Photos? Unity candle? Guest book? etc...
Did you take it or give it to your ex or throw them away?
And who wanted the divorce, in relation to who wanted to keep the stuff?
2007-03-26 15:38:53 · 8 answers · asked by Fat & Sassy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I kept everything. He decided he was "confused" and after a while I asked him for a divorce. The album, photos, guest book, champagne glasses, the wedding dress, etc. are in a plastic storage bin and, when my child is old enough, I'll give it to her for whatever she wants to do with it.
2007-03-26 15:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by flrt4fn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wanted the divorce and i kept the stuff my dad paid for it! i threw the candle away and the photos went to my dad again he paid for them and the other items i sold at a yard sale! but i will say i did not have kids if i did then that would be different my parents are divorced and so i have the wedding rings and the photos because those are pictures of my parents and when they started my family it may not have lasted but just like I kept all the family photo stuff i wanted those also because its how my family that i love started!
2007-03-26 16:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by peterpansdate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife after 22 years sent me a dear john letter from Afgahnistan where she met an Army reservist who was marrried with 3 daughters (my wife and I have 5 children) said she didn't love me anymore that she was going to make sure he left his wife so they could be together. She said she didn't want the kids but would ask the courts for shared custody 5% of the time to lower child support unless I was willing to waive. I didn't want the divorce but she wanted to live in this house pay nothing and be free to fly back and forth from W virginia where he lived until he could divorce and come to California. Now they are both in Iraq, before she left I filed for divorce although I tried reconciling for the last two years. Finally I said F this and shredded every photo of her and I (not the ones with the kids) but everything else. We were together since our junior year in high school. So all the prom pictures, school functions, marriage photos, vacations, pictures to each other from school, everything. Then I sent Two flat rate postal boxes full of shredded pictures to her in Iraq. She has talked to me since contacting my lawyer about it.
She never said she wanted them.... and I sure as hell didn't.
2007-03-26 19:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by dad_raisn_5_onmyown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kept the wedding album, only because my mom made it for me and she spent a lot of time and money on it. Everything else I threw away. Oh, and I was the one who wanted the divorce.
2007-03-27 09:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by lorbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made the decision on the divorce. He didnt believe in fidelity. As for any marriage items. I made albums for my adult children, and included bits n pieces of the wedding album in their individual albums. I also passed down my wedding band, engagement ring, and his wedding band, which he didnt wear. I can deny him as a worthless mate. But he remains their (worthless) father.
2007-03-26 15:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i gave im the vow since he obviously need to read them again! and then i boxed everything else up and put it away since i payed for all of it. i wanted the divorce since he was a lying cheating sack of s*it!
2007-03-26 18:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanted the divorce and I kept it all......it's all been in a tub for years, my children like looking through it....
2007-03-26 15:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex wanted the divorce
she didn't want anything
i threw it all away, including wedding band
2007-03-26 16:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋