I'm in college now and I have never had a boyfriend before. I would like to have one though. Someone to love and to take care of. I'm extremely shy but I'm always willing to open myself up to anybody who would ask. Wherever I go people are always asking me if I have a boyfriend and when I tell them I don't they say I'm emotionally unstabled because in their words, "there is no way a 'pretty' girl like you can never have a boyfriend". I used to think that these things take time but as a girl, I don't want to wait. I don't think I'm beautiful or anything but I might be a little weird because everywhere I go guys always stare at me and random people would say hi. I don't want just any guy. I want somebody who I truly like and the feelings are mutual. Can someone tell me what is wrong? Is it me? Will I EVER meet anybody decent?
2007-03-27 18:24:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well speaking as someone in the same boat (a female college student having never had a boyfriend) I say to wait for the right guy. I also want a boyfriend but I want my first boyfriend to be special and so I'm willing to wait for the right guy to come along. I don't think my expectations are too high either. I just want a guy who is pretty good looking, who I can talk to and someone who is looking for more than just sex. I have a feeling that you are looking for a similar guy. My advise is to just hang in there. He'll come along and when he does you'll be glad that you were patient. Trust me it's not you at all. In college it just takes guys a while to get over the "all I want is sex" stage and get to the "thinking about my future" stage. I think you know what I'm saying. Hang in there it will happen soon.
2007-03-27 18:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Naru, I would just like to tell you that when the time is right you will get a boyfriend. I am a very shy girl too and I did't get my 1st boyfriend till about 1 and a half years ago and now I am 17 years old. There is probibly nothing wrong with you the right guy just hasn't come along yet. The best advice that I can give you though is to just be yourself, because I am shy I would find it hard to really express how I feel, but I be myself now and I fit in with the world much better.
2007-03-28 01:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anything is wrong with you. You may intimidate the type of guys you are wanting to attract because of your looks. The guys that do hit on you are probably idiotic fraternity guys that you seem like you wouldn't have any interest in. My best advice would be to join various student groups on campus that you are interested in. This will allow you to meet people with similar interests and who knows, you may find Mr. Right.
2007-03-28 01:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by _ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you will. There are probably hundreds if not thousands of guys at your school, I promise of them is bound to be decant. You just haven't found him yet. Try hanging out places you like to hang out at. You'll be more likely to find guys who are into the same kinds of things then you would going someplace you think guys would hang out. Good luck.
2007-03-28 01:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will. it just comes in unexpected places.
Or just get yourself out there and have fun for now.
maybe it will open up more opportunities.
2007-03-28 01:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by A P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋