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I know, I sound pathetic. I'm still a virgin (relax, i meant kiss virgin), and my friend and I want a boyfriend. we're 13, and all the guys in our school is stupid, ugly and weird. I just hate that we females mature so much faster than males. *sighs* so any ideas as to how meet new guys or find the better side of guys?

2007-03-27 18:26:37 · 10 answers · asked by ohemgee545 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

thanks to all the people who told me that i'm a whiny brat. i love you guy. and thanks for all the people who told me to think about it. i will. i will try to think more about what a relationship means to me. right now, i think that i want a guy to really talk to, and have fun with, nothing too serious. holding hands at most. *blushes* haha, lamo. whatever.

2007-03-27 20:51:36 · update #1

also, to the person who corrected my grammar usage, you said that i want a bot friend. i do want a bot friend. they're soo hawt.

2007-03-27 20:53:45 · update #2

last detail; i mostly want advice from teenagers or wise adults, not bitter 40-somethings. thanks for the advice.

2007-03-27 20:55:07 · update #3

okay, last last one. I just wanted to know where to meet guys outside of my school. Not about how pathetic i am or if i should get a boyfriend or not (although these helped a little)

2007-03-27 20:59:23 · update #4

10 answers

Everyone wants a boyfriend or girlfriend, but just because you are of a certain age doesn't mean that you have to have one. I am 16 and didn't start dating until about 8 months ago. You just have to wait and one will come along. Just keep a look out for one that you think is attractive and start getting to know him as a friend and if you like other aspects of him than flirt with him. There are ones that are as mature as you just keep an eye out for him. Join so type of coed afterschool thing if there aren't any guys that you like at school. Usually if you do a sports thing than the guys tend to be hot. If you have no luck than jsut wait.

2007-03-27 18:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by happy2bdalucky1 2 · 0 0

Yes unfortunately you do sound pathetic. So does your friend. And I'll bet half the "stupid" guys in your school would know that when you have a plural subject "guys" then you need a plural noun "are."
But to answer your question I'd have to say that you're 13. To young to have a bot friend, and that you should wait. It might seem like you and your friend are a lot more mature then the boys at your school, but you're no where near mature yet. (Don't take offense because you will be eventually.) You should be patient.

2007-03-28 01:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0 0

you know there's a reason that they say you're too young and that's cuz you don't really understand what it means to be in a relationship yet. you may think that its all fun and games, but it's not. having a boy friend is a serious thing. you may think you're mature, but really not enough to handle the real deal. my best advice is to wait until you can handle it. what you don't realize is that you make a commitment when you decide to get a boyfriend. so for now you should only have friends that are guys and just wait until you can deal with the fact that you are with someone that needs more attention then a regular friend. if you get one right now, you'll lose a lot of special connections with the guys that are your friends now. so just take it slow, what are you worrying about. you're still young, you don't have to be in a hurry to grow up. enjoy the time you have to be imature now trust me you'll be glad you did it.

2007-03-28 01:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by TheDrummer 2 · 0 0

Are you sure females mature faster? Because you really sound like a whiny little brat who needs to mature before she even thinks of trying to find a boyfriend.

2007-03-28 01:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Hey! Slow down you're 13 yrs old and have time to get 'the guy'. The relationships you have now are not 'ever lasting' and are 'immature'. I say enjoy life free of connections to any guys (esp. if they pull you down). You will have plenty of guy search time in your future so don't start now when you don't really need to...

2007-03-28 01:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by hazeleyes7 2 · 0 0

You have your whole life to deal with relationships. Try to enjoy just taking care of yourself and your own needs for now.

Don't be in such a rush to grow up. The grown up world sucks...

2007-03-28 01:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by Robo 2 · 0 0

well im kinda in the same spot your in i want a gf and im to scared to tell her but inyways i mean evry guy should act diffrent around a girl but if hes around his friends he acts a dumb *** but pretty much just go for a guy and see what happins

2007-03-28 01:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you are desperate to get a boyfriend and you are thirteen then some of those adjectives describe you.

2007-03-28 01:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0 0

girls may mature faster but your still 13 you little tard just wait longer

2007-03-28 01:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by cierra 2 · 0 0

IDK cause most of the guys in our school are really fun to be around...

2007-03-28 01:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 2 · 0 0

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