ok, I am a homophobic, (please don't judge)
reason #1 he likes training with a bunch of guys (fighting rubbing each other on graplying)#2 he makes remarks of how many sports and history man are/were gay, #3he is femenine somethimes, #4he doesn't know how fix anything#5 he watch the bareback mountain movie alone, am I getting crazy??? please help.
2007-03-26 15:30:18 · 12 answers · asked by ups2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are not going crazy... He is definitley showing sighns of being gay or bi sexual.... Just ask him if he is gay and who knows he may tell you! Not knowing how to fix anything does not make him gay though lol.
2007-03-26 16:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sorry, this made me laugh. "Ok, I am homophobic, (please don't judge)" Talk about hypocrites!
Anyways,
1. fighting is a little gay, but if he's not getting sexual pleasure out of it, he's not gay.
2. So what?
3. He is feminine sometimes?? Haha, gender is not black and white. It does not mean he is gay!
4. Now you've got to be kidding!
5. Okay? So?
It sounds to me like your husband isn't a homophobe and tells you these things because he's sick to death of your ignorant stereotypes and your homophobia. Grow up.
2007-03-26 22:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Please don't jump on conclusions so fast! just because he is maybe a supporter of gay/lesbians community, it doesn't mean anything! And the Brokebackmountain movie, I think is good, but why is watching by himself, you should better answear yourself, it is maybe because you totally blew in his face about your opinion, reflecting gays?
Please talk to him NICE, and stop making up your mind, and exaggerating over things, which includes his opinions..I know allot of guys whom are a bit feminine, or don't know how to fix things, but YOU KNEW about this I HOPE, before you got married!!!
Don't make mistakes in over-judging the people you love, because you can loose!!!!
2007-03-26 22:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by kittybebe12 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well the last thing you said is the only thing that makes me think well maybe. In what way is he feminine? My husband can't fix anything either but he isn't gay.
2007-03-26 22:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by SheRa 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My best friend wonders the same about her husband. because he's overly crazy about the cat, watches cooking channels all the time and he made brownies recently
2007-03-26 22:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he is just open minded....
But I am sure you can test him a bit more...
Show magazines... tell him this gay guy is handsome...
see his reaction
2007-03-26 22:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by EnjoyR3d 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's headed in the other direction.
2007-03-26 22:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Does he like to do the naked pretzel with you? Therein lies the answer.
2007-03-26 23:03:05 · answer #8 · answered by WILLIAM W 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh man he got to be gay, sorry but sounds a little weird. maybe he is bi-sexual.
2007-03-26 22:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
lol!your not alone on that there's been times i thought my husband was too,maybe because we know them so well i don't know good luck though,have you asked him if he was?
2007-03-26 22:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋