Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

so.,.uh..i'm blank!! lol..and my hand writing sucks!! and i want to put something that is sweet..but i know his mom will read it! lol..so..what do u think i should put?

2007-03-26 16:19:33 · 3 answers · asked by WOW! 3 in Singles & Dating

I had a female who doesn't like the true gentlemen. She was talking to other guys probably about sex. However, I was talking to her as a gentlemen. How is it that she's like this? Could it be that she's a female who gets down with a lot of guys. I don't want to say that word on yahoo answers. LOL You know what I mean. Seriously, I told her before I left. I said least I'm not like some of these other guys who only want to talk to you about SEX! She had nothing to say afterwards. I told her there's lots of other females anyway, that love intelligent conversation so I did. I moved on. Hell with her and any other female that dissappoves of a gentleman not being good enough for them. It's like Notorius B.I.G. said in the intro of the track "Juicy". LOL

2007-03-26 16:19:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for more than 20 years. I don’t believe in divorce and my mother was in a bad marriage and didn’t leave. My mother told me she didn’t leave my father, because her dad died when she was 7 and she didn’t want us to be without a father. My mother’s experience in losing her father caused her to hold onto my father for 35 years. He was a liar, and he always left for hours saying “Ill be back in 30 minutes.” She would stay in her room and worried about where he was. As a young child I never felt I fully understood exactly how she felt so one day I prayed and asked god to show me how my mother feels? Then I met a beautiful Philippine girl while I was in the Air force. She was a run-away girl and I reconciled her with her family. After that we started dating and I was so attracted by her beauty. Everything was fine until an old boyfriend showed up when we were together. She ran over to him and asked “where have you been?” I look at him and said she’s pregnant? He got mad and we started to fight when she broke it up. I broke up with her to give her time to sort out who she wanted to be with. She chose me. I soon learned that she had a violent temper and I knew I wasn’t going to be able to handle it so I broke up with her. One day later she told me that according to Philippine culture I have to marry her because she is pregnant so I married her. It has been over 25 years she has left me 25 times and has always come back. We fight constantly in front of the children she always says “I can get anyone I want because of my looks, you’re getting old, and I still look good” She’s 42 years old and still beautiful. I always tell her “if you can get anyone you want, please do?” She always insults me millions of times. I fully understand my mother feelings and I am ready to be free of her, but I want her to leave me. I don’t want to be the one who leaves her. Why doesn’t she leave me? If she is so great and can get anyone she likes, why doesn’t she?

2007-03-26 16:18:37 · 22 answers · asked by realgood150 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 16:18:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Thanks :) Peace

2007-03-26 16:18:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my fiancee (will be my wife in two weeks) shower together all the time to keep the water bill down. A friend told me by showering together we are setting a bad example for my 3 year old daughter. Is it wrong for two married people to shower together? Does any married people on here shower with your spouces? If that isnt too personal.

2007-03-26 16:18:17 · 28 answers · asked by Martin A Neville 4 in Marriage & Divorce

coz i want to know if he's ok all the time. he's half way round the globe apart from me? but i am not calling him if i know that he's already retired.

2007-03-26 16:18:09 · 3 answers · asked by lani 1 in Singles & Dating

I called him to offer my condolences and to lend an ear if he needs one, we've been together for so long, his family is like my family, how do I proceed, or should I stop there?

2007-03-26 16:17:08 · 30 answers · asked by Honey83 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont want this to sound to fruity
but i like this guy and he wanted to ask me out but hes to shy to do so,
so i gave his friend my myspace to give to my love,
the thing is that im so unexperienced... hes my first love
what if he does asks me out and i say yes, what do i do next
i mean how do i do the move to kiss him or what should we talk about,
i know you guys must be thinking "crap another love story" but i need advice,
im 14, hes 14 too... any advice

2007-03-26 16:17:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im having a bit of a problem, i am an 18 yr old girl who is very attracted to a 28yr old male i met over the internet, and he has made clear that this attraction is mutual. Neither of us were looking for anything more than a fun chat when we met, but now he has mentioned getting together for real and becoming serious. All of my friends think im crazy for even considering this given that i have absolutly no problem getting good guys right here at my college, but i cant seem to stop thinking about him. I know for a fact that he has not lied about the important things anyway as i have seen him on cam and therefore was able to confirm his age, apperance, occupation, etc. We just seem to click and although everything i have ever been taught goes against this, i find myself wanting nothing more than to take him up on his offer and be with him. I am very confused over what to do, so please any thoughts, ideas, or advice about what i should or shouldn't do would be greatly welcomed.

2007-03-26 16:16:51 · 5 answers · asked by Lizzy S 2 in Singles & Dating

He claims that I am insecure but I feel that I need respect and since it costs so much money, he needs to focus on US instead of eye-flirting with the other women; this has been an ongoing problem for the last 5 years. P.S. I think of myself as "eye-candy" and have no problem attracting others although I prefer not to!

2007-03-26 16:16:12 · 9 answers · asked by Laney 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friends brother has asked me out twice. Now hes a little chubby and he asked me out in 9th grade. in 9th grade i was afraid of what people would think so i turned him down. i cant believe i did. now This year he asked me out i told him i liked him but we didnt talk for a long time and then i found out he had a girlfriend they have been goin out for about 4 months or so. my bf told me that they are probably going to break up because they are havin lots of problems. i told my friend i wish i could just tell her brother i loved him. Do u think i should tell him my real feelings or do u think i shouldnt. so that i dont make things weird between us.

2007-03-26 16:16:09 · 18 answers · asked by peanut 2 in Friends

I lived w my ex-boyfriend for over 5 yrs. I mentioned to him that I wanted to get engaged once and he almost passed out, so i never approached that subject again. I needed help and his support many times, and he turned his back on me everytime. He made me feel incompetent. He wanted to move to new england, very far from my family and bad job market for what I do, and he tried to convince me to move w him, tho he didnt try very hard.

I struggled w the idea. I realized that he didn't love me. I decided to break the relationship, since I didn't feel right making such a sacrifice in my life for a person that doesn't love me or care for me as much as I did.

Today I found out that he is a member of Eharmony. He has actually been a member since January.... only TWO WEEKS after we broke up! This is even more proof that he didn't love me.

I'm feeling betrayed, i feel unloved, i feel cheated. Why, we are not together anymore? what can i do to put this behind me and move on?

2007-03-26 16:15:39 · 14 answers · asked by Lil'me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you date a man who does not pay his child support? Do you currently date someone who does not pay his child support?

2007-03-26 16:15:34 · 11 answers · asked by nene 3 in Singles & Dating

Who is in charge of the rehersal? I always thought our Pastor was going to be the leader of it but he told me today that he doesn't think he really needs to be there. I quickly got off the phone with him because my mixture of surprise, confusion, and PMS was causing me to burst into tears/laughter...it wasn't pretty. He probably could have told me this months ago instead of today (literally 11 days before the rehersal). This is my first marriage so I would appreciate it if he was there telling me how he does things. Am I wrong? Whenever I've been to a rehersal before the guy/gal doing the marrying always ran the show...maybe the bride/groom requested that?! I'm not sure! Please help!
PS-The MOB dress thing worked out just fine...I ordered another dress, it arrived, I told my mom a mild form of the truth, she tried it on and loved it! Yay!

2007-03-26 16:15:27 · 9 answers · asked by Lauren G 2 in Weddings

he is with my girls friend, he also with the woman at work should I tell the woman at work, he is cheating both of them?

2007-03-26 16:14:10 · 13 answers · asked by sska 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have such a good time and I'm so comfortable and just myself around her but just not physically attracted. Physical attraction is just as important as everything else?

2007-03-26 16:14:04 · 4 answers · asked by puma 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend but I have been supporting him for about 2 years now. There is always a reason why this or that job ended - and most of them end up plausible, but he is a complete hedonist so when he's not working he does nothing to help domestically (unless he is given a list and then he's mostly brilliant), except "fun" stuff. I have asked him to move out and learn to take on some responsibility. Finally, after months, he is doing it, but now something else has come up which will put him in difficult circumstances when it comes to paying rent & bills etc. But I don't want the burden anymore. I have had my life on hold because all my savings end up funding expenses we should both be sharing. I also don't want to dump him in the street. If I were in his situation, I'd appreciate help. What do I do?

2007-03-26 16:14:02 · 6 answers · asked by HerbGal 4 in Marriage & Divorce

have 3somes too?

2007-03-26 16:13:51 · 5 answers · asked by Mai L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I am in fifth grade and about half the kids in my class snap my bra. My crush snaps it to, sometimes a little flirtatiously. What does this mean and what should I do next time my crush does it.

2007-03-26 16:13:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In muslim countries they do not have this type of definition. I ahve to explain it to a muslim woman from Turkey and make her understand that it is a relatioship where you have your legal rights unlike being just a girl friend or boy friend or mistress thing. She keeps mixing the idea of Common Law relatioships with having a mistress. I had one and left my ex!This muslim person thinks I still have to be at my ex's mercy now since men always have rights over women?!!!?!?

2007-03-26 16:12:20 · 8 answers · asked by D. M. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It looked really desprate.

2007-03-26 16:12:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a friend of mine has been through an odd experience where her lover didn't stop when she told him to. Apparently she got into it and enjoyed it when he kept teasing her but the point is that he didn't stop when asked....??
What are your thoughts on this?
She said she felt weird about the whole thing and a little used

2007-03-26 16:11:31 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have what is called a hypnofetish, meaning I get aroused when I see an attractive person being hypnotized or when I get hypnotized myself. It's not the mind control aspect, I just like the induction, feeling my eyes close drifting off. I've been to a few hypnotist shows with my sorority and I love everyone. I like being hypnotized and fantasizing about it. Why is that? I am fine with other sexual stuff and am turned on by normal stuff (aside from this) so..my question is why am I so messed up and should I seek help or is this just harmless. Like...I don't care about the actual hypnosis...I just like the eroticism of the "you are getting sleepy stuff" what should I do. Thanks.

2007-03-26 16:10:20 · 3 answers · asked by stephiebabylynn 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 16:09:21 · 12 answers · asked by soccer_rules98 1 in Singles & Dating

There are girls in my science class that believe that just because we're Freshmen in highschool that we should try to asct like we're 21 or older. so today they come to me and ask me to grow up, but I'm not even 15 yet so i think That even though I'm not 10, i should keep on acting goofy because when it comes time, I really won't be allowed to. What do you think.

2007-03-26 16:09:17 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Carebear♥ 1 in Friends

My friend described the woman he has been seeing in these words: "She isn't greatly built or what would be considered beautiful---she is nice looking but in a plain beauty way."

2007-03-26 16:09:07 · 8 answers · asked by ragged 3 in Singles & Dating

well there were these 2 girls at my school i thought were very beautiful and nice people that i had liked for a while. I pretty much just said might as well ask one out and did. She was going out with someone but said she was flatterd. Went for the other who i really liked and same thing. She took it as a complement as well....they said we could be friends though so i took it. Oh well this isnt really a question other than me kind of venting or so. Well at least i have some new friends now. any feedback is welcome.

peace.

2007-03-26 16:08:30 · 9 answers · asked by Corazon 2 in Singles & Dating

Any extra details about the relationship you had might make the awnser more intresting.
More intresting= better chance at the ten points.
But it's still and easy two.

2007-03-26 16:08:11 · 2 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

the nicest thing I could get for a man???

2007-03-26 16:08:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating