If you had a 5 month old daughter with a man that just beat you and now wont leave the house you two are renting....Who you keep her away from him or what?
Whats right?
2007-03-26 15:43:48 · 33 answers · asked by MamaTooz4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my advice to you is to leave him, im really sorry that he's putting you through this but i think he's going to beat your daughter just to get to you! and i would not wish that on any mother! if you can run away safely, please do, the guy you are with is not worth any chances, if he can beat you, he's not worth anything, he's not even worthy of being called a man, if you do leave, do not take him back in any circumstances, people dont change that much
good luck with your decision!
2007-03-26 15:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by sprite 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If i were you and in this situation I would take her and leave him asap and not look back! I would get a lawyer involved as well. If he wants visitation rights let him take you to court over it and you go for full custody in this case but whatever you do thake that little girl and GET OUT NOW!!!! Once you are out do not look back or ever go back to be with him ever! He should not know where you are at either. Stay with a family member or a friend or even go to a womens shelter if need be . Just do what you can to get out! You and your daughter deserve much better then this. Also get a order of protection against him if need be as well. Good luck to you and your precious little girl and here comes lots of hugs and prayers your way.
2007-03-26 16:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This looks like a job for DOCTOR PHIL! But seriously, if he beat you he might as well end up doing the same to the child some day. Just get far away from the guy unless he is willing to take some therapy. If it´s your place and he wont leave then call the police, they can escort him out.
2007-03-26 15:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by Guðni 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a person looses every ounce of reason when beating comes into the scene. I've never been trough it, but I believe it would happen once only. I've learn ed to love myself too much and a husband is no other than the person you chose to make you happy, he only has the right to do what you let him do. I am really sorry you are going through this, but there is no answer than: tell him to shove it and move on. Your body is a gift and not even you have the right to mistreat it.
2007-03-27 10:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave this Man now you don't want your daughter to think that this is normal behaviour man beating up the mother of his baby, go back home to your parents or to a friend and get a social worker
move on with your life for your daughters sake
2007-03-27 05:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you Stupid, Leave now get out take your child and go, do not stay with a man who can even think about treating you like that never mind doing it, are there any womens refuge near you, contact samaritans they can help and advise they aren't just there for sicides you know they are a support and advice organisation as well. or tell your doctor, health visitor etc they can help.
Please girl just get up and go, Good Luck hope it works out
2007-03-29 09:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by decrepid1958 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the locks on your doors Kelli D!!! Finish with this animal.....if he can beat you once, he will do it again. As you know, you have to consider your daughter now! He could end up beating her. Inform the police so that they are aware of the situation. You take care hon, all the best! :o)
2007-03-26 16:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you have reported this to the police. They will help you remove him, if not you must leave for your own safety as well as your daughters. You can always ring the Domestic Abuse unit and they will help you. If needs be they would find safe accommodation for you and your daughter. You would find their number in the telephone book. Do it sooner rather than later. Good luck.
2007-03-30 09:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out get out get out.
think of your safety and your daughters go to a safe house or go to the police and ask for their help i am sure they wont turn you away if anything they are trying to get people to come forward about this they can get him to leave and get a restaining order out on him so dont sit back and let him get away with it the right thing is to get rid and start again just you and your baby
2007-03-27 10:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had just beat you up, you need to call the police, or go to the police and make a report. They will take him out of the house, although it will probably be just for the night.
2007-03-26 15:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by tamara_cyan 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋