I broke up with my bf last Tuesday. He broke up with me in the past, hurt me too much so I did it maybe just for revenge.
He's supposed to visit me this wednesday(we are long distance) but just now i found out he cancelled his flight. I never thought he'd do that b/c although i told him not to come he said he would.
So i thought we broke up on tuesday and we'll make up on this wednesday. But now i just found out he's not coming and he's not returning my calls and emails. I dont know what to do. I just can't stop crying right now. How can i make him talk to me and see me again? I mean, he begged me to stay last tuesday, how can he be totally the opposite now?
2007-03-26 15:43:52 · 10 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm really upset right now, please be nice. I feel so sad b/c we are so close. Once he comes down here on wednesday, everything will definitely work out. It's just now it's never gonna happen.
2007-03-26 15:45:29 · update #1
OK please take time to breathe. You're in a panic.
My heart really goes out to you even if what you did wasn't very bright. Love can make us do some stupid things sometimes...
First of all stop calling him! Remember that you broke up with him, so act accordingly. At least for now.
He's probably hurt right now and feels angry at you, which would explain why he's not answering.Try waiting a couple of days for things to calm down, and then try to contact him if he doesn't do it first. You can always send him an email explaining how you only dumped him because you were still hurt by the fact that he dumped you before, but wait a little. If he loves you, he will eventually be back in your arms and won't use this against you in the future, but remember to always be careful what you wish for next time!
Take care ;-)
2007-03-26 16:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not call him or write him in a desperate state. Guys do not want a desperate girl. Make sure if you do call him you will not be crying. If you email him have a friend look at it and make sure it does not sound desperate. The message you want to send across right now is that you want him back but that you are the stable, fun, and sexy girl he fell in love with. Also, do not overcall/email because that has an air of desperation to it. If you write the calm stable email I said and wait it out for awhile he will respond.
2007-03-26 22:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by Reeve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is that was really stupid. If you guys got back together you should have left it that way and not hurt him just for revenge. Revenge is not the answer. So now you have to grow up and learn from your mistakes. You can try saying you are sorry and telling him the truth about why, but i doubt he will forgive you. I would not forgive someone so immature as to break up with me out of spite.
2007-03-26 22:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by foxy_in_the_bigsky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made yourself cry! I am a nice person, but you don't need nice you need honest. You need to grow up. I see alot of immaturity within your words! you seem to think the sun rises and sets on you! It doesn't. how could you expect him to come visit aftr you broke his heart? How selfish of you!!!
Now if you want your man back let's get him. :) You ready?
You need to get you a ticket and go there. Men respond to action and not words. Calling and stuff won't have the same impact as going there. Stop crying and go get your man!!! You have his address? Send him stuff until you can get there. Another thing...stop blowing up his phone. Allow him to miss seeing your name pop up. You two will be alright. Don't play with love though, he might not come back every time.
2007-03-26 22:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things sometimes don't work in the way as we plan!
Give him some time and some space.
If he really loves you he is going to search you! for sure!!
You already must have sent many emails, and called him many many times... Don't do that.. I know when you love someone is really difficult to let it go, and wait!
But if he is your true love, he will come back to you!
Good luck!
2007-03-26 22:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Ranah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be sad right now but unless he changes his mind, you're going to have to figure out a way to move on. I know it's hard to hear, but you need to find someone who is better for you. It's always hard in the beginning, but once you recover, you will only be stronger. Good Luck! (I have faith in ya!)
2007-03-26 22:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by Hopeful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time, don't break up for revenge, bad idea, but he shouldn't be so rude not to return your calls, i guess the first time he broke up he wasn't sure the relationship was working out, now that u broke up with him, he may think you're not sure its working out, you might have to explain that it was just for revenge
2007-03-26 22:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Araceli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may have blown it , for now at least anyway. Let it go for a while, let him cool off and he'll get in touch with you when he's ready. Just let go for now....
2007-03-26 23:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dry your tears and start getting over it. He's using you now and hurting you and doesn't seem to care. Don't give him the satisfaction of tears!!
2007-03-26 22:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh U BROKE UP WITH HIM.
no offence but its ur fault
2007-03-26 23:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋