both married and won't do what with an affair? sounds like she is wanting something more than friendship and vice-versa.. if both of you love your better halves then i think the smart thing is to back off from each other. she is really after something else besides a work friendship here..i would think this over and decide if you get caught do you want to loose your family? is she worth the pain and angiush your wife would go through just for an affair with a co-worker?? Think about it????????

Answer 2

She cant hide the chemistry that you both have BUT if you know whats best fpr you,you better not get involved with her! The consequences are devestating both morally and emotionally. Continue to do right by your wife and honor you vows.