I'm not married or anything -- no cheating going on. But how can I ever decide to settle for just one?? Ahhhh - like delicious ice cream, so many flavors.
2007-03-27 18:25:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lol. There is nothing more attractive than a guy who truly loves women. All women. I love guys who will flirt with the old ladies, the young ladies, married, beautiful, skinny, heavy, etc.
I am not saying you have to sleep with them, but it makes them smile, and that makes you even better.
2007-03-27 18:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I'm going to make an assumption that you are not really attracted to 98% of all women you see. That just doesn't seem possible, unless you're really really forgiving about appearances and find pretty much any woman attractive no matter what she looks like. Or maybe your standards of beauty are broad enough that you can see it in any package. If so then kudos to you bro, you're probably the least shallow man I've ever heard of.
If you mean that of the women you find attractive, over 98% of them are the type you feel like you'd want to try dating... well, what's wrong with that? Men are attracted to women, and throughout your whole life you're going to run into women you find attractive.
Also let me mention a common myth that both males and females buy into (especially women). That someday you'll meet the right woman, get married, and never even notice any other women for your whole life.
This is bs. As long as you've got eyes and the ability to see plus a heartbeat, you're going to see attractive women. Men are visually attracted far more than women are, this is just who we are.
Notice I am *not* saying that it's ok for a man to just chase after anything that moves just because he's male. That's also bs. But it is unrealistic to expect that just because you're with a wonderful and beautiful woman you're deeply in love with that suddenly you won't even notice when a beautiful woman crosses your path. It's completely natural to appreciate beauty in a woman. What you do if that beautiful woman presents you with the temptation to stray/cheat is the true measure of what kind of man you are and how much you really value your real relationship. A good man won't stray from a good woman.
2007-03-28 01:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women is not like Ice cream and not like lay's can't eat just one You need to get real and find a girl that have the same values that you got and you and her settle down and have a great family rasied in the Church. You are not cheating by being attracted if you don't have a wife or a steady girlfriend. Just take you time and find a woman that you will do all that you can to stay faithful that is what a woman want from a man more then anything else.
2007-03-28 01:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people aren't meant to be married. As long as you realize that and don't deceive anyone, you're okay. Time has a way of changing our priorities and values though, so you may someday meet a woman you want to spend the rest of your life with or decide you want to settle down and start a family. Make sure you're using birth control though to protect you from STDs and unwanted pregnancies.
2007-03-28 01:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dixie...
thats real nice to say to a guy who finally brought out his feelings!
It's normal to feel attracted to so many women. It is like a long-lasting phase. You really need to get to know a girl before you decide you REALLY like her. So look around. Pick a random girl that you see often. Talk to her and get to know her. Chances are, you might be more attracted to her as a friend. You may get luck though! Keep trying!
2007-03-28 01:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baskin Robbins has 31 flavors,your not my man,you have permission to get your grove on and have fun.Just don't lie or lead someone to believe you are being true to them when your not.Do not play with anyones emotions.or tug on any ones heart strings.If you want to play around and be the big man,do so but a real man is an honest one whos kind and trustworthy.So the ball's in your court and you get to be who you want to be with who you want to be and decide where your boundries will be with self respect,morals and dignity Isnt it easier when you call all the shots?
2007-03-28 01:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! Dont ever get married unless you control that. Even though you say you arent cheating, youre still being rude by even paying attention to someone else if youre involved.
2007-03-28 02:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by melindah83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong. You're probably haven't met the right woman yet. Don't worry about it, you're only attracted to 98% :)
2007-03-28 01:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by kievlyanochka1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah because you are going to end up sad and alone being the only old single man left because you couldn't keep your peniz in your pants. I bet you leave all females hating you because your a creep and treat women like crap.
2007-03-28 01:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A lot more then attraction goes into choosing the correct woman.
2007-03-28 01:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Mel S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋