I am in middle school and i have started a relationship (bf/gf) with this girl. I find it strange how class mates always ask did you kiss her? did you hold her hand? and so on. So if that is the norm, am i having a slow relationship? and is that a bad thing? We havent hugged held hands or any of those things they talk about. But i do know we like eachother very much. May i have your opinions?
2007-03-27 18:39:48 · 15 answers · asked by hello 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry i should have made it more clear,by not hugged i meant like not a real more passionate hug like in the movies, but we have hugged like the leaning over the with shoulders kind. But not the tye where you basically mash your body into them
2007-03-27 18:55:24 · update #1
All relationships move at their own pace... there is no timeline as when someone should kiss, hug, hold hands, get to 2nd, slide into 3rd... so don't worry about what others say, You and your girl are having fun and enjoying each other and that is all that matters.
2007-03-27 18:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would like to compliment you on being a gentleman.
Take the relationship at a pace that is comfortable for and your girlfriend. No you are not having a slow relationship. I believe we all do things in our on time. Don't give in to peer pressure because your friends are asking questions. Take your time, you will know when it is the right time to hold her hand or give her a hug.The great thing about this relationship is you both know you like each other very much and that is what matters !!
Wishing you both the best of luck !!
2007-03-27 19:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Middle school! You cant have a relationship in that grade! go play baseball with your friends and not worry about it! You shouldn't be kissing anyone seriously at this age or do anything more than kissing and holding hands. be glad you have a slow and innocent relationship!
2007-03-27 18:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your g/f are talking and having fun and enjoying each other's company. This is the start of a good relationship. Don't be influenced or feel pressured by your peers. I'll bet you're a sweet couple . Continue using your head and doing what you're doing because you 've got it right and your friends are immature. Good luck!
2007-03-27 19:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, starting with a friendship and not rushing the 'gooey' stuff keeps a relationship lasting longer and not end as badly. In middle school, it okay to not rush esp. if either one of you are not ready. Don't feel like you have to kiss or anything else just because others say you do (or because you feel like you have to). Also, you should Talk to your gfriend if your confused about what you should do...
2007-03-27 18:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by hazeleyes7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thats not a bad thing. just take your time. when your ready to hold her hand, hug & kiss. you'll know when the time is right. Don't be pressured into doing anything. you need to respect eachother and by taking your time you are.
2007-03-27 18:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by brenda_lilb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore with what people think or ask. it's your relationship with her,not others..girl will hurt if they get know that their bf keeps telling people about how their relationship goes... so,you don't have to be worry about having a slow relationship or not just as long both of you are happy with the way you guys are. just go with the flow, cos it'll come to you sooner or later and when it comes to relationship,it's about how you two get along and feel comfortable with each other
2007-03-27 18:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are only in grade school.... But always remember slow realationships are always better then a fast realationship.. And it is typical for your class mates to ask stupid personal questions like that, because at that age they are curious at what you are doing differently then what they are doing...just ignore them and tell them it is none of their business.... things will progress as time goes on..that is if it is meant to be
2007-03-27 18:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In middle school you don't need to be in-vole with just one person Take your time if you at that young age find that you want to be together then you have nothing to do but wait and enjoy the family.
2007-03-27 18:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you havent even hugged her? how long have you been going out? if you feel comfortable holding her hand, then go for it, but if not, then dont... as for the kiss thing, wait for a moment, do just kiss her because, and if you are her bf, you HAVE i repeat HAVE to hug her
2007-03-27 18:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by andie... you know you love me 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋