well my boyfriend left me for the stupidiest reason. Me and him were together for 1year and 3 months. We have been through alot together,but we haven't spent any time together and i was tired of it,so i sent him a pix of me,then he ask me who was that on the pix i told him it was my cousin even though it was me.see thtas how you konw that he hasn't seen me in a while. But after i finaaly told him that it was me,he brike with me saying that it was a mistake for us to be together. that hurt me bad to my heart. so he lieft me b/c he said i was ugly and that he cant bring me around his family b/c they will talk about. thats when i knew that he did not love me like he said so i just left it along. What should i do?
2007-03-27 03:29:57 · 20 answers · asked by Babygurl89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The hardest thing about a break-up is just realizing it's over. You don't do anything because it's over. It's wrong for him and his family to say bad things about how you look and for him to forget who you really are. You should pick yourself up, love who you are and what you can become and embrace that. Drop all contact with him and never take him back. He didn't care about your feelings saying all that, so don't care about him anymore.
2007-03-27 03:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine how heart broken you must feel right now, and i'm sorry he broke up with you. He may of felt guilty for not seeing you or not being the best he could be and that could be why he thought to end the relationship. I think the whole thing with the picture is strange how he reacted but do you think that maybe he was just trying to make you angry and see if you would break up with him instead of him having to do the deed? Beauty is something that comes from inside and if he hasn't figured that out, then he is certainly not aware of how wonderful a person you can be. Remember there are plenty of people who accept you for who you are and if people can't accept that...then it sucks that they don't know the real you. Good luck with whatever happens
2007-03-27 03:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by ozzylvr13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just move on. I don't even think you two were ever a couple. How can you be with someone for over a year and never spend time together? I think you should step back and think about this. This little silly situation was just a good way out for him. If you're with someone who actually says your too ugly to come around, then what are they with you for, Sex? There is someone for everyone and he was just not right for you. Move on and don't let the next guy make a fool out of you like he did.
2007-03-27 03:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in a relationship, It takes both side to put in efforts. Time isn't really what that proves the love in a relationship. It's the effort done in a relationship that proves the loves.
As what you said, you both haven't been spending time together, did both of you made the effort to be together often enough? It seems there's a time you both weren't together enough that he forgets how you really look like.
As a male myself. What a boy really likes is a girl who is willingly to spend time with him and stick around with him without being asked to. He gets a feeling of being cared and loved.
For now, there's a probability he gave you a bad reason to break you up. Your guy might have been unable to take the gap you both been having in the relationship.
Ask yourself truely, if you really still like him. If yes, do all your means to go for him once again. And cherish him this time. =]
2007-03-27 03:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl,
LET HIM GO! He didn't love or even care about you and he just showed you that he didn't care about you. I was in the same place so one day I said i done with guys for awhile and when I said that and was seriously not looking. My aunt introduced me to this guy she has known for a couple of years. He is now my husband and a daddy. Wait and you will see that everything happens for a reason. Good luck.
2007-03-27 03:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by mommyoftwo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no doubt that he had hurt you do bad. Him calling you ugly was pointless and immature. I'm sure you are a very lovely young woman. But don't dwell on that. He doesn't want you then fine....so what if HE thinks you're ugly. You don't have to be what anyone says you are. Long as you believe in yourself, you don't need any man to tell you are pretty.
2007-03-27 03:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by Just get it over with already!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy that says these things is not worth the time of day!
I know how it feels to be treated poorly like this.
Move on - you are probably a beautiful looking girl(inside and out)
and you deserve someone who is going to love you and respect you, not put you down.
He will probably end up dating himself - it sounds like he loves himself too much!
Good luck!
2007-03-27 03:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he met u was it nite? u need 2 get a real man who does not only go 4 physical but the entire package. Beauty is materialistic and 1 can lose it in a split 2nd. him no ready 4 dis yet, he doesn't even know wat u look like? are u sure he was serious wen he asked u who it was? keep steppin,sumtimes its not who u luv but who luvs u
2007-03-27 03:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by sexysania01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him! he nvr cared about you. even though u thought he did in the beg. find some1 else that you care about and make sure that he cares about u to! jut get over him...i truly feel bad for you and hope that u can find some1 else. And with the way u are with your personality i really belive that u will. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-03-27 03:36:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find you a real man he is a loser you deserve so much better than him he sucks to say such mean things
2007-03-27 03:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋