I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I HAD NOT been talking to her since she didn't want to talk to me anymore. We said hi occasionally, I thought things would be cool between us. I tried to talk to her. I said Hey how are you? She said nothing. I tried to talk about how she was helping with something (she was inactive at the moment). Still nothing. I told her I know we haven't talked in the longest time (I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back), but I only wanted us to be FRIENDS again. I couldn't bring myself to say I missed her because it seemed like she wasn't hearing me. She kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I wanted to say what I felt about her, but all my feelings about her besides "I love you" wouldn't come up. I wanted to say I love you. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else.
2007-03-26 15:27:59 · 3 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I'll just see you around." That was the only time I tried to talk to her. She talked to everyone in the hall but me. I left her. I'm wondering what should I do for her birthday this week? After her birthday, I'm forgetting all about her because I see that she'll never care for me the way I do for her.
I'll ask this in the form of a poll. Should I-
#1-Just say happy birthday to her (she's turning 17 and I'm 17)
#2-Completely ignore her
If I completely ignored her (which she did to me this year on my birthday and she knew it was my birthday) wouldn't that just be being immature, being petty, or doing evil for evil? Even though I think that's what I have to do.
If I at least say happy birthday, then am I being the bigger person, showing that I'm still going to treat her right no matter how she treats me (although I'M ALREADY PAYING HER NO ATTENTION by not calling, messaging, or talking to her except for when I said I tried) ?
2007-03-26 15:28:26 · update #1
We had a friendship that lasted 4 months and I care about her alot, enough to WANT to get her something just because (as well as to let her go) but I'm just NOT going to.
2007-03-26 15:28:59 · update #2
I ask again because some people seem to not get the question. I'll tabulate the votes between say something to her or not and make my decision from that.
2007-03-26 15:50:30 · update #3
wow, i think you need to get over her since you've been asking this same question over and over. lol. i know that you fell in love with her but if it's gone this far? come on buddy, no girl is worth your pain and the one that is wont make you hurt. i learnt that (well it was "no guy") from my best friend and he knew what he was talking about. so get over her, find a new girl or even a new friend. i'm sorry that you're feeling this way but you're going to have to let her go if you can't get the guts to just talk to her in person by herself instead of writing letters. i know letters are a great idea, but some might find it not "personal" enough. so try talking to her, tell her "will you listen to me this one time. when i'm done, you can decide whether or not this will be my last time talking with you. So..." and go on from there. there's your final answer to get over her. tell this story the end and good bye and hopefully you guys will get together but if not that's even better. well you take care now.
2007-03-26 15:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Kihara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 17:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by domina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say bye to her at the door with flowers, while she sees your new gf waiting in your rented Vette parked at the curb.
How's that?
2007-03-26 15:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋