I'm so devastated right now. I just got off the phone from my b/friend of 8 mths and he has told me he is leaving me for another girl.(We were in the same class at school).
Should I fight for him or let him go?
How do I deal with this?
He was such a nice guy too, I feel as though I am never going to find
Mr Right!!
Will I ever get over him?
My heart is heavy with grief right now. I can't stop crying.
2007-03-27 03:11:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you, I'd be grateful for the following things:
1. He had the decency to break things off with you rather than running around behind your back.
2. He broke things off at 8 months, rather than 8 years. Then you'd REALLY be upset over all the wasted time.
Your grief is normal and will eventually subside. Let yourself wallow for a couple of days, and then pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move on!
Good luck to you.
2007-03-27 03:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the pain and emptiness you are talking about. Eight months of your life is a long time to share and the agony that follows is hard to go through. But, you will and you will find someone even better later. Do NOT fight for him. Get busy doing something new. Something you have been wanting to do and it will help take your mind off him. Also, if you mope around...he wins. So get busy and act as if it doesn't bother you. He will then start questioning if he made a mistake and may have regrets. Do NOT take him back. Each guy you fall for has some qualities you want in the man you want to spend your life with. You will find those qualities in the next one PLUS more. It only gets better and better. So lift your chin up and get busy. Good luck hun.
2007-03-27 03:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by ladeemist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Life goes on, why not you?
Yes, it does seem like the end of the world right now, but you're not at the end of your future, and there's plenty of good guys out there. Do not fight for him since it's a lost cause. You'd just be fighting windmills. Instead, lighten up. Eat some ice cream, watch some sappy chick flicks, ball your eyes out. But know that you'll meet someone out there one day who will need you just as much as you need him.
2007-03-27 03:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by Emiline 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just consider this as a lost for him. It's not your fault at all that he left. Just be glad that he didn't try to have his cake and to eat it to. You never know, the tables may turn on him and she may leave him for someone else. Just take this as a lesson earned and try not to fall so quick for a guy just because he appears to be nice. Men will make you feel like crap. But, that's only when you let them. Lighten up and trust me, you wont find Mr. Right until you become Mrs. Right because no one is perfect.
2007-03-27 03:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your break up. He is really stupid to dump you for some other girl. You know that you're a great person and he did not see that dumping you would be a mistake. He obviously is not worth is. This guy probably did not see you for you. He is going to come around and realize what he did was wrong. This guy is not worth it. There are many other guys. Don't worry. Try to find a new guy or if this guy is really sorry and he apologizes and you really want him back, get back together with him. I hope everything goes well for you and cheer up. Good Luck!
2007-03-27 03:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by lil genius 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's not fighting for you, dont fight for him.You must move on. Allow yourself to sulk for a minute and reminisce on the good things for a minute than release it. Let it go. If he can't see how much of a great person you are than thats his loss. Dont cry, with life there are lessons. Its better to have loved than to have not have loved at all. Trust.
2007-03-27 03:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life now live and act like winner stop crying he be back or he live but right now relax men are like pillows they can fluff up or mellow down give it a rest ...hang out with your friends
2007-03-27 03:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have been stable any guy that purely see's the guy their with and not flirt or look at different women is an particularly great guy a number of different adult men look and flirt and all different stuff why their with some1 she had lots with you and she or he ruined it for some guy that didnt care so she have been given what she deserved i advise it is not undesirable if she unexpectedly likes some1 else yet idk you probably did not something incorrect that i will make certain out of your question
2016-11-23 19:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't fight over no man...you will only make yourself look like and idiot....you can't make someone want you that don't....find you someone else and believe me sweetie it will come back to him....life is to short to be crying over a boy and not even your husband or a real man........live life to the fullest.....from the pic I see you are a beautiful woman you can get a man by the snap of you figure
2007-03-27 03:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thought you said that you're married. Make your mind up!!! What's all this modelling crap anyway, one person wants you to be an eye model, another wants you to be another type of model? Are we telling porkies?
2007-03-29 01:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by littlebethan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋