and the number is a guy friend, well now my boyfriend is acting psyco calling this person over and over and over again until he answers, i told my friend not to answer the phone and there would not be drama, he does not answer the phonw, which makes my boyfriend even more madd, he keeps harrassing me at work what can i do he keeps harrassing both of us.
2007-03-27 03:19:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
12 years and no ring? does he know where the door is?
2007-03-27 03:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy is crazy. That was a guy friend's phone number and he is blowing things way out of proportion. Seriously, unless you and this "guy friend" are going out then your BF should stay out of it. Tell him to stop harrassing you. Try explaining to him that this is just a guy friend. If you cannot take it anymore and this guy is going nuts over a phone number break up with him. Hope everything works out for you. Good Luck!
2007-03-27 10:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by lil genius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, why isn't your boyfriend of 12 years your husband? thats reeeaaalllyy a long time to be dating without making some sort of a commitment in marriage. now as for your "guy friend" why dont u tell your boyfriend he is just a friend. if you have been dating him for so long he should understand. or tell your friend to answer the phone once and explain it to your bf that you two are just friends ( hopefully ).
2007-03-27 10:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend of 12 years is busy scanning your phone records, maybe there is a trust issue here that needs to be resolved, either by talking it through or by finding a new boyfriend.
2007-03-27 10:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Steve H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, the worst thing you can do is to tell your friend to not answer the phone. That is just going to make your BF even more jealous. Do you like seeing him like this? Why don't you tell your friend to answer the phone and explain to your BF who he is? And why are you still his girl friend after 12 yrs?
2007-03-27 10:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well quit acting like you have something to hide and let him talk to him. You look guilty like your trying to hide something, if it is truly an innocent friendship you should have no fears of drama.
2007-03-27 10:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to mind his own business. After 12 years together, he should know that your not doing any thing. Its all about trust. I would never go threw my boyfriends stuff, and I know he would never go threw mine. I
2007-03-27 10:31:51 · answer #7 · answered by ME2029 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told your boyfriend that he was just your friend. By hiding things from your boyfriend, it make things more worst. It's like as though you are hiding things from him.
2007-03-27 10:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by priincessgurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a choice...stop acting like a child or leave...is the guy something more then a friend...now or in the past?
2007-03-27 10:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by mywild k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOR ONE THING TRUST IS AN ISSUE BETWEEN U 2 IF YOU AND UR FRIENDS ARE ONLY FRIENDS WHY DONT U INTERDUCE THEM IN THE BEGINING SO THIS WOULDNT HAD BECOME AN ISSUE
2007-03-27 10:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by tia n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋