Let me start off by saying that I am very honest, sometimes too honest with her. When we got together 5 years ago, I let her know that I have commitment issues. She said that we'll just have to work on it. About 1 year into it, I knew she loved me. I did not feel the same. After about 3 and a half years I left her to pursue another women. The whole time thinking about her. I begged for her back and we got back together. I realized that I was so miserable without her, I did love her. So I told her.
Now during our whole relationship, she has pressured me to move in together. I was never ready for that. About 8 months ago I tell her I am. We make a plan to do it, and now she thinks it’s a better idea to move out on her own for a year since she has never lived alone. It took me 5 years, but as soon as I’m ready, now she’s not? Should I be upset that she waited until I was ready to back out? What is she really thinking? Please help.
2007-03-27 03:29:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give to her what she gave to you. Time...You can be disappointed, however, always try to understand someone elses feelings. We humans are always thinking about our own feelings and by putting ourselves in someone elses shoes we actually have a better understanding of ourselves.
Good luck to both of you. Just be grateful that you didn't lose her when you were pushing and pulling her around.
2007-03-27 03:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have more issues than just commitment ones dude. She has to be patient, change her lifestyle, her need and her wants and wait 5 years for YOUR @ss now your not willing to have patience with or for her? Grow up and man up a little will ya? The world doesn't revolve around you homie,your pathetic.
2007-03-27 10:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both may have some commitment issues here..Mainly you as you stated. But you both should talk it out. moving in isnt a small joke or something. Its a serious matter and should be thought over carefully by both of you. good luck to you both.
2007-03-27 10:37:03 · answer #3 · answered by Porous G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are very Vindictive characters and this is her way of saying tou'che.
2007-03-27 10:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she felt insecure about her decision. I dont think that its anything that has to do with you. Talk to her about the situation.
2007-03-27 10:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.! u were the one who left her for few years for another woman....
2007-03-27 10:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she waited patiently for u, now you have to take your turn and wait for her
2007-03-27 10:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is messing wit ur head
2007-03-27 10:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it as it is dude, its all good!
2007-03-27 10:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋