Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

i met this guy, we`ve been on 2 dates. on the 2nd date, he kissed me. tried making out with me. he doesnt want to go out, wants to stay at my place. everything is moving too fast for me. he is pressuring me all the time,but says that he is not on purpose. i`m not sure whether i want a romantic relationship, but he says that by now i should be able to make up my mind. i like him ,bt we only saw each other 2 times.whats the rush? i keep thinking we have really different ideas what a relationship means. i explained him my perspective. all his relationships lasted for a long time...

2007-03-26 15:37:07 · 2 answers · asked by Mystery_gal 3 in Singles & Dating

What do you prefer????

2007-03-26 15:36:52 · 8 answers · asked by uvacavfanatic 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think is the most romantic way to ask a girl out?

Where do you like to go on a date?

Just wondering.

2007-03-26 15:35:36 · 6 answers · asked by psrzab 1 in Singles & Dating

We japanese girls love to dye our hair to more lighter color but....Hey! Caucasian boys! Do you like it or not? Do you prefer natural black hair?

2007-03-26 15:35:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad hardly helped my mom buy food and clothes for us. he had the money just hid it. hes into drugs never calls. should i try a relationship with him? i wonder what is going to happen when he needs assistance as he gets older. if he lives that long. my brain says let him rot. my heart wants to do otherwise. i am 27 now, married ( nope he wasnt there..he was invited) not sure what to do.

2007-03-26 15:35:06 · 12 answers · asked by Ryan M 1 in Family

After school, walked into the house and went to dad's bed room and caught him scuring with our nabor Mrs. Johnson. Dad, promised me not to tell mom. See, dad is not working bc he recently got injured.. so mom has been wurking pt. time. I did not wont to dissapoint dad, but I accidently told Unkle Larry, and now he makes me wash his back again. If i dun't he'll tell dad, and i'll get in trouble. What would you do?

2007-03-26 15:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by buster b 1 in Family

My boyfriend is coming into town this weekend and I always feel soooooo boring. When hes not around i always have something to do but when he comes around it never seems like there is anything fun going on. What are some ideas that maybe you have come up with or maybe you have heard about??? Thanks in advance!!!!

2007-03-26 15:34:55 · 9 answers · asked by t-pip 2 in Singles & Dating

He keeps dogging me about my weight even though he's not in shape and I've told him it hurts my feelings. What should I do if he's attracted to skinny girls and I'm curvy but pretty in the face?

2007-03-26 15:34:41 · 10 answers · asked by eternity 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 and my guy friend is 22. One of my guy friends and I have gotten closers the past few months. He always asks if i'm interested this guy or that guy and silly questions about sex. One day, he was like "but I know you aren't the one-night kinda of girl" and suggested i starting dating. He even suggested himself, and I hinted to yes...but nothing has happened. Recently he's started giving me hugs whenever he sees me, and makes sure that they are long hugs. I'm just confused to whether he is just looking for sex...or if he wants a relationship?

2007-03-26 15:34:22 · 5 answers · asked by shy_gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother-in law is getting married April 14th and wants me to plan everything.. from the cake to the food,bevrages everything and she only gave us $300 to do everything, we live in a really nice house and we are going to through a cheesy party does anyone have any good cheap idea

2007-03-26 15:33:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Basically this was a very small lie.
My freind Barbra called me during my friend's Tammy birthday party. Well Barbra HATES Tammy for something than happen nearly 2 years ago (Yes, Barbra can hold a grudge) and due to a recent event in Barbra's life, she has given up drinking.
Barbra has told me that she isn't going to hate me for being friends with Tammy but I get the feeling it bothers her, even though she says it doesn't.
And Barbra has said she doesn't care that I still drink, she doesn't expect her friends to stop because she wouldn't either.

So she calls me during Tammys birthday party and I would rather not answer and say I'm having a blast at Tammy's so I don't answer. She calls again right after, and again I chose not to answer.

The next day she ask why I didn't answer and I said I left my phone at home. Well I NEVER leave me phone at home so she asked somoene at the party and they told her I had it.

What can I say to her to help her forgive me?

2007-03-26 15:32:15 · 13 answers · asked by simply_college 3 in Friends

Yes I know she is busy all the time. Long hours at the hospital and all, (Dr. Type). But still, I do a ton around the house with cleaning, laundry, clothes, cooking, yard work, babysitting, dropping and picking up the kids, etc etc etc, plus work a 45hr/week real job. You would think she would make some time for me and our relationship. I've given her everything she has wanted, but it seems like she never listens to me now. I don't feel like a husband anymore, more like a roommate? I want to keep loving her, but I need to feel loved back. Hell, even a "Thank You" and a hug would be nice! Or am I just being to self centered and clingy? The situation is really, really, really starting to effect my moods. No I don't smoke or drink, just cuss to much now. Ladies, what is your perspective? Or should I just turn it over to God and let him deal with it? Thanks for your inputs, even the bad ones.

2007-03-26 15:31:57 · 25 answers · asked by rj842cc 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why does the priest pronouce man and wife? Isn't it supposed to be husband and wife? If man is used then wife should be woman.

2007-03-26 15:31:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would American and European girls like:
Chinese?
Japanese?
Koreans?
Filipinos?
Malaysians?
Indians?
Thais?

2007-03-26 15:31:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can you trust love ? how can you get back at someone you love and care for ? what the point for love you break up fight ? what if your love hurts you ? should i try to get back with my ex i hope im not to late i hope hes not going out with no body even though he cheated once what should i do

2007-03-26 15:31:43 · 3 answers · asked by shatavious g 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom has insane mood swings. my step mom tells me when and when i cant come to my dads. my dad wont listen to me. My mom really is unstable she is always goping out to see boyfirends on school nights and doesnt come back till 1 am. if you say anything she doesnt want to hear she screams and yells and cusses and hits me. waht should i do. im not trying to whine i just dont know what to do anymore.

2007-03-26 15:31:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My dad and I have had a rocky relationship since my parent's divorce. I can't forget the abuse in the house before the divorce, but still tried to patch things up a bit. Forgive and forget, you know, but he keeps giving me new reasons to not want to talk to him. He visited last year, Sep or Oct sometime, for a couple days. When he left he said he'd be back in a week. He didn't show and never called. Then just today he sent an email about basically nothing but I had a question for him relating to the email. I replied to his email with my question and told him about an awesome job I landed a couple weeks ago. My mom had been urging me to tell him about it and call about nothing before hand but I didn't want to because he didn't even call to let me know he'd not be back. So, he replies to my reply, but not one word is in relation to my good job news. What the f?
Am I wrong?
Does this sound too juvenile?

Sorry it's long, but the question requires details.

2007-03-26 15:30:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, I am a homophobic, (please don't judge)
reason #1 he likes training with a bunch of guys (fighting rubbing each other on graplying)#2 he makes remarks of how many sports and history man are/were gay, #3he is femenine somethimes, #4he doesn't know how fix anything#5 he watch the bareback mountain movie alone, am I getting crazy??? please help.

2007-03-26 15:30:18 · 12 answers · asked by ups2005 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and leave it at that

2007-03-26 15:30:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please tell me i'm not alone!

2007-03-26 15:29:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mom is going crazy and making me do everything b/c my brother is a boy and dont gotta do nothing!
My brother stoped helping me and we're fighting non stop.
My dad is getting very sick and still wont stop smoking (thats kiiling him)
My friends are getting high and becoming crackasses
My pets get on my nervers
My heart has been broken into many little peices
Now you tell me what do I do next?

2007-03-26 15:28:16 · 22 answers · asked by Pookie! 4 in Friends

I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I HAD NOT been talking to her since she didn't want to talk to me anymore. We said hi occasionally, I thought things would be cool between us. I tried to talk to her. I said Hey how are you? She said nothing. I tried to talk about how she was helping with something (she was inactive at the moment). Still nothing. I told her I know we haven't talked in the longest time (I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back), but I only wanted us to be FRIENDS again. I couldn't bring myself to say I missed her because it seemed like she wasn't hearing me. She kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I wanted to say what I felt about her, but all my feelings about her besides "I love you" wouldn't come up. I wanted to say I love you. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else.

2007-03-26 15:27:59 · 3 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

I want to know what is the stage between like and love because I've been dating this guy for three months now. Because of our busy schedules we only been out on three dates, however we've known each other for 6 years. We text and send e-mails everyday and talk on the phone a few times a week. I really like him a lot, but I know it's too early for love. What's the stage in between? Thanks.

2007-03-26 15:26:39 · 7 answers · asked by bluegirl5 4 in Singles & Dating

so please help we have no idea for any songs

2007-03-26 15:26:38 · 10 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

So, I'm getting married by the end of 2007, and I know I have tons to do. I'm moving into his house, so I know I need to buy some new stuff. I'm sure all of his stuff is old, and I'm sure his ex picked it all out.
Anyway, what kind of preparations do I need to do? What did you do a year before your wedding? I've already got my dress picked out. The wedding is going to be at a house. I've got the main stuff already done, I just need to know about all the small stuff I need to do? Any suggestions?

2007-03-26 15:26:09 · 4 answers · asked by Kat 5 in Weddings

2007-03-26 15:25:42 · 7 answers · asked by teeple6 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 15:25:41 · 13 answers · asked by Toodie 1 in Singles & Dating

is it ok for my boyfriend to have a girl thats his friend and they have a closer connection then me and him.? or should i watch out for that?

2007-03-26 15:25:33 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Classii1♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

i need to date. i know. i want to learn cause i dont want to grow up into a freak but how do i make it clear that i need someone?

2007-03-26 15:24:56 · 7 answers · asked by dorkk8531226 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 15:24:06 · 17 answers · asked by jessehowell2002 1 in Marriage & Divorce