Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

if the parents say no the father doesnt have to pay, and were not getting government aid like medicare,medicaid do u still have to pay child support? how wouldnt you have to pay child support?

2007-03-26 15:44:08 · 15 answers · asked by mjorden2342 2 in Family

My boyfriend of 10 years is going to purpose to me! We've been dating since I was 15! We have 3 kids together, one on the way. I've been thinking about our wedding, do our kids come or not?

2007-03-26 15:44:03 · 11 answers · asked by Lissa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok this all started when i posted some videos of the new Ford F250 6.4 diesel on Youtube.com i get a message on Youtube.com from this guy Robert in Canada asking about the 6.4 and last years 6.0 diesel engine. I awnser his questions as best i can. So i am cool with so far. Now he has been messaging me about 10 times then gives me his email address. So i email him and we are still talking about the engines. Now this is where it gets weird. He emails me about three more times back and forth then gives me his phone number. This was last week and i did call him and we talked for about 2 minutes. He is still emailing and now he said and i quote him "This FORD Super Duty has no Engine, Transmission problems. are married
single etc. erything will be fine
okay talk to you againI am still single still looking for the right girl. So I hope you someday we can meet each other okay thanks."

How do i tell him i dont want to meet him or talk to him again? Is this weird or what?

2007-03-26 15:43:52 · 3 answers · asked by Austin M 1 in Friends

I broke up with my bf last Tuesday. He broke up with me in the past, hurt me too much so I did it maybe just for revenge.

He's supposed to visit me this wednesday(we are long distance) but just now i found out he cancelled his flight. I never thought he'd do that b/c although i told him not to come he said he would.

So i thought we broke up on tuesday and we'll make up on this wednesday. But now i just found out he's not coming and he's not returning my calls and emails. I dont know what to do. I just can't stop crying right now. How can i make him talk to me and see me again? I mean, he begged me to stay last tuesday, how can he be totally the opposite now?

2007-03-26 15:43:52 · 10 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

If you had a 5 month old daughter with a man that just beat you and now wont leave the house you two are renting....Who you keep her away from him or what?
Whats right?

2007-03-26 15:43:48 · 33 answers · asked by MamaTooz4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 5'8", and am shaped like an upside down triangle--broad, but not overly broad shoulders, full chest(DDD), straight-wasted, narrow hips, long arms and legs. Of all the websites and magazines I've looked at, no one will tell you what looks good on someone with a full chest only what types of dresses to avoid(which seems like most of them!). What type would look the best for my figure?

2007-03-26 15:43:45 · 10 answers · asked by justpeachee22 5 in Weddings

I really enjoy wearing lingerie and have recently discovered that I love stripper clothes (not that I'm getting into the business because I'm definitely not). I've bought some of these outfits to wear for him, but I'm afraid he'll expect me to dance for him. Would you expect this from your girlfriend or would you just be content seeing her in it?

2007-03-26 15:43:40 · 6 answers · asked by paddington_ck 4 in Singles & Dating

Just curious to what people think

2007-03-26 15:42:50 · 24 answers · asked by mip_010 1 in Singles & Dating

My buddy's wife moved out about a year ago, and they have decided to get divorced. They've been married five years and have no kids. When they got married they both didn't want kids....she changed her mind. She is now living with a guy and I heard on Friday she's pregnant and I'm almost certain he doesn;t know it. Legal raminfications would be big if they don't get divorced by the time she has it and she decided to put his name on the birth cert....should I tell him I know , and if I do, how do I break it to him? He's a super nice guy....she;s the one who changed her mind about life and moved out....

2007-03-26 15:42:43 · 19 answers · asked by Foss 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 15:41:46 · 17 answers · asked by a 1 in Singles & Dating

Can I get a restraining order with us having a baby together

2007-03-26 15:41:44 · 17 answers · asked by MamaTooz4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so ive been with my bf for 7 months and i feel like we have no trust in our relationship. he's always asking me if im cheating or who im running around on him with. i believe he askes me this cause i admitted to cheatin on ex's before him. i havnt cheated on him and havnt wanted to. he dosent understand how i was a cheater before and how all of a sudden i stopped when we started dating. i told him it was because i was immature and now i know what i want, im ready to settle down with him. my friends tell me that i shouldnt put up with the constant distrust since i havnt done anything wrong. so the big question is do i stay with the man i love and continue to put up with him not trusting me or give up and struggle to let go for several months? just looking for some insight.

2007-03-26 15:41:41 · 8 answers · asked by chickabee 1 in Singles & Dating

Ask for our phone numbers and then never call

2007-03-26 15:40:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have 2 men that i love and i have 2 choose between them. both are great but each is missing something the other has. why cant we put men in a blender & put them together ?

2007-03-26 15:40:33 · 15 answers · asked by milissa h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my bf calls me all the time and then 5 min. in the conversation he sayz he will call me back and he doez like 2 hours later and i think he still luvs hiz ex wat should i do?

2007-03-26 15:40:29 · 9 answers · asked by dg1213bb 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancé and I can't figure out what to do. I live in eastern Canada and he lives in illisnois. We want to get married and have both our familes and friends there, but neigther one of out families really has the money to travel that far. We don't really have the money to have 2 weddings. We can't figure out what to do. Any suggestions?

2007-03-26 15:40:14 · 6 answers · asked by Gabby 1 in Weddings

My friend is a good person, and she has a good heart. We made friends when I was still having self esteem problems, but I've gotten over my issues. The thing is that she is still having self esteem problems and I feel like I've outgrown her. I'd like to hang out with more stronger people.

My friend thinks she is confident, but she doesn't realize how many insecurities she has. She is constantly asking me or anyone "Are you mad at me?" even if we're not.

I notice that all she talks about is about herself, her problems, or about her friends' problems. And it seems that I've become her psychiatrist. Whether or not her boyfriend is around, she places me in the middle of their personal problems, which is really awkward.

There is a difference between confiding in your friend sometimes, vs. relying on your friend to solve most or all of your problems.

I already have an idea about what I want to do, but I'd like to get a second opinion. Thanks!

2007-03-26 15:39:47 · 12 answers · asked by Sibyl 4 in Friends

i need to get back at my friend for saying i like somebody and so called recording me say i kind of like somebody well thats what my other friend said im trying to get a secret about her and tell people or get back at another girl thats a ***** how should i get back at somebody and make them want to move from the school im going to i need some horrible ideals.

2007-03-26 15:39:40 · 7 answers · asked by shatavious g 1 in Friends

Rate these from 1-5, choosing from face, hair, breasts, butt, legs. If I'm missing an attribute, you can add it. Of course, personality is a big one, but I'm just asking about the physical things. Just curious! Thanks!

2007-03-26 15:39:39 · 14 answers · asked by paddington_ck 4 in Singles & Dating

okay, this guy i like, and he likes me and evrything, but we aren't a couple yet...but almost are.....anyway, he's not really a "touchy" person (i was talking to a guy that has known him for like 10 years) the guy i was talking to, said that he isn't REALLY touchy, but when we start really likeing e/o he'll prolly loosen up...but how do i get him to kinda get more touchy?
b/c i'm a really "touchy" "lovey" person, and i just adore this guy. he's so sweet, and funny! please help!!!

2007-03-26 15:39:30 · 4 answers · asked by ThinkPink 3 in Singles & Dating

Would this freak you out? Would you be indifferent? I like to be honest about myself, and feel that someone I was with should be okay with the fact that I'm bi... but sometimes I feel like guys take this to mean that I'm really sexual, and want to hookup with everyone etc. Many times, people will ask me to participate in threesomes and such. Should I stop telling people that I'm bi so that I'll be taken more seriously?

2007-03-26 15:39:23 · 9 answers · asked by sym pathetic 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who always makes bad decisions about men. For example she has a major crush on this man who is an Alcohalic/addict she thinks he is really hot and sleeps with him every time he calls her no matter what time of night or morning. She thinks she can help him get clean and he is constantly flaking out on her using jail as an excuse...classy right. Anyway I am trying to be a friend to her and she knows how I feel about this guy. But I am so sick of hearing about the guy and the poor decisions she is making that Im kind of ignoring her now. I feel bad because I want to be there for her but all I have is negitive things to say. Any suggestions?

2007-03-26 15:39:18 · 1 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Friends

I am having a formal wedding, the ceremony is starting at 4pm (this is the latest time I could arrage it for because the church does not allow weddings after that time). I have my heart set on this church and do not want to change locations. Traditionally, no one wears a tuxedo before 5 pm, but after the ceremony (which is a catholic one so it will be a lil bit more lengthy) we are having a cocktail hour and a reception which will last until about 11pm. Is putting "Black Tie Affair" enough to get the point across that it is very formal? I am using very formal invitations, do I need the save the dates to be just as formal?

It's not white-tie kind of formal, but all of my 6 bridesmaids are wearing floor length black gowns and we are having a 10 piece band for music at the reception.

Any suggestions to make sure no one shows up in a polo shirt, or is 4pm just too ridiclious to request this sort of thing?

2007-03-26 15:39:17 · 9 answers · asked by Marie521 1 in Weddings

What happened to it? Did it go a long way?

2007-03-26 15:39:11 · 3 answers · asked by meco031719 3 in Singles & Dating

Photos? Unity candle? Guest book? etc...
Did you take it or give it to your ex or throw them away?
And who wanted the divorce, in relation to who wanted to keep the stuff?

2007-03-26 15:38:53 · 8 answers · asked by Fat & Sassy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she stares at me and smiles at me but dons't talk much to me.

2007-03-26 15:38:27 · 8 answers · asked by bugz_ink@sbcglobal.net 2 in Singles & Dating

Can One expect a non busy day going around June 18th.?

2007-03-26 15:38:20 · 8 answers · asked by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 in Singles & Dating

ok so sadie hawkins is comming up and the girls are askin the guys to go with them and stuff and people keep telling me that this one grls is going to ask me. were not really friends and i dont have anything against her but i just dont want to go with her. (btw she hasnt asked me yet) the girl i wanted to go with said to me that she was going to ask me but she found out the other girls was. what should i do when she asks me? i dont want to be mean about it but what should i say?

2007-03-26 15:38:03 · 4 answers · asked by jdcorvettelover 3 in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy and I thought that he was cute... but his friends kept making rude comments like "how did you end up with her?", etc. Even his dad was constantly asking him that. Eventually, he started treating me differently... and differently as in a bad way (complaining about my appearance). I eventually dumped him because of this, and TWO HOURS after I dumped him, he goes out with this ugly hoochie mama who is known for being easy (I'm known for being a good girl). Why would my looks bother him? Shouldn't it matter more that I find him attractive? Why would he let people get to him? :(

BTW; when I dumped him, he was crying though... :(
I wish that it was different

2007-03-26 15:37:33 · 17 answers · asked by Sloane 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like a girl and her name is amanda and heres how it goes i am a freshman she is a sophomore i dont have a learners permit she has a license and i dont even know if she would want to go out with me or if we could. i really dont know what to do i am in desperate need for help this may not seem like an important question to you but it is very important to me and i would appriciate it if you would stick to the point and leave the fact that i suck at grammar and spelling alone.

2007-03-26 15:37:21 · 3 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating