I live in delhi, I have one girl in my life for 2 years as a good friend but sometime I make fun with her and she got angry on me but some time she forget that stupid fun. I make do fun with her with her like my other friends but she is girl so sometimes she got furious and later she got normal but from oct 2006 her attitude was changed when i wish her birthday. She gave me red flower and sometime she send me love SMS but I again i make a fun she is still angry on me i told her i love her but she is telling that we r just friends forget me just be a good friends, she will go Canada on April for 3 years to do MBA I can't understand how I stop her I don't wanna lose her but i still don't know this love or only friendship.
2007-03-27 18:20:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
By your statement I feel that you are in Love
By that girls action I feel she sees you only as a friend.
Remember since she is going to Canada for future studies it will be difficult to carry on a long distance relationship. Hence I suggest quit your love interest in her and just be her friend.
If she is in love with you she will come back
all the best
2007-03-27 19:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Amit, if you love her you will let her make the decisions that will better her life, even if they don't include you. It may help to tell her that you value her friendship and have grown to love her over the time that you've known her, that you would like her to be your girlfriend but understand that she needs to do whats right for her future right now. Let her know that she will always have a special place in your heart and that if she ever needs anything to call you.... If she loves you she will stay or try to have a "long-distance" relationship, in either case be glad that you have a good friend like her and GOOD LUCK! :)
2007-03-27 18:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by J B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says you are just friends than it doesn't matter if you love her or just like her as she doesn't want you as a lover. The way you treat her does not sound like love to me. You sound very immature to be going with someone that is going to get a MBA. Perhaps you should look for someone that likes your idea of fun and doesn't get angry about it. If you two can not get along in harmony than it doesn't sound like the grounds for a healthy marriage.
2007-03-27 18:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by old_school_granma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually have a chum who's so wonderful from time to time, he acts so elegant He retains me giggling whilst i'm down And continually turns my frown the different way up yet whilst my pal is feeling unhappy I choose there became something to make him happy yet all i factors him is our appealing friendship purely hoping he will settle for it
2016-12-15 10:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amit---grow up--she is not interested in you--she has school to be concerned about before you--so stop being a pest and let her go---get a grip and move on to a girl that is interested in you as more than a friend. Tough break, but that is life.
2007-03-27 18:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its friendship. When two young people of different genders meet, its a high probability that they start liking each other. But confusing it with love, I think is really NOT GOOD. But what your truly feelings are, only you know. Wish you luck.
Mallika
2007-03-27 18:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is only your friend. If she was more she would let you know how she really feels if she wanted to be more than friends before she leaves for Canada.
2007-03-27 18:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think is what ever you want to be just don't be afraid of loosing her.
I think that when you are so closed to a person and you see her everyday you tend to confuse but i think would be better if you talk openly with her, no jokes but truly ask yourself what would you want it to be and tell her but don't try to stop her because if you do, and she regrets not going because of trying something with you, probably you would regret it. why don't let things happened just be honest with her and with yourself.
2007-03-27 18:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by Aniux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't want to lose her just be good frnds for now and forget bout love . if this is actually love then wait for the day when she will also like u .
2007-03-27 18:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by pragya s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think u r fully in love w/ her yet but u do have fillings for her just tell her how u feel it sounds like she has feeling for u to.
2007-03-27 18:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by army brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋