Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

My co-worker passed away recently. Funeral is coming up and is from 1-9pm. Our work is like a second family. Do you think I should go for the whole funeral? I now my boss is staying the whole thing, the other employee is going for the whole thing except he is leaving for an hour for dinner. The other employee is going for a little bit. What should I do?

2007-03-27 03:31:51 · 14 answers · asked by Stephanie K 3 in Friends

2007-03-27 03:31:37 · 10 answers · asked by wildteddybear07 1 in Singles & Dating

Me & my fiancee have been together for 9 1/2 yrs(we started dating when we were 15 & have been engaged for 2yr)& now have a 3 year old little girl. About 4 months ago I cheated on him . He found out & left for a few weeks & after us talking we decided to try & work things out but now he doesnt know if he wants to be with me anymore. We just started seeing a marriage counslor. I hate myself for what I've done to him, I really do love him with all my heart, we were going through a bad time in our relationship when this happened. We had a lack of communication and I felt like we had drifted apart way before the affair. I am really sorry for hurting him, but I was hurting when this happened I felt like our relationship was dying & I didnt know what to do & I meet someone that didnt care about me at all but was telling me all the things I wanted to hear and I fell for it. All I want is to make things work for us, I truely do regret what I have done & will do anything to make it up to him

2007-03-27 03:30:38 · 13 answers · asked by kk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well my boyfriend left me for the stupidiest reason. Me and him were together for 1year and 3 months. We have been through alot together,but we haven't spent any time together and i was tired of it,so i sent him a pix of me,then he ask me who was that on the pix i told him it was my cousin even though it was me.see thtas how you konw that he hasn't seen me in a while. But after i finaaly told him that it was me,he brike with me saying that it was a mistake for us to be together. that hurt me bad to my heart. so he lieft me b/c he said i was ugly and that he cant bring me around his family b/c they will talk about. thats when i knew that he did not love me like he said so i just left it along. What should i do?

2007-03-27 03:29:57 · 20 answers · asked by Babygurl89 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 03:29:55 · 9 answers · asked by fredeline need's help 1 in Singles & Dating

Let me start off by saying that I am very honest, sometimes too honest with her. When we got together 5 years ago, I let her know that I have commitment issues. She said that we'll just have to work on it. About 1 year into it, I knew she loved me. I did not feel the same. After about 3 and a half years I left her to pursue another women. The whole time thinking about her. I begged for her back and we got back together. I realized that I was so miserable without her, I did love her. So I told her.

Now during our whole relationship, she has pressured me to move in together. I was never ready for that. About 8 months ago I tell her I am. We make a plan to do it, and now she thinks it’s a better idea to move out on her own for a year since she has never lived alone. It took me 5 years, but as soon as I’m ready, now she’s not? Should I be upset that she waited until I was ready to back out? What is she really thinking? Please help.

2007-03-27 03:29:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Nan passed away two years ago, it would have been their wedding anniversary on Friday of this week. I brought a "Thinking of you" card for my Grandad which I was about to post. When I told my Dad he stated that none of the family send cards to him on this date ( which I kinda understand), last year I didnt as it was the first year and first anniversary they had been apart, but thought it would be nice to let him know I was thinking of him....Its not like he is going to forget the date, they were married for 60 years...Do I send it or not?

2007-03-27 03:29:47 · 19 answers · asked by jude 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I told my girlfriend she was fat and she went off the deep end on me. (actually I called her "lard @ss" ). It was like I cheated on her with her sister....she totally freaked out. Whys so sensitive...geesh!

2007-03-27 03:29:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my boyfriend left me for the stupidiest reason. Me and him were together for 1year and 3 months. We have been through alot together,but we haven't spent any time together and i was tired of it,so i sent him a pix of me,then he ask me who was that on the pix i told him it was my cousin even though it was me.see thtas how you konw that he hasn't seen me in a while. But after i finaaly told him that it was me,he brike with me saying that it was a mistake for us to be together. that hurt me bad to my heart. so he lieft me b/c he said i was ugly and that he cant bring me around his family b/c they will talk about. thats when i knew that he did not love me like he said so i just left it along. What should i do?

2007-03-27 03:29:29 · 28 answers · asked by Babygurl89 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know how to let a guy pursue me. Someone I like, but I don't know how to let him make the moves. I'm used to being aggressive and overwhelming. But that always chases guys away. A guy I'm attracted to, I run into him now & then, we smile, make small talk, he asks how my wkend was, where I'm from, my instincts tell me he's attracted to me. But he's not hounding me or coming around much. Maybe it's because we work at the same firm? I'm trying to be cool & I'm doing good but I wonder are guys shy? Do they move slow when it comes to a girl they like? Shouldn't he be trying to get my telephone number and talk to me more?

(this was posted before but i think i did something wrong)

2007-03-27 03:29:22 · 5 answers · asked by RuffDiamond 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 03:29:02 · 9 answers · asked by Sin 2 in Friends

I have a female friend we have been tight for ages we talk and text mostly everyday she knows that i fancy someone but does not know its her i am worried about telling her as if she knocks me back i may lose her friendship

2007-03-27 03:27:33 · 13 answers · asked by jay_geezs 1 in Singles & Dating

i am attracted to my ex still, I sstill feel like its unfinished buissness. I know I am married and will not do anything because i owe it to my husband of fife months. my husband has a really bad temper nd trust issues, i kind of feel like he pushed me into it. i dont want to give up on my marriage but i feel stressed because we fight over the same things all hte time. and i know chances are things with me and my ex wouldnt work out. uis it normal to think about my ex even though im married?

2007-03-27 03:27:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 03:26:19 · 12 answers · asked by Skins08' 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am sure definitely not if you are in a long term relationship, but say you slept together on the second or third date?do you still respect her?or do you just see her as another notch under your belt?

2007-03-27 03:25:33 · 13 answers · asked by abstract 3 in Singles & Dating

I posted a question about what should? Get with her or go away? i'm 20, we got together last friday and its brilliant but she still says she wont be able to handle having to wait for someone to come back for like 4 months and that. Should i say to the navy cna i join next January? But will i have to do everythink again? (hope not!)........ Feel so bloody stpuid and my dad say's i should just go in the navy? Plz reply, u'd all be a good help :-)

2007-03-27 03:24:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night my parents got into a fight. my mom called the cops trying to get my dad arrested for domestic violence.long story short everyone of my brothers and me told the truth and my mom went to jail for domestic battery. She said she was not guilty and wants us to say she is innocent when she goes to court. I dont know what to do. I dont want this to be in my moms record but I dont want my dad to get in trouble.

2007-03-27 03:24:27 · 11 answers · asked by cireniod 1 in Family

2007-03-27 03:24:22 · 7 answers · asked by Adam G 1 in Singles & Dating

he dumped me two months ago from a two year relationship on saturday he said we couldnt hang because it would be awkward but we are mates, then on saturday i kissed a lad who i like an when my ex found out he sat on his own in college an looked really down, he has been telling me he is totally over me an doesnt want to go back out what do you think? do you think he will ask me back out ? i also had a dream that my ex gave me a letter asking me back out

2007-03-27 03:24:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help there is cute guy i like but i dont know if he likes me like he is really shy.. like whenever i say hi to him he presses my hand real hard like hard and then he gets red and like people who see us talk say that it seems like both of us just doff off everytime we see each other like just a moment for us.... i dont know what to do!!! please help... how do guys act toward the girl they like...remember that he is shy!!!! ohh and also if you think he does like me who should make the first move???

2007-03-27 03:23:36 · 6 answers · asked by Whyislovesocomplicated! 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so me and this girl just met about a week or so ago, and on the first day we were talking for about 4-5 hours on aim. i kinda know this girl, she goes to my church and she used to go to my school. she also gave me her number the first time we talked and she was saying how she would be there for me n all that. she has a myspace so i went to check and there was this section where she was like i want this kind of guy, i want that kind of guy and at the bottom she said she already found him, i know its not me cuz we've only been talking for about a week. i really like her, shes really cute,she has great personality, and a cute voice. she always said that she would call me but i never got a call from her. i texted her once and then she called me n' she said that she would call me back but she didnt. i like her and i dont know if she likes me, what should i do?

2007-03-27 03:23:24 · 2 answers · asked by Adrian 2 in Singles & Dating

I posted a question about what should? Get with her or go away? i'm 20, we got together last friday and its brilliant but she still says she wont be able to handle having to wait for someone to come back for like 4 months and that. Should i say to the navy cna i join next January? But will i have to do everythink again? (hope not!)........ Feel so bloody stpuid and my dad say's i should just go in the navy? Plz reply, u'd all be a good help :-)

2007-03-27 03:23:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He wants to terminate his rights, both he and his mom wanted me to terminate and as they said "get rid of this kid"! He also had a party at our house where I found a bunch of stuff including condoms, candy thongs and booze we don't drink! I am hurt beyond belief! I am 22, 12 wks pregnant, am giving my baby every chance. Any advice please?! I am scared out of my mind because this is my first pregnancy!

If he does terminate his rights, does he still have to pay child support? What would you do in this sitiuation?

2007-03-27 03:23:07 · 30 answers · asked by . 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this guy and we had been talking of a long time. All of a sudden we had stopped talking. Two months later we started talking again and well yeah it's nice. He says he doesn't want a girlfriend right now and that's cool i guess. We hang out and he calls me everyday and the other day we kissed ever since then we have been talking more and we kiss when we see eachother. What do you think our relationship is are we talking to get together or are we just friends?

2007-03-27 03:22:03 · 15 answers · asked by shortyrosas2007 2 in Singles & Dating

when i go chruch this girl stares at me alot and she wisper to her friend then i was cute and i think she call me cute like 2 times more befor and when her girlfirend take pics of everyone in the chruch and i tihnk she saw me in one of the pic i dont know busaec i was siting far and she say hes cute cute and her girlfirend say thens why u stare at him then the girl looks at me then the pic was then girl talking about me?

2007-03-27 03:21:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i won an award at college and there was a ceremony mum turned up and obviously had been drinking my partner told her boyfriend and now she wont talk to me she thinks i said i was ashamed of her i didnt just said i was disappointed and she has cancelled my daughters 4th birthday party what do i do i love mum and have never fallen out with her before.

2007-03-27 03:20:57 · 19 answers · asked by chris s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this is something that happen to me a few times, like the other day i was at a mall with my uncle and i saw these two girls, and i stopped to ask them a question, but they didnt know what my question was going to be so they start acting like they in a hurry because they thought i was gonna try to holla them or something, but then i ask them where is "Target located at this mall ?" then guess what !!!, they started to calm down not hurrying no more and took their time to explain to me where the Target store is and how to get to it.
The point is, why did they change their mood as soon as they realize i didnt stop them to holla them but just to ask a direction. and i can even bet that after i ask them the direction, they would've opened up for me to talk to them about holla at them. " a LOT of girls do them SAME EXACT thing to diffrent guys why ?????

2007-03-27 03:20:53 · 10 answers · asked by stickdriver 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 03:20:10 · 29 answers · asked by Kali S 1 in Singles & Dating

and the number is a guy friend, well now my boyfriend is acting psyco calling this person over and over and over again until he answers, i told my friend not to answer the phone and there would not be drama, he does not answer the phonw, which makes my boyfriend even more madd, he keeps harrassing me at work what can i do he keeps harrassing both of us.

2007-03-27 03:19:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It was annocuned last night that my bro and his girlfriend (of 5 years) are having a baby... there both 21... I really feel he's making a big mistake... as I don't trust this girl one bit...

Her younger sister is 5 months pregnat and her brother's girlfriend is about to drop anytime soon!!!

I feel my bro's trapped.... he's been ropped into it without realising!!!

GRRRR

2007-03-27 03:18:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family