is it ok for my boyfriend to have a girl thats his friend and they have a closer connection then me and him.? or should i watch out for that?
2007-03-26 15:25:33 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Classii1♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if they were friends before you got together, nothing to worry about.
if they became friends in the time u've been dating TROUBLE.
2007-03-26 15:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by JayJay <3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With one of my ex-boyfriends I had a guy friend and we were very close but we were before he and I started dating and I explained that to him and he said as long as I am honest with him and I was then they met each other and everything was cool, until my friend thought I deserved better and thought he should break us up and that killed me. I ended up losing the love of my life and one of my very closest friends I ever had. So it's ok to a point just watch things and be cautious, don't let her run either of your life's the 2 of you need to make your decisions together. Good Luck!
2007-03-26 22:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the case, why did he still courts you in the first place? You should have the closer bond to him that the other girl. You should talk to him about that and should watch out.
2007-03-26 22:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by alain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's possible for soemthing like that to happen, because i have a friend that im closer to than my own bf...
But I don't think that you need to feel like you need to watch out for her. If you trust your bf, then there's your answer.
If they really are JUST FRIENDS, then everything will be fine.
But its perfectly normal to fell a little jealous
:D
but he's with YOU, not her, right?
so he must care for YOU
2007-03-26 22:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by Juliette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay for guys to be friends with girls, but he shouldn't have a better connection with her then with you. I would watch him if I were you.
2007-03-26 22:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have him! My husband cheated on me with "a friend". They had all the ooportunity to get together before he met me, but waited until I was in the picture and I got hurt.
We are still together, but the hurt will never go away. I chose this hell, don't you do it!
Much luck sweetie!
2007-03-26 22:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by pooty36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should watch out for that because they might be already seeing each other or they will later on. if he really cares for you I think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel about that. He should understand you and if he gets mad that's cause something is going on. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-26 22:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by christina b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See I don't like that because i don't trust females. As soon as they get "drunk" they're going to have sex and blame it on the liquor. I'm not saying that all girls or like that but that's how it goes most of the time. Keep an eye on that crap, but don't worry yourself silly over it.
2007-03-26 22:34:32 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she know you? Have you met her? If you say yes to these questions then things aren't so bad. If you haven't met her and he tries to keep her low key then watch out!
2007-03-26 22:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is an ugly emotion. If he was honest with you from the beginning...and knew her first, then I would say go with the flow and be her friend too.
2007-03-26 22:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by jzmn2btrfly121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would watch out!! I had the same thing happen to me and it didn't turn out well!
2007-03-26 22:32:16 · answer #11 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋