2007-03-27 03:26:19 · 12 answers · asked by Skins08' 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
possessive does not =love
2007-03-27 03:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too possesive means u are insecure and do not love the person but own the person. U hurt the person by treating him as a thing, not a living human with heart and mind and soul and the all important 'free will'.
2007-03-28 02:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being too possesive only means that you consider that person to be good as god, too innocent, too kind, too caring, but it generally isnt love.
Love is the last stage of all such relationships like crush, liking, possesiveness, and it's the begining of a new life.
Love heppens when u know a person more than u know urself and love him/her more than u love urself.
2007-03-28 02:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by Nishant A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm possesive too. For me, it's something that happens when I'm in love with someone. There are people that like it and people that can't stand it.
If you're like me, you can't really do anything about it. Just try not to show it as much if it bothers the other person. If it drives them insane and they can't accept that it's who you are, find someone who will.
2007-03-27 03:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, dude, what do you mean by "too possessive"? your gonna have to be a little more specific. If you even have to question it, than its an issue. i believe you have some problems you need to work out within yourself. Love is not possessive, it is patient and kind and understanding. possessiveness will turn your love into hate. after all there is a thin line between the two
2007-03-27 03:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by shell_4everme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is love that is not expressed.Understand that every body needs space if you try to suffocate with being possesive the person will try to escape because they need space to breathe.Give people their space and express your love.
2007-03-28 20:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by gansa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To put it in another way, you like undivided attention of the person dear to you. Being too possessive, could be a manifestation of your INSECURITY. However, true love is more than being possessive. Try and develop more faith and trust, and maybe you could get over your being too possessive.
2007-03-27 05:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by glad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eevrything is good in a certain limit.you must know where you stand in that person's life.you should stop getting insecure as it will spoil the situation further.you can be possessive but not beyond a certain parameter.its healthy and its a sign of love.but you must know that there is a very thin line between being possessive and dominating.you must let the other person be himself and you must be yourself.
2007-03-27 03:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by catwoman69t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, possessiveness is not equal to love. It is rather a poison to love. It is potent to kill the love you feel with each other. I suggest that you should consult a professional such as a psychologist or a relationship counselor. If you love your partner, try to resolve this behavior.
2007-03-27 03:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mary Josette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possessive is not love....believe me, i know. I used to be the most possessive gf eveeeeeeeeerrrrrrr, i was clingy, the works, i knew it was a problem and you keep telling yourself its wrong, but what can you do??? I used to blame the other persons, but i worked on it, held my tongue, worked out what i would accept and wouldnt, as i got older and many ruined relationships later, i am much better, have confidence i yourself.
2007-03-27 03:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by natc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
POSSESIVE MAKES ME WONDER IF U HAD CHEATED IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS IN THE PAST NOT LETTING GO HER GO ANYWHERE BECAUSE U R AFAID SHE MIGHT SOMEONE NEW! NOW LOVE IS SOMETHING TOTALLY DIFFERNT WHEN UR IN LOVE U TRUST UR MATE ANYWHERE OR SOMEWHERE WHAT HAVING TO WORRIED FACT IS LOVE IS NOT SUPPOSE TO BE IN A CAGE BUT SET FREE
2007-03-27 03:40:54 · answer #11 · answered by tia n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋