I really like this guy and we had been talking of a long time. All of a sudden we had stopped talking. Two months later we started talking again and well yeah it's nice. He says he doesn't want a girlfriend right now and that's cool i guess. We hang out and he calls me everyday and the other day we kissed ever since then we have been talking more and we kiss when we see eachother. What do you think our relationship is are we talking to get together or are we just friends?
2007-03-27 03:22:03 · 15 answers · asked by shortyrosas2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, it sounds like he wants friend with benefit. you'll get the bad end of the stick. you have to be clear of what you want from him. otherwise, he's getting what he wants and the freedom.
2007-03-27 03:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you guys are together like boyfriend and girlfriend. It sounds like the whole friends with benefits thing. i have a friend that is exactly like that with me and he tells me all the time that I'm his best friend-and that he would marry me in a heartbeat. So...on that note, don't undersetimate the relationship that you have now but don't overestimate it either. The only way to know about you guys for sure is to ask him.
2007-03-27 10:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by barbiebabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you are dating. He doesn't want the committment of a girlfriend right now, but he likes the company. If you're ok with this then go for it. If you want a relationship you can try talking to him and letting him know how you are feeling.
2007-03-27 10:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by ljoc421 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask him what is going on? the next time he comes to see you only kiss him on the cheek, tell him your confused,cause it could be he's just using you intill he finds a girlfriend. Good luck :)
2007-03-27 10:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, just tell him you are confused about what he wants and before you can do anything else you need to know what he wants out of the time he spends with you.
2007-03-27 10:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In youngage itz obvious tht we hv magnetic attraction towards opposite sex bt it doesn't mean tht we are in love i think its a attraction 'n' it gud fr u tht u sit wid him n discuss all thngs clearly n then u can start ur relation frm beginning
2007-03-27 10:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you people i attracted towards each other but you dont realize
i mean why will you kiss each other if you are not interested
you talk you hangout and are quite happy with each other then why not be together as a couple
2007-03-27 10:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by catrina a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in my opinion thats going out. maybe he's been hurt and his saying that ya'll aren't is a way to stay safe from getting hurt.but i really dont think ya'll are just friends.
2007-03-27 10:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by rebelpoet26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"talking" which to me means that you two have an interest in "dating" each other and possibly "exclusive" later on.
2007-03-27 10:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by cameron h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're just really close friends. Tell him you want it to be more than that, and I bet it could be.
2007-03-27 10:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by LISA STEWART R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋