Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

I am playing soccer for my school, but the coach is being a real butthole towards me (more than a coach usually is, anyway). Like one time we were losing a game and I suggested we changed the alignments and he told me to shut up and not give my opinion. Then every time I am discussing something about soccer or whatever he acts like if he doesn't care. I asked him if he could come pick me up at my house, which isn't far away from his, for a fund raiser we are having on Saturdays, and he staight up said no. People in practices are always hitting each other and playing around, but when I do it he gets on to me about it and tries to embarrass me in front of my friends. What should I do? He's really starting to piss me off.

2007-03-26 15:03:05 · 1 answers · asked by Namas yo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he said he had a girld freind, but he kinds of flirt with me. like throwing little pieces of paper to me and things like that. were in a play togther. but he is not good loooking, not fat, or not that short or tall either. i dont like his music, wtich is good charlote, and im a slow person, like jazz! um he dresses... like with shirt that say " pac man"!! ooo and he wears braclest that look like dogs necklece!! and also wears shirt that are strips. not my type, and his hair!! oooh. not up to date. and i dont even like him as a freind. what should i do? m i been shallow?
i mean, im fat, not so great!! but not like 200 pounds!!

be freinds with the guy or what!!??

thanks in advance. :D

2007-03-26 15:02:18 · 11 answers · asked by Traveling girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Am I the only college student who dosn't drink, sleep around or smoke anything...I'v had alcohol before but it dosnt make me have a "better time" and I dont really enjoy drinking and partying. Im afriad one day i'll be old and wish I had experimented becuase this the the step in human development where you do that stuff. All of my friends drink, smoke and party. Am I the only one who dosnt?? I like to have fun, but making myself sick or harming by body isnt fun to me. i know....nerd

2007-03-26 15:01:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-26 15:00:23 · 21 answers · asked by rachael_lehman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Say you had this really good female friend who you had an absolutely noticable and strong connection with. The girl is also real pretty. You have the exact same sense of humor and you think the girl is an absolute genuinely nice and hilarious girl, would you try and take this further, into a dating relationship or would you be happy just being friends?

2007-03-26 15:00:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my x split up about 4/5 years ago i still think the world of her, we still see each other alot around 4 days a week. we both have had relasonships over this time. but mine just don't work out because i still think about her and it gets in the way. i did'nt tell her how i felt but i tourtht it was very clear that i still liked her very much. anyway the prob is that she is now going out with my best mate and i am finding it very hard to cope with. when she comes around my house and he follows her, i feel that they are rubbing my nose in it and get very jealous when i see them playing around and flirting with each other, now i'm not talking to them. i know that it is nothing to do with me what she dose in her life but it still hurts very much. and i'm sure he knew that i still love her very much, i never told any of my mate how i feel about her but they all seemed to know what i thing of her. so am i right or wrong in the way i feel? and what would you do now?

2007-03-26 15:00:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-26 14:59:10 · 2 answers · asked by REBECCA D 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been fighting and she told me that shes not as attracted to me anymore. So I need some advice. This is the way I see it. Things will be going great and then she will get mad at me for something rediculous. the other day she got mad because I couldnt remember where I put a gift that she had gotten me a year ago. She stayed mad at me the whole night and left me alone at a party where I knew no one. I later remembered that night where it was and told her I knew where it was. She called me a liar and still ignored me. When I got home I found the gift just like I said I would....and I told her I had it. Her reply was simply....well good. She would not apologize even after knowing she was wrong. I do not understand this. Why cant she just admit she made a mistake. She told me today that she feels like all I do is complain to her about never being able to admit when shes wrong...and told me she feels inferior to me. I need help bad....please help!

2007-03-26 14:59:06 · 13 answers · asked by shamrock2929 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you give your girlfriend any supplementary card? if so, why? if no, why? please advise...I love her, is that another way to show love and status instead of supplementary card?

2007-03-26 14:58:34 · 9 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been going out w/ a guy for 4 months and i feel we are ready to start kissing on the cheek. I have never kissed anyone before and have know idea on how or what to do. He is about 6 inches taller than me and we both are quiet and shy. neither one of us as ever done something like this before. Please help! Any information and/or advise is much appreciated!!! Thanks for the help.

2007-03-26 14:58:23 · 7 answers · asked by it'smeagain... 2 in Singles & Dating

they are 14 karat white gold, the engagement ring has three diamonds-past-present-future-i think my ex paid 3000 for the set.

2007-03-26 14:57:37 · 5 answers · asked by adi23 1 in Weddings

recently I recognised.....in the club, during the dance with guys..90% of guys who dance with try to lift me....Is that guys nature which wanna show off their power or something???

2007-03-26 14:57:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 14:56:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boy friend have been together for 11 mo almost. and last night he told me that he loves me and loves other things too, like fishing and hunting... him and his dad are really close... and i think his dad has told him that he spends too much time with me and he also tells him that i have his balls in my purse! but anyways he would rather go fishing and hunting than be with me. and i seriously base my life around his. i try to spend as much time with him as possible. but im thinking i should'nt be so avaliable. what do you guys think?? im not really a kind of person that will tell anyone my problems but this is kinda bugging me... do you think he really loves me?

2007-03-26 14:56:44 · 8 answers · asked by You'll shoot your eye out! 3 in Singles & Dating

2.5 years and at one point we were "On the same page" but he moved away, two states away and wanted me to join him, but do to family issues I could not...I still love him; Even though I know he has moved on...How do I shake these feelings? I have been on other dates, but I compare every man to him...

2007-03-26 14:54:59 · 6 answers · asked by Mommy Dearest 5 in Singles & Dating

What's the difference between love and lust?

2007-03-26 14:54:44 · 9 answers · asked by just me 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married a little over a year. We are expecting our first child. His job requires him to work odd hours and he usually only has one off day a month, which he usually spends fixing things around the house. I am so lonely. I no longer work due to pregnancy and I am by myself all the time. I miss my husband so much. He works 12 hour days so by the time he comes home and eats dinner and showers it is time for him to go to bed so he can get up early. We are doing GOOD if we have sex one time a month. We are both young and healthy as well so there aren't health issues affecting anything. I love him very much but I feel SO alone. Any advice will be much appreciated. Thank you.

2007-03-26 14:54:23 · 34 answers · asked by Motivated 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I know, I know...everyone always says, "If you are in love, you just *know.*"

But the problem is...I *don't* know.

So...how do you know if you are love?

2007-03-26 14:54:15 · 9 answers · asked by just me 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm physically attracted to you means....he is only interested in my body???

2007-03-26 14:54:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've got someone on my mind and just can't get them out. We're not dating, but I like him. I see him usually 3 or 4 times a week, and lately we've been spending more time together. I'm still trying to figure out if he likes me too. I hate it because I sound like I have some high school crush, but we're in our mid-late 20s. I just can't get this guy out of my head! What do you do when this happens?

2007-03-26 14:54:03 · 4 answers · asked by Squeegy 2 in Singles & Dating

if this minute u have been told that u'll get anything u wish for ..whats ur wishes ??
i wish to find my soul mate ... a castle in italy ... jaguar ... another family ;)

2007-03-26 14:53:55 · 11 answers · asked by Nicholet 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

You know what i mean.

2007-03-26 14:53:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship for two years now. A couple of months ago I found out that my man was cheating. Today we went to the branch were he opened one of his bank accounts to change his account numbers an order new checks. We finally arrived at the bank and he told me the place next door made good food so I should go there while he go to the bank. I went to get something to eat and went into the bank when I was done. I sat in the waiting area since the desk he was sitting at didn't have any extra seats. While sitting in the reception area I heard him and the banker talking VERY friendly as if they know each other personally so... I listen closely. I over hear her say "you are so lucky because I would be all over your ***." He starts blushing so I walk over there. I called his name twice and he was so focused on her that he didn't even hear me. I was so hurt that I waited in the car until he was done. Do you think he's still cheating with her or did I jump to conclusions?

2007-03-26 14:53:35 · 4 answers · asked by loveangel 1 in Singles & Dating

we're dating 5months - got serious - and he decides to break up cause he had someone else on him minD- I said cool - and 2 weeks later I decided to date someone else i was interested in - he calls me, and starts calling me names, and when i said I loved him, says he does not... I ended that, and started talkin 2 him again, and he gets all shallow and sayin stuff again.... So i leave!!
he shifted countries for his job - calls me a few days later - He's met someone who he's been in love with for 4yrs and He is sorry abt the way i feel for him......
2 months later - gets back with me - 15 days later - gets to to tell him my deepest secret and then decides that I cant be with him cause of this - So i leave...
He flies back to country - 3 months later
begs for us to meet up - I dodged him the 15 days he was in town, and said NO!! not happening - However I wished him on his birthday.... He did not bother on mine!!

2007-03-26 14:53:31 · 5 answers · asked by Jane M 1 in Weddings

first time to a concert - P!nk actually i'm a girl and i am going with my boyfriend its in the city part of sydney Australia any suggestion and tips just not sure what to wear. any helpfully hints? it is in a big entertainment centre with lost of people and i'm in my early 20s too if that helps! thanks!

2007-03-26 14:52:53 · 2 answers · asked by just_jemma 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 14:52:51 · 5 answers · asked by MRS DEE 2 U 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-26 14:52:47 · 7 answers · asked by SugaLova 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend, a guy i have liked since 2nd grade, and we have been friends ever since, who asked me out about 2 months ago, but he is my cousin's best friend. How do i find out if he is using me to marry into my cousins family? please help me!!!!

2007-03-26 14:52:20 · 3 answers · asked by .lyssa<3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my freind and i like the same guy but she talk to him moer then i do and she know that i like him and i think she told him the i like him but i know if she did i dont want to go up to him and say any thing to him becuz maybe she didnt tell him i think she did be cuz every time we are in school he look at me and mells at me ans winks too what dones that mean?

2007-03-26 14:52:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i'm going to this party and i'm not really friends with anyone there. i was wondering if it would be ok to ask the person hosting the parting if i could invite a friend just because she wanted to go. would that be ok??????

2007-03-26 14:52:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends