My buddy's wife moved out about a year ago, and they have decided to get divorced. They've been married five years and have no kids. When they got married they both didn't want kids....she changed her mind. She is now living with a guy and I heard on Friday she's pregnant and I'm almost certain he doesn;t know it. Legal raminfications would be big if they don't get divorced by the time she has it and she decided to put his name on the birth cert....should I tell him I know , and if I do, how do I break it to him? He's a super nice guy....she;s the one who changed her mind about life and moved out....
2007-03-26 15:42:43 · 19 answers · asked by Foss 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
None of your bussiness really. He will find out I'm sure.
2007-03-26 16:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter who did what; stay out of it If there are legal issues involved, I'm sure a competent lawyer will get it worked out. Even you have all the details and information, and are intimate to the parties involved, I still think it's a bad idea to break this news to your buddy.
2007-03-26 15:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you definite it's yours and not the uncle and were you scared while you went to bed together with your aunt (by way of marriage I presume)? I'm going to wait and take a paternity scan and go from there. Whether it is yours, I believe you must man up and lay your playing cards on the desk. That is what actual men do, correct?
2016-08-10 22:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's none of your business. Besides if they haven't been together for a year then hopefully your "friend" is smart enough to figure out the gestational period...put two and two to gether and if she puts his name on the birth certificate he can demand a DNA test.
2007-03-26 21:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you specific this is yours and not the uncle and have been you scared once you went to mattress with your aunt (via marriage I presume)? i will wait and take a paternity attempt and pass from there. regardless of if that's yours, i think of you will desire to guy up and lay your enjoying cards on the table. that's what genuine adult men do, desirable?
2016-11-23 18:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by swarn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends .. would the news hurt him more or would the fact that you are his friend and if he found out you knew and didnt tell him... know what i mean. its not your place BUT it depends. put yourself in his shoes. would you want him to tell you? especially if shes trying to take him for money. in some states that could still be adultry unless they are legally separated and also, if she put his name on the birth certificate a simple test will clear that up
2007-03-26 15:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't if this is in every state or not, but blood tests are a man's best friend. As far as her putting your friend's name on the birth certificate, he can call for a blood test. (in pa anyway). if you are not in the US. I have no idea. ALso Go ahead and tell him It's your duty as a man to gossip about his ex having a baby. Whether it's his or not, only the blood tests will decide.
2007-03-26 15:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's not your business. I expect they are both adults. He should be able to take care of himself. He should be able to figure out if he's the dad or not. If not, and they do get back together, perhaps you can then suggest he have paternity proven.
2007-03-26 15:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell him only because of the legal issue. He could be named as the father and forced to pay child support if the divorce is not final.
2007-03-26 15:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You can tell him if he is your good friend. Just change the situation around and if you would like to know then yes tell him. A good friend would tell a good friend just don't bad mouth her because he can do it but you are not allowed to do that. Just listen and be there for him.
2007-03-26 15:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋