Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

2007-03-27 03:18:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanna tell my girlfriend I love her, but I don't know when the right moment is. How did you guys / girls do it?

2007-03-27 03:18:18 · 10 answers · asked by bitchlips411 3 in Singles & Dating

A female ex-colleague of mine said that when she stayed at friend's houses after parties she often shared a bed with friends who could be of either sex (and just slept). Have you ever shared a bed with an opposite sex friend?

2007-03-27 03:17:36 · 36 answers · asked by Living in Britain 3 in Friends

Ive been with my boyfriend for a year now, and I feel like he is trying to control me, I left him once, because he was always mean to me, he begged me back and said he would change, well, he did for about two weeks. Everyone I know hates him and thinks i can do better, but i really do love him, but he really needs to grow up even though hes 7 years older than me. We argue alot, and when we do its really bad, but when we are good, we are great. I dont know what to do...im lost i sometimes think id be better off without him, but then again i dont know what i would do without him, and id loose everything...a place to live, a car, and a phone. i dont want to stay with my mom, and i dont really talk to any of my friends anymore, because of our relationship....im so confused!!!

2007-03-27 03:17:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There are many times I am not in the mood, he is always in the mood. Which can be great. But at the same time its very annoying. When I don't want to and he does(always) I feel guilty. Like he loves me more than I love him. I do love him, I just wish he would understan that I don't want to "make love" everyday. Any suggestions?

2007-03-27 03:16:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey. Let me start by saying I love my wife and respect and value her as a person and a human being. We are both Christian. I think she is beautiful, intelligent and special. I would do anything for her. I love to look at her. All parts of her. The problem is she thinks it is dirty that I want to, for the lack of a better way to say it, go down on her. I don’t think it should be considered dirty. I mean like I want to enjoy her. I like looking at all of her. Every part of her. She has let me do it in the past a couple of times but refused to kiss me and said it was gross. I said I don’t have to do it if you don’t like it. I feel really bad and guilty that I like to do this but can’t do it with her. I have considered suggesting that we see a sex therapist but am pretty embarrassed about bringing the matter up b/c I think she would be mad and maybe hurt. Has anyone been to a sex therapist? What’s it like? What kind of stuff do they talk about? Should I drop the whole thing?

2007-03-27 03:16:38 · 8 answers · asked by prouddaddy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 03:14:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well do u go talk to a girl if shes pretty or if shes nice. what makes u want to come talk to a girl? do you expect them to talk to you? cuz i like this guy and i hardly know him and im not so great at talking to guys that i like and i wish hed save me the trouble and come talk to me but sometimes i wonder is he even knows im there or if im invisible to him like everyone else. i wish i knew wat he was thinking.

2007-03-27 03:12:00 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

How do they decide who is the husband and who is the wife?

2007-03-27 03:11:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this male friend that is basically an internet friend. We have been talking for almost two years via email, and we have met in person before as well. It is only a platonic relationship, but I have to admit there is attraction on my part. We dont really discuss realtionship issues. I am not concerned with being in any type of committed boyfriend/girlfriend relationship at this time. I want to send him a birthday card, and I was wondering if this would send a signal that I was interested in more than just being friends. I dont want him to get the wrong impression because if there is no attraction on his part I dont want to loose him as a friend. In other words, I like the way things are between us at present, and I do not want to do anything to tamper with that. Basically, we only send emails back and forth and an occassional letter through post.

2007-03-27 03:11:33 · 7 answers · asked by poshgirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm so devastated right now. I just got off the phone from my b/friend of 8 mths and he has told me he is leaving me for another girl.(We were in the same class at school).
Should I fight for him or let him go?
How do I deal with this?
He was such a nice guy too, I feel as though I am never going to find
Mr Right!!
Will I ever get over him?
My heart is heavy with grief right now. I can't stop crying.

2007-03-27 03:11:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just write back and explain what happened?

I am SO embarassed! He is a bit flirty with me, and we joke around a bit, so I think he may really think I meant it for him!

My husband is a JR, so he and his father have very similiar e-mail addresses.... I meant to send the racy provocative one to my husband of course, but with the darn auto-fill feature, it highlighted his dad's e-mail instead, and I sent it out before I realized it!

What is a girl to do now?

2007-03-27 03:11:17 · 21 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 03:10:51 · 6 answers · asked by young 1 out tha 4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About a week a ago, my girl friend started to have bad things happen to her. Her car broke down and her mother started having heart problems. During that time, she needed time to get through this and told me not to call her but she'll call me. Well, since then she's called a few times and I have been blocked out. I haven't even seen her since then. I gave her space, but it bothers me not to see her. But today I talked to her mother because my gf was asleep from a night of 3rd shift. She said my gf got her a new car but, her mom said that she has a tumor.
I know this is a big deal, but when a girl is going through a problem like this, with her mother finding out she has a tumor, will the girl push alot of people away during this time? Why is she pushing me away? Is this normal? How can I be supportive during this time? What can I do for her mother?

2007-03-27 03:10:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i had a really good friend last year, but then she got involved with my EX fiance' and they got married well that lasted 3 or 4 months then they got a prenup, well now after almost a year she has dropped the protective order against me & wants to b friends! at first i flipped out then i let go and now we are bestestest! we go out and have fun. well im engagged once again and im afraid to leave her alone wit him for one second! what should i do? should i have ever gave her a second chance? o yea to add on to it. my fiance' has talked about having a 3sum wit her. we experinced that ONCE and then me and the gurl stopped being friends . btu im afraid if we go there wit her she will try and take him from me.!?!?!
what to do???
plz plz plz comments

2007-03-27 03:10:43 · 8 answers · asked by ~*Wonderin*~ 2 in Friends

My bridesmaids have all decided that they would pay for their dresses. However my fiance and I have no ideas if we should pay half the cost for the groomsmen tux or all.

2007-03-27 03:08:31 · 21 answers · asked by kathy28 1 in Weddings

he e-mail all his girl friends at working hour and meet them at lunch hour, how can a wife find out about it?

2007-03-27 03:07:55 · 22 answers · asked by m a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes I feel like I am my moms mom. She calls me for advice almost everyday. Yesterday she called me for advice on how to do her resumee and sent me a copy to proof read. She asked me advice on how to deal with my 7 year old brother. I am 20, she is 39. I am married, living in my own home, working, going to college. It has beenthis ay my whole life, I was always the one making all of the decisions, but now I want my own life, not her drama. Has anyone gone through similar experiances?

2007-03-27 03:07:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay my bestfiend is in LOVE with my other bestfriend and she likes him soooo much but he doesnt like her anymore he likes someone new so what should i say to her she dont get the point!!!!!

2007-03-27 03:06:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am good friends with my ex's sister and today is her birthday. She asked me a little bit ago if I could come over and stay the night and hang out with her since its her birthday. I love her to much to tell her no so i said i would. One problem, my ex lives there too. Should i text him and tell him im staying the night tonight or should i just show up like i usually do?

2007-03-27 03:06:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm leaning towards imaginary but anything is possible.

2007-03-27 03:06:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I messed around with this guy I used to have a crush on yesterday and he left me the biggest hickey on the front of my neck. I noticed what he was doing and made him stop but it was too late the damage was done. He's not a child he's like 30 years old. Why did he do this? Should I ask him? We aren't dating or anything.

2007-03-27 03:05:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when a girl has a low income job that isn't an important one but she works hard at it and you really like her...is it a big deal to you that she isn't in a special line of work? does it keep you from asking her out? I have a good job but it doesn't give me many hrs at all so i might just get a little job as a cashier to make extra $ but my brother says it will wreck my reputation...and i will be made fun of...true?

2007-03-27 03:04:47 · 9 answers · asked by forget_me_not 3 in Singles & Dating

Chemistry is when two people can connect or click on things. How is sexual tension?

2007-03-27 03:03:54 · 6 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Man cooks ex-girlfriend on grill after strangling

HOUSTON (AP) — For at least two days, neighbors at a city apartment complex noticed an acrid aroma, black smoke and leaping flames coming from two barbecue grills on the balcony of a second-floor apartment.
What, neighbors at the Red Oak Place apartments wondered, was going on in the unit where 27-year-old Timothy Wayne Shepherd lived? What was he burning at all hours, for days at a time?
The answer turned their stomachs.
According to law enforcement officials, Shepherd dismembered and then burned the body of his former girlfriend, Tynesha Stewart, a 19-year-old Texas A&M University student. Nothing remains of Stewart's body, Harris County Sheriff Tommy Thomas said at a press conference Saturday.
Authorities said Shepherd has confessed to strangling and dismembering Stewart, a college freshman who was home on spring break, because he was angry that she had started a new relationship

2007-03-27 03:03:52 · 21 answers · asked by joyce 5 in Marriage & Divorce

why do guys mess with girls heads i am in a relationship and he is all ways acting like he doesnt like me so what should i do??

2007-03-27 03:03:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 24yrs old and I am from California. I recently moved out to Kansas because I met my boyfriend online. I have been living out here with him since April 2006. I know I love him and care about him but I recently met someone who has me all confused about all my feelings. I have a feeling that my boyfriend will soon pop the question and I am not sure if he is the one I want to marry or not. Plus he is 8yrs older than me. The other guy I met is my age and he makes me laugh and I love hanging out with him. I dont know what to do. I feel like I really need to take time and be on my own for a bit so I can figure things out Is that a bad idea? That would mean moving out of my boyfriends house and living on my own I just need to think about things alone and I am not sure how to tell my boyfriend this. I just dont know how to go about all that without hurting anyone's feelings. I am not a cheater or a player in anyway. I am just confused about things and a little advice would help so much.

2007-03-27 03:02:45 · 26 answers · asked by pixie_gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my now 5-year bf a year ago, i told him i needed space because he was too protective of me and we needed time to discover ourselves and what we really wanted in life since we started with our relationship too early [15]. after a month, i had news that he was dating, before that he tried to win me back but i din't agree to get back together because i was too busy with school and a guy in school who was sort of courting me then made me somewhat forget my ex. after a month again, i had news that my ex already found a girl he liked after all of the flings he had also with other girls. came my internship, i was less busy then and the guy who was courting me kind of lie lowed on me, he went on vacation and i was back on being alone, but i had friends of course and my some boys were also interested with me during my internship. despite that, it was the time that i realized that i missed him, and wanted him back into my life. since we still had comm'n, what i did was asked him but after 4months, things weren't getting better again, i was the one who decided we should take different paths again. i got busy with my graduation and finding a new job and after a month again, i had news she got back with the same girl again. i got really hurt because i felt like i was not loved, we had good times and i dint expect he would get back together with that same girl he was with in school. i tried to move on and it was really hard for me, i cried everyday and everytime he went online with yahoo, i talk to him, most of the time he ignored me, so what i thought was he already moved on.. after 3months or so i realized that i was also already moving on, i dint start dating yet but was halfway thru the process of moving on. 2months passed, we met on a friend's wedding, we were ok then but after a week when he went online again, i chatted with him as usual and he did not ignore me. the thing was, he told me he wanted us to be back together, he wanted me to give him a chance to prove again how much he was sorry for all that has happened to us. he told me he broke up with his gf because he wanted me back [i did not know if i should believe this]. being too kind and considerate of the years of friendship and because of the strong bond of our relationship, i agreed, gave him a chance but told him i wasn't ready to commit. still he tried to win me back but i did not see his consistency. we had our good times then despite all but after 4months,

2007-03-27 03:02:26 · 6 answers · asked by C 2 in Singles & Dating

I know what I do in that situation...but girls in here...choose to stay under the covers a few more minutes or hit the cold shower to get it off your mind...you tell me.

2007-03-27 03:02:11 · 6 answers · asked by mywild k 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend have fought alot and it has lead to about 6 breakups over the last two years, mostly due to a lack of control on my anger, where i have never hit her, cheated on her or lied to her, i have yelled at her on several occcations.
We have both talkd since and we both said we dont want some one else but she cant handle my anger and we both agreed that if i had no anger problems, or even a control on it things would be perfect like they were. So i have started theropy not for her but to better myself. This has made her happy to see i am tring to get a control on it and make efforts towards imporvement. Now should i wait fo rhe rto come back and wait patiently or do i move on to another girl and try to forget about mine and hers past. I do love this girl with all my heart and have always said to always follow your heart but my heart screams 2 stay and wait but my head screams go she'll only hurt me again if she does come back and idk what to do. any advice is welcomed. ty

2007-03-27 03:01:53 · 3 answers · asked by jake b 2 in Other - Family & Relationships