ok so i had a really good friend last year, but then she got involved with my EX fiance' and they got married well that lasted 3 or 4 months then they got a prenup, well now after almost a year she has dropped the protective order against me & wants to b friends! at first i flipped out then i let go and now we are bestestest! we go out and have fun. well im engagged once again and im afraid to leave her alone wit him for one second! what should i do? should i have ever gave her a second chance? o yea to add on to it. my fiance' has talked about having a 3sum wit her. we experinced that ONCE and then me and the gurl stopped being friends . btu im afraid if we go there wit her she will try and take him from me.!?!?!
what to do???
plz plz plz comments
2007-03-27 03:10:43 · 8 answers · asked by ~*Wonderin*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i wouldn't do it, and i wouldn't trust her. considering u for gave her and u guys r good friends.i wouldn't take it no farther than that.don't invite her over when ur mans home.i wouldn't even let them to around each other.
2007-03-27 04:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tammie Tempesta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the most important thing is your communication with your fiance. Threesomes are only for the most secure of relationships [married or not] for just your reasons. If you have ideas that you may lose your fiance to this girl then maybe you shouldn't be marrying him , because if not her then who ? And if your afraid she'll steal your fiance maybe she's not your most trustworthy friend.
2007-03-27 10:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by htuch2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was not a FRIEND- a FRIEND is someone you feel secure around, someone you can confide in- THIS PERSON HAS NONE OF THESE ATTRIBUTES- so sing her the song- "hit the road Jack, and don't you come back no more , no more , no more, no more, Hit the road Jack ..."
Just my opinion. :-)
2007-03-27 10:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had another chance tonight/ I'd try to tell you that that the things we had were right/ If I had another chance tonight/ I'd try to tell you that the things we had were right.../ Sorry I can't be of any more help, they're the only lyrics.
2007-03-27 10:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would keep her from around my man n i wouldnt even gave her a second chance just leave her alone she pulled a hoe move
2007-03-27 10:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by young 1 out tha 4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say... dont trust her... what makes you think she will not do this again! I dont know how you even forgave her for what she did the first time! I could not have done that!
2007-03-27 10:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by 123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your best friend and did this once, she will likely
do it again.
No she doesn't/didn't deserve a second chance.
Tell her how you really feel.
2007-03-27 10:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont act dumb and engage in any sorta weird threesome..it'll screw everything up.
2007-03-27 10:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Porous G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋