ok well do u go talk to a girl if shes pretty or if shes nice. what makes u want to come talk to a girl? do you expect them to talk to you? cuz i like this guy and i hardly know him and im not so great at talking to guys that i like and i wish hed save me the trouble and come talk to me but sometimes i wonder is he even knows im there or if im invisible to him like everyone else. i wish i knew wat he was thinking.
2007-03-27 03:12:00 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
usually a pretty girl will get my attention, and i'll approach her. but **** i know some girls that are seriously less pretty than a bulldog and they're the nicest ppl i've ever met. i'd rather be with the ugliest girl in the world b/c she was the best person in the world than the best looking girl in the world because she might be a ***** like Michelle Pfyfer in SCAREFACE..
if you like the guy go talk to him, get to know him let him get to know you. you two might be made for each other
2007-03-27 03:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making a mistake that most people make. Just because you like him doesn't mean that he notices you. Just like you don't notice the other people around him he may not notice you. You need to do something that gets him to notice you (like going up to him and talking to him). When I choose to go and talk to a girl that i like it is because she has some trait that I really like, one that stands out. It can be physical or it can be her voice or her personality. It has to be something that makes me not want to let the opportunity to talk to her get away. I mean you see nice people everyday but you don't actually act on it. So maybe you aren't someone who just stood out instantly to him. That's why you have to step up. Obviously he has that factor that makes you want to approach him so what are you waiting for? Being shy just gives other girls who aren't shy the opportunity to take him away. And it's not the guys job to make the first move. If you think that you could be waiting for a long time to get a boyfriend.
2007-03-27 10:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl who is both pretty and nice can be intimidating, especially if the guy is shy. If you like the guy then go strike up a conversation with him. If he takes interest (and if he likes you he probably will, even if he is kinda shy) then you might be on to something. Best of Luck!
2007-03-27 10:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by dragoonmac 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if im on the pull 1st thing i go for is looks, but if shes got no personality the convo wont last very long, the best girls are pretty and keep a guy interested if your fun and smart and flirty you'll be sure to get his attention
2007-03-27 10:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Lee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys talk2gals if dare pretty but if dare nice guys keep talkin2em. just go up to him have a very brief chat an leave, den catch his eyes from a distance smile an walk away again, my girl did dat 18 months ago an we goin strong. good luck
2007-03-27 10:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by Eire rocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, if you want to find out, you have to break the ice say" hi, how's going" find something interesting for a small talk. if he feels the same way about you or shows sign of interest, he'll continue the conversation. give it a shot; there is nothing to lose.
2007-03-27 10:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he is like from other people. He may be shy, so you might need to make first move. Each case is different. Good luck.
2007-03-27 10:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by hamley_bridge_fc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We talk to a girl if we are attracted to them. It's not always about looks. Personality lasts longer than looks.
2007-03-27 10:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was me and i liked u back...i'll make eye contact and perhaps throw in a smile. if he's done this, then perhaps u got a chance. now just do something to initiate a conversation. don't ask me. u should b more creative than me wen it comes to being tactical ;o). Good luck!
2007-03-27 10:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by Timeless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes, you might have to take it in your own hands if you want it, like, if he obviously isn't going to say anything, then i'd suggest like just saying hey, how's it going. And hopefully he'll get the hint and take it from there.
2007-03-27 10:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋