well my boyfriend left me for the stupidiest reason. Me and him were together for 1year and 3 months. We have been through alot together,but we haven't spent any time together and i was tired of it,so i sent him a pix of me,then he ask me who was that on the pix i told him it was my cousin even though it was me.see thtas how you konw that he hasn't seen me in a while. But after i finaaly told him that it was me,he brike with me saying that it was a mistake for us to be together. that hurt me bad to my heart. so he lieft me b/c he said i was ugly and that he cant bring me around his family b/c they will talk about. thats when i knew that he did not love me like he said so i just left it along. What should i do?
2007-03-27 03:29:29 · 28 answers · asked by Babygurl89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Babygurl.....there is nothing for you "to do". It is already done. Look at the whole picture. You were not spending any time together. He doesn't even know your face well enough to distinguish it from your cousin's. He told you it was a mistake for you to be together. He told you that you are ugly and he doesn't want you to be around his family. And in your own words "That's when I knew that he did not love me".
No, dear, he doesn't love you. And if think about it how you deserve to be treated, I don't think you'd find much to love about him either. What you described is far from love, in fact it is abusive behavior on his part. I'm sorry for the pain you are going through. I'm also sorry for the time you have wasted on him. I wish you the best of luck with your next boyfriend.
2007-03-27 04:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are hurting.....but you should go on with life.
I don't think you were getting the real picture (cause you didn't
want to) IF it had been so long since you'd seen him that he
didn't recognize you, I think you can assume he had actually ended the relationship and not told you. Ugly smugly is just
an excuse so he doesn't have to face up to being a coward
by not confronting you before.
Remember regardless of what people say = actions speak
louder than words.
Mr.Right will come along - when the time is right..have faith
2007-03-27 03:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is how you know that you dont need him and you can do alot better. People need to stop judgeing from the outside and think about what on the inside. He really had no right to do something like that. I would be cussing up a storm at him, but i know that it wouldnt be worth it. Watch you will get hot some day, and he will regret breaking up with you. So i wouldnt worry about him if i was you.
2007-03-29 01:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by cexymama696969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this one of those internet romances? Those never work out and most are just a bunch of players. The internet is full of lonely people living fantasy lives on line at the expence of others. Move on, honey and get yourself a real man. There's one out there for you. Don't miss him while wasting your time on an internet Romeo. Good luck.
2007-03-27 03:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ladybug II 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with you because of your looks alone, ignoring the fact that you 2 have been through a lot only meant that he is one shallow heartless jerk and he doesnt deserve you. Or maybe he was just looking for a reason to break up with you so he grabbed that small opportunity to do so. either way, he doesnt deserve you. You have to move on. It is hard but simple.
2007-03-27 03:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by liv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try your best to forget about him, if he left you b/c of a picture then that's not a real relationship. You can do better than that,it's his loss. Show him that your better then what he thinks, go out and mingle with friends, don't walt away. Life is short you must live life to the fullest.
2007-03-27 03:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Oaks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an ***! What a guy!! you should have known him longer b4 dating him!! How could he even forget how you look like? Don't worry girl, you'll find a better guy than him! Also, you are not ugly! No one in this world is ugly. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. STay Happy!! =)
2007-03-27 03:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by priincessgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it was the right choice, he didnt even recognize you in a picture that you sent him!! Forget him and find someone who you can at least see more than him.
2007-03-27 03:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being so ugly that people are ashamed to bring you around their families. Oh, and find someone who's not a jerk like your boyfriend (you sure he was your boyfriend) and me.
2007-03-27 03:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by steve_dorings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live ur life. he isn't th rite 1 4 u if he can't not only reconize who u r but can't luv u for u. i'm sure ur a gr8 person so don't give up hope. love will find u and if u can't find it then u look for it. =)
♥ Dee Dee i hope i was of sum help
2007-03-27 09:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋