I have been in a relationship for two years now. A couple of months ago I found out that my man was cheating. Today we went to the branch were he opened one of his bank accounts to change his account numbers an order new checks. We finally arrived at the bank and he told me the place next door made good food so I should go there while he go to the bank. I went to get something to eat and went into the bank when I was done. I sat in the waiting area since the desk he was sitting at didn't have any extra seats. While sitting in the reception area I heard him and the banker talking VERY friendly as if they know each other personally so... I listen closely. I over hear her say "you are so lucky because I would be all over your ***." He starts blushing so I walk over there. I called his name twice and he was so focused on her that he didn't even hear me. I was so hurt that I waited in the car until he was done. Do you think he's still cheating with her or did I jump to conclusions?
2007-03-26 14:53:35 · 4 answers · asked by loveangel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everybody cheats. Trust me, I had two such experiences with my girlfriends. It was painful, I can relate to your feelings.
Coming back to your question. A man can cheat for many reasons, but largely for two reasons: One he is untrustworthy, no matter what you do, he is gonna go for the young hot ones!! That kinda guys, you just cant do anything.
Two, maybe he is bored and wants adventure! And that lady in the bank just complimented him and caught his eye!!
You can either forgive him or leave him but the final line is "Is he worth the love and Is he worth forgiving him for what he did?" . Worth as in a person so unique, loving, caring and someone who made your life look different. Not just the run-of-the-mill Romeos.
Get an answer for that question, you will know what to do.
Other than that, confront him with this question of his "close encounters" with the banker. Remember you should not bring ANY sort of anger or melodrama. You have to be pragmatic, loving and tactful...
Hope this helps
.:Fishie:.
2007-03-27 00:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by Fishie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may no longer learn a guy to a woman. each is different. yet a guy, and a woman, supplement one yet another. In different words, one guy and one lady (mutually) is one unit. they seem to be a complementary pair.
2016-10-20 12:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just flirting with her. I don't think he was cheating with her.
2007-03-31 08:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by itsme2033 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not
2007-04-03 04:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by Newtron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋